
Beyond Silence: The Healing Power of Being Heard
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12/10/24 • 53 min
How do you transform a voice that feels discordant into one that resonates with power, clarity, and heart?
In this episode of Soulful Speaking, Lauri interviews Candis Fox, a cognitive and behavioral science expert with a deep understanding of myth and human patterning. Born into a world where their relentless curiosity was often labeled as “annoying,” Candis’ early life experiences initially stifled their voice. Candis opens up about their deeply personal journey from silence to vocal freedom. Together, Lauri and Candis discuss the complexities of bravery and vulnerability as they explore the power of presence, the importance of showing up for others, and how true connection goes beyond words.
TAKEAWAYS:
- Vulnerability is Brave: Acts of bravery often feel like fear and trauma when you’re in the midst of them. Trust those closest to you who see your courage even when you don’t.
- Own Your Voice: When you align your voice, heart, mind, and body you’ll ultimately draw the right people into your life and business.
- Just Show Up: Simply being there for someone going through darkness or hard times is the most powerful thing you can do.
- “Nos” are Powerful. Setting boundaries is key to cultivate authentic relationships based on mutual respect, not pedestal-placing.
- Embrace Joy: Healing and personal growth can emerge from mischief and play.
About Candis:
Candis Fox (any pronoun) has combined their 10+ years in cognitive & behavioral science, Master’s in Education and lifelong study of myth & human patterning to provide leaders and families deepen their relational intelligence. Candis provides regenerative, effective strategies & practices for matching internal and external success through the art of relating.
Connect with Candis:
https://candisfox.com/
https://take.quiz-maker.com/QQ72XDA1C
https://www.linkedin.com/in/candisfox/
Join me for the Soulful Speaking Playshop!
Take the Speaker Alter Ego quiz to find out which protective mask hides your natural radiance so you can learn how to get present, connect deeply, and share your vision when it matters most!
https://voice-matters.com/speaker-alter-ego-quiz/
Thank you so much for listening!
Take the free quiz and learn which Soul SuckerTM you need to release to free your voice: https://voice-matters.com/soul-sucker-quiz/
Follow me on:
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Linkedin https://www.linkedin.com/in/lauri-smith-voice-matters/
How do you transform a voice that feels discordant into one that resonates with power, clarity, and heart?
In this episode of Soulful Speaking, Lauri interviews Candis Fox, a cognitive and behavioral science expert with a deep understanding of myth and human patterning. Born into a world where their relentless curiosity was often labeled as “annoying,” Candis’ early life experiences initially stifled their voice. Candis opens up about their deeply personal journey from silence to vocal freedom. Together, Lauri and Candis discuss the complexities of bravery and vulnerability as they explore the power of presence, the importance of showing up for others, and how true connection goes beyond words.
TAKEAWAYS:
- Vulnerability is Brave: Acts of bravery often feel like fear and trauma when you’re in the midst of them. Trust those closest to you who see your courage even when you don’t.
- Own Your Voice: When you align your voice, heart, mind, and body you’ll ultimately draw the right people into your life and business.
- Just Show Up: Simply being there for someone going through darkness or hard times is the most powerful thing you can do.
- “Nos” are Powerful. Setting boundaries is key to cultivate authentic relationships based on mutual respect, not pedestal-placing.
- Embrace Joy: Healing and personal growth can emerge from mischief and play.
About Candis:
Candis Fox (any pronoun) has combined their 10+ years in cognitive & behavioral science, Master’s in Education and lifelong study of myth & human patterning to provide leaders and families deepen their relational intelligence. Candis provides regenerative, effective strategies & practices for matching internal and external success through the art of relating.
Connect with Candis:
https://candisfox.com/
https://take.quiz-maker.com/QQ72XDA1C
https://www.linkedin.com/in/candisfox/
Join me for the Soulful Speaking Playshop!
Take the Speaker Alter Ego quiz to find out which protective mask hides your natural radiance so you can learn how to get present, connect deeply, and share your vision when it matters most!
https://voice-matters.com/speaker-alter-ego-quiz/
Thank you so much for listening!
Take the free quiz and learn which Soul SuckerTM you need to release to free your voice: https://voice-matters.com/soul-sucker-quiz/
Follow me on:
Instagram https://www.instagram.com/voice_matters_llc/
Linkedin https://www.linkedin.com/in/lauri-smith-voice-matters/
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Take the free quiz and learn which Soul SuckerTM you need to release to free your voice: https://voice-matters.com/soul-sucker-quiz/
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Soulful Speaking - Beyond Silence: The Healing Power of Being Heard
Transcript
Welcome listeners .
LauriToday , my guest is Candic Fox . Candice combined their 10 plus years in cognitive and behavioral science , master's degree in education and a lifelong study of myth and human patterning to help leaders and families deepen their relational intelligence . Welcome , candice . Thank you for dancing yeah .
CandisIf you like this episode you’ll love
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