Side In My DMs
Explicit content warning
08/01/24 • 31 min
Sides define themselves as neither top nor bottom, preferring non-penetrative practices to buttstuff. In this episode, Gabe and Chris go deep with the “Messiah of Masturbation”, BATEBANDIT XL, about why he identifies as both a side and a bator, and why he created the BBXL Bate Bros, an international organization that holds online and in-person events for Black and Brown masturbation enthusiasts. Then our hosts learn all about what led BATEBANDIT XL to start making horny (and hot AF) hip-hop music chronicling his wild life as a bator. Plus, a special Side edition of “Pump or Dump?”
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Guests featured in this episode:
BATEBANDIT XL
BBXL BATE BROS
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Sides define themselves as neither top nor bottom, preferring non-penetrative practices to buttstuff. In this episode, Gabe and Chris go deep with the “Messiah of Masturbation”, BATEBANDIT XL, about why he identifies as both a side and a bator, and why he created the BBXL Bate Bros, an international organization that holds online and in-person events for Black and Brown masturbation enthusiasts. Then our hosts learn all about what led BATEBANDIT XL to start making horny (and hot AF) hip-hop music chronicling his wild life as a bator. Plus, a special Side edition of “Pump or Dump?”
Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: cruisingconfessions.com
Try Sniffies: sniffies.com
Follow Sniffies on Social:
Instagram: instagram.com/sniffiesapp
TikTik: tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp
Follow the hosts:
Gabe Gonzalez: instagram.com/gaybonez
Chris Patterson-Rosso: instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife
Guests featured in this episode:
BATEBANDIT XL
BBXL BATE BROS
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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This week Gabe and Chris explore different types of communication that can help us have hotter and more dynamic sexual experiences. First, our hosts dive into the growing phenomenon of content creators making “verbal” audio files to get listeners off. Then, sex work guru Tomik Dash pops by to offer tips to better communication in intimate scenes. Finally, author and deep-voiced daddy Dale Corvino explains how the sex journals he’s kept for decades help him better communicate with himself and inspired his hot new book, “Bonds and Boundaries”.
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Guests featured in this episode:
Induced Priapism
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Tomik Dash
Dale Corvino
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Couples Who Cruise Together
Some couples practice “strict” monogamy, while other couples pick up tricks, attend sex parties, and visit cruising spots together. Ain’t love grand? In this episode, Gabe and Chris talk to a couple who cruise and throw sex parties together, about how they make it work, deal with jealousy, and the pros and cons of pursuing partners in pairs! Plus: we stop by Brooklyn’s hottest new queer nightspot Animal to hear stories both hot and horrific - about hooking up with couples.
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Gabe Gonzalez: instagram.com/gaybonez
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Guests featured in this episode:
Leo and Jordan / JXXL
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Sniffies' Cruising Confessions - Side In My DMs
Transcript
Hey, viewers, Sniffy's Cruising Confessions is an explicit podcast about queer sex. Filter dirty words and unfiltered descriptions of sexual activities. If hearing about orgies, anonymous sex, kink, fetish, and more offends your sensibilities, you might want to skip this. Viewer discretion is advised. It's definitely not for kids.
Speaker 2Gabe, it's time for Cruising Confession. Now, I'm going to ask
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