
S6E10: Banned Books: Non-Toxic Masculinity, by Zach Wagner, part 2 of 2
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04/23/24 • 50 min
- The Books of Deconstruction
- The Narrative of Sex and Conquest
- Broadening the Script
- Male Sexuality
- Injecting Shame
- Shame & Desire
- EMPish Communities and Being “Counter-Cultural”
- Internalized Narratives
- Desire
- Starting Sex Ed Early
- The Books of Deconstruction
- The Narrative of Sex and Conquest
- Broadening the Script
- Male Sexuality
- Injecting Shame
- Shame & Desire
- EMPish Communities and Being “Counter-Cultural”
- Internalized Narratives
- Desire
- Starting Sex Ed Early
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S6E09: Banned Books: Non Toxic Masculinity, with Zach Wagner, part 1 of 2
Healing from Purity Culture involves conversations of how Evangelical communities have created undue amounts of anxiety and pressure for men as well as women. We talk with Zachary Wagner (@zacharycwagner), author of the new book Non-Toxic Masculinity, about the importance of deconstructing simplistic, reductive practices of manhood and reimagining new ways that men can conceptualize themselves and create meaningful relationships. Zach talks with us about:
- Why Does the Book Matter Now:
- Generational Understandings of Masculinity
- The Power of the Purity Movement
- Purity Books
- The Effects of Christian Literature
- Purity Culture and Sex
- Violence as a Result of Purity Culture
- Purity Camp
- Reducing Each Other's Humanity
- Healing
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S6E11: Coming Out in Evangelical Families, with Singer-Songwriter, Adaline, part 1 of 2
One of the most common targets of Evangelical, Mormon, and Pentecostal (EMPish) communities in the 21st century are queer people. The moralizing of straight, married relationships places people who are attracted to folks of the same sex/gender and folks who are curious about sexual experiences with same sex/gendered people in terrible double binds. Folks can accept and practice sexuality in alignment with their sexual orientation in the face of name-calling, loss of relationships with family members, and threats of violence. Or they can squelch or hide their sexuality, or practice their sexuality in more secretive ways, which itself can have negative impacts. Coming out in EMPish communities carries a ton of undue emotional and relational pressure. To help us navigate that, we've invited singer-songwriter and founder of non-profit Bad Believer (@badbelievercommunity), Adaline (@adalinemusic), to share how she navigated her own coming out process. We talk with Adaline about her first album, Hymnal, as well as:
- Body Talk and EMPish Communities
- Hierarchy in Sin
- Binaries and Sexuality
- Co-Opting Coming Out
- Stories for Her Songs "Part of You" and "Waist Down"
- Building Personal Strength
- Trusting Desires
- Family Systems: When Your Pastor is Also Your Father
- Embracing Your Body
- Sensuality and the Music Video
- Coming Out and Guilt
- Her Nonprofit, Bad Believer
Check out Episode #68: Coming Out in Evangelical Families, with Singer-Songwriter, Adaline, part 1 of 2, on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.
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