206. From Fearful to Fierce: How to Build Unshakable Self-Belief
11/14/24 • 12 min
In today’s episode we tackle the habit of seeking approval. We all know the relief and reassurance that come with a pat on the back from a boss, client, or friend. But when we rely on that approval to feel confident and capable, we’re setting ourselves up for dependence, self-doubt, and stalled growth. True confidence is built from within, not handed out by others.
Through this episode, you'll discover:
- Why seeking external validation keeps you stuck and prevents real growth.
- Inspiring stories from my clients who shifted from approval-seeking to fierce self-belief—and the profound impact it had on their careers.
- Practical strategies to stop depending on others’ opinions and start trusting yourself, including learning to set boundaries with feedback and redefining failure as growth.
- The 5 transformative steps to self-confidence that will help you reclaim your power, make quicker decisions, and show up unapologetically in any room.
If you’re ready to stop letting the need for approval control your choices, this episode is a must-listen!
Resources to further your learning:
1. The Confidence Code by Katty Kay and Claire Shipman – A fantastic read on building self-confidence and understanding how validation impacts us, especially in professional environments.
2. Radical Acceptance by Tara Brach – This book explores the importance of self-approval and letting go of the need for external validation.
3. Dare to Lead by Brené Brown – Brown’s insights on vulnerability and confidence provide powerful tools for building self-trust and resilience.
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Don’t even know where to begin in improving your people skills?
Are you ready to leave social stress behind and go from where you are to where you want to be?
Book a Social Strategy Session HERE
Free Guide: The Social Skills Playbook
Have a question that needs an answer. Email me at [email protected]
In today’s episode we tackle the habit of seeking approval. We all know the relief and reassurance that come with a pat on the back from a boss, client, or friend. But when we rely on that approval to feel confident and capable, we’re setting ourselves up for dependence, self-doubt, and stalled growth. True confidence is built from within, not handed out by others.
Through this episode, you'll discover:
- Why seeking external validation keeps you stuck and prevents real growth.
- Inspiring stories from my clients who shifted from approval-seeking to fierce self-belief—and the profound impact it had on their careers.
- Practical strategies to stop depending on others’ opinions and start trusting yourself, including learning to set boundaries with feedback and redefining failure as growth.
- The 5 transformative steps to self-confidence that will help you reclaim your power, make quicker decisions, and show up unapologetically in any room.
If you’re ready to stop letting the need for approval control your choices, this episode is a must-listen!
Resources to further your learning:
1. The Confidence Code by Katty Kay and Claire Shipman – A fantastic read on building self-confidence and understanding how validation impacts us, especially in professional environments.
2. Radical Acceptance by Tara Brach – This book explores the importance of self-approval and letting go of the need for external validation.
3. Dare to Lead by Brené Brown – Brown’s insights on vulnerability and confidence provide powerful tools for building self-trust and resilience.
**
Don’t even know where to begin in improving your people skills?
Are you ready to leave social stress behind and go from where you are to where you want to be?
Book a Social Strategy Session HERE
Free Guide: The Social Skills Playbook
Have a question that needs an answer. Email me at [email protected]
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204. Ditch the Dependence: Building Confidence Without External Validation
In today’s episode, we dive into the powerful topic of external validation and how reliance on others’ approval can limit your growth and confidence.
For professionals, the need for validation from bosses, colleagues, or clients can create a cycle of dependence that keeps you playing small. We break down common scenarios where this need shows up in the workplace, plus actionable strategies to help you build self-confidence from within. You’ll learn how to shift your focus from others' reactions to your own internal standards and gain practical tips for fostering true social confidence that’s grounded in you.
Tune in for empowering insights and transformative strategies to break free from approval-seeking and start owning your professional and personal success!
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Don’t even know where to begin in improving your people skills?
Are you ready to leave social stress behind and go from where you are to where you want to be?
Book a Social Strategy Session HERE
Free Guide: The Social Skills Playbook
Have a question that needs an answer. Email me at [email protected]
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In this heartfelt episode, I’m taking you behind the scenes of my personal journey—from a shy, introverted child to a corporate employee who avoided the spotlight, to an entrepreneur who finally broke free from fear and stepped into confidence.
If you’ve ever felt held back by social anxiety, nervousness, or overthinking, this episode is for you. I’m sharing how my struggles shaped The School of Social Mastery, a brand-new program designed to help founders, business owners, and rising professionals overcome social challenges and step into their natural confidence.
You’ll also hear all about the exciting opportunity to join as a founding member, with exclusive perks you won’t want to miss!
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
- My story of shyness and introversion and how it impacted my corporate and entrepreneurial life.
- Why social confidence is the key to unlocking your full potential in business and life.
- What makes The School of Social Mastery a game-changer for professionals like you.
- How to join as a founding member and take advantage of early access and special pricing.
Ready to start your transformation? Get on the priority list today to be the first notified when the doors open to a limited number of founding members!
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Don’t even know where to begin in improving your people skills?
Are you ready to leave social stress behind and go from where you are to where you want to be?
Book a Social Strategy Session HERE
Free Guide: The Social Skills Playbook
Have a question that needs an answer. Email me at [email protected]
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