Discussing Dynamics in Polyamorous and Queer Relationships w/ Rowan and Cal
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12/05/23 • 35 min
This week's episode includes special guests Rowan and Cal, both queer, non-binary and trans, and polyamorous. They share their personal relationship story which began while Rowan was married, and share the unique challenges they've had and discoveries they've made together throughout their relationship.
We dive deeply into the complexities, misconceptions and societal views surrounding polyamorous and queer relationships and identities. We examine the dynamics in both monogamous and polyamorous relationships, and the importance of communication, consent, honesty, and trust in navigating any relationship structure.
Rowan and Cal share their personal journeys with gender, sexuality, and relationship structures, their coming out processes, and how this relationship has helped them each to discover themselves in a deeper way. They offer invaluable insights into maintaining a relationship while undergoing personal transitions, and the need for understanding and support in our lives. Don't miss this enlightening conversation that not only challenges societal norms but also opens up new perspectives on love, identity, and relationships.
Follow me on TikTok and Instagram @shamelesslyshelly + @situationshiptosoulmate
This week's episode includes special guests Rowan and Cal, both queer, non-binary and trans, and polyamorous. They share their personal relationship story which began while Rowan was married, and share the unique challenges they've had and discoveries they've made together throughout their relationship.
We dive deeply into the complexities, misconceptions and societal views surrounding polyamorous and queer relationships and identities. We examine the dynamics in both monogamous and polyamorous relationships, and the importance of communication, consent, honesty, and trust in navigating any relationship structure.
Rowan and Cal share their personal journeys with gender, sexuality, and relationship structures, their coming out processes, and how this relationship has helped them each to discover themselves in a deeper way. They offer invaluable insights into maintaining a relationship while undergoing personal transitions, and the need for understanding and support in our lives. Don't miss this enlightening conversation that not only challenges societal norms but also opens up new perspectives on love, identity, and relationships.
Follow me on TikTok and Instagram @shamelesslyshelly + @situationshiptosoulmate
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Situationship to Soulmate - Discussing Dynamics in Polyamorous and Queer Relationships w/ Rowan and Cal
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Welcome to the Situation-Ship to Soulmate podcast . I'm your host , shelly , content creator , mental health counseling graduate student and a trained sex and relationship coach . After going through a lot of traumatic , unhealthy and toxic experiences throughout my 20s , I'm finally ready to use what I've learned over the years to help those of you who are still experiencing it . I wen
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