Reveal Your Erotic Appetites
10/29/20 • 12 min
Amazing things happen when people tune in to Sex. Love. Power! This episode grew from a great story one listener shared with me. Our past episodes had her start opening up with her partner about her desires, tastes, and needs. This amazing woman listened and then just RAN WITH IT. I was so inspired that now I’m explicitly guiding you to do the same. Can’t wait to hear what unfolds at your house!
As you listen to this episode, you'll learn:
- Why it is challenging to communicate to your partner that you want THEM to lead in the bedroom
- The 3 key conversations you need to have with your partner about sex
- How to get out of your mind and into your body
- How to pinpoint your fantasies and how to share them
And more.
Join the conversation by listening, then share your story or response on our voicemail at 206-659-9865 or inside our free Secret Society on Mighty Networks.
"Sex is not superficial or shallow, or just for the newly in love. Sex is a gift that can keep on giving all our lives, infusing our days with vitality and pleasure and deep connection."
-Michele Lisenbury Christensen
Hot Moments in This Episode:
As smart, make-it-happen women, we don't have a lot of space where turn on and desire are discussed with the depth and the precision and the soul that they and we deserve. 00:13
What's most important for YOU to feel to get out of your head and into your body. 02:47
Wanna know my secret on-ramp? It could work for you too. 03:29
Find out the one fantasy that many successful women have. 04:24
Your turn ons are as unique as your thumbprint. They are absolutely individual to you. Same with your partner. 08:52
I hope you find this episode helps you start some smokin’ hot conversations with your partner that help you reveal yourself and see them in a new light, too. It is my deep pleasure and privilege to help awaken the erotic intelligence in long-married people so you can live a passionate love story for your whole lives long.
Episode 4: Safe Surrender: Asking him to lead. Erotic transcendence
If you and your partner (or maybe just you, as far as you know!) long for more closeness, heat, and intimacy in your relationship, I am here to help. More fun than therapy, more effective than anything, clients say coaching with me permanently uplevels their love, sex, leadership and life. CLICK HERE to apply for a consultation.
Join the conversation by listening, share your story or response on our voicemail at 206-659-9865 or inside our free Conscious Couples’ Circle on Mighty Networks.
If the conversations on this podcast are resonating for you, please leave a rating and ideally a review on your favorite podcast platform.
Ready to bring about a transformation in your relationship to yourself, your body, and your partner? CLICK HERE to apply for a consultation.
Amazing things happen when people tune in to Sex. Love. Power! This episode grew from a great story one listener shared with me. Our past episodes had her start opening up with her partner about her desires, tastes, and needs. This amazing woman listened and then just RAN WITH IT. I was so inspired that now I’m explicitly guiding you to do the same. Can’t wait to hear what unfolds at your house!
As you listen to this episode, you'll learn:
- Why it is challenging to communicate to your partner that you want THEM to lead in the bedroom
- The 3 key conversations you need to have with your partner about sex
- How to get out of your mind and into your body
- How to pinpoint your fantasies and how to share them
And more.
Join the conversation by listening, then share your story or response on our voicemail at 206-659-9865 or inside our free Secret Society on Mighty Networks.
"Sex is not superficial or shallow, or just for the newly in love. Sex is a gift that can keep on giving all our lives, infusing our days with vitality and pleasure and deep connection."
-Michele Lisenbury Christensen
Hot Moments in This Episode:
As smart, make-it-happen women, we don't have a lot of space where turn on and desire are discussed with the depth and the precision and the soul that they and we deserve. 00:13
What's most important for YOU to feel to get out of your head and into your body. 02:47
Wanna know my secret on-ramp? It could work for you too. 03:29
Find out the one fantasy that many successful women have. 04:24
Your turn ons are as unique as your thumbprint. They are absolutely individual to you. Same with your partner. 08:52
I hope you find this episode helps you start some smokin’ hot conversations with your partner that help you reveal yourself and see them in a new light, too. It is my deep pleasure and privilege to help awaken the erotic intelligence in long-married people so you can live a passionate love story for your whole lives long.
Episode 4: Safe Surrender: Asking him to lead. Erotic transcendence
If you and your partner (or maybe just you, as far as you know!) long for more closeness, heat, and intimacy in your relationship, I am here to help. More fun than therapy, more effective than anything, clients say coaching with me permanently uplevels their love, sex, leadership and life. CLICK HERE to apply for a consultation.
Join the conversation by listening, share your story or response on our voicemail at 206-659-9865 or inside our free Conscious Couples’ Circle on Mighty Networks.
If the conversations on this podcast are resonating for you, please leave a rating and ideally a review on your favorite podcast platform.
Ready to bring about a transformation in your relationship to yourself, your body, and your partner? CLICK HERE to apply for a consultation.
Previous Episode
Ask Michele: Being the Visionary in Your Relationship and Getting Partnership in Family Labor
On this episode - our first Ask Michele - I answer two great questions from listeners. One has been inviting her husband into deeper intimacy but is worried the relationship will get lopsided or he’ll begin to roll his eyes at her if she asks for more of what she envisions for them. The other reader is frustrated that, although her partner is doing a lot around the house while she works and he doesn’t, he does it on his timeframe, and it still feels like ultimately, the buck stops with HER. Listen in for my thoughts, which will apply to your life & love whether or not your circumstances match these listeners’ or not.
As you listen to this episode, you'll hear about/learn/discover:
- How to invite your beloved in deeper without fear
- The truth learned during my person couples counseling journey. Here’s a secret, I didn’t like what I heard
- How to create a truly egalitarian relationship that works for both of you
- What omelets and fruit salad have to do with relationships?
- Tips for when you feel like you are doing it all and need some help
And more.
Join the conversation by listening, then share your story or response on our voicemail at 206-659-9865 or inside our free Secret Society on Mighty Networks.
"If we're going to create egalitarian relationships, we're gonna have to be really intentional, and really clear eyed in how we approach this, because if we don't we wind up really pissed off and really exhausted. And neither of those feels remotely turned on, am I right?" - Michele Lisenbury Christensen
HOT MOMENTS IN THIS EPISODE:
Michele Lisenbury Christensen 3:31
1. The secret to getting to the next level when you don't know what you really want.
Michele Lisenbury Christensen 6:51
2. How to successfully frame a conversation when you fear your partner's response.
Michele Lisenbury Christensen 10:37
3. Learn to build and share with your partner the highest vision of your relationship, so that it becomes an organic part of your relationship.
Michele Lisenbury Christensen 15:00
4. PLUS tips on how to give your partner the information and ownership required to ease your burden today and always.
I hope you find this episode helps you see some of your own and your partner’s experiences in a refreshing new light. I hope it helps you remember your exquisite beauty, divinity, and intrinsic aliveness. And may the light within you illuminate the world around you.
Join the conversation by listening, share your story or response on our voicemail at 206-659-9865 or inside our free Conscious Couples’ Circle on Mighty Networks.
If the conversations on this podcast are resonating for you, please leave a rating and ideally a review on your favorite podcast platform.
Ready to bring about a transformation in your relationship to yourself, your body, and your partner? CLICK HERE to apply for a consultation.
Next Episode
Together in Tough Times
This is an intense week - amid an intense year - for many people. It highlights the importance of knowing how to nourish ourselves and one another when we’re both running on fumes, highly anxious, or otherwise struggling. Financial strain, kids’ challenges, illness, or loss can precipitate pain and stress for couples under any circumstances. Or right now, a pandemic and a razor-close presidential election make for intense emotions even if all is well in your personal world. So today’s episode is a love note to all couples on how to love one another well when you’re both licking your wounds.
As you listen to this episode, you'll learn:
- How to unlock the best of your relationship during these challenging times
- The 3 things needed to deepen the connection with your partner
- How to use co-regulation to love your partner well, right when they might seem LEAST lovable
- How Kurt and I stick together when we’re tempted to snap at one another because of our own states
- 4 tips of what NOT to do when working on your relationship
And more.
Join the conversation by listening, then share your story or response on our voicemail at 206-659-9865 or inside our free Secret Society on Mighty Networks.In these times of high anxiety, you don't need the things you might think you need. You need to feel seen and heard, to be contained. You don't need it fixed. You don't need answers and you don't need to blame your partner.
Michele Lisenbury Christensen
Hot Moments in This Episode:
Discover how to deepen your connection as a couple during these challenging times. 01:06
Why we forget what we're upset about and make it about our partner. 02:24
Want to know what we actually really need? 04:04
3 ways to receive nourishment from yourself & others 05:05
Learn about co-regulation and how your partner can help you 07:26
So that's what I've learned and I'm still learning and I still need to hear all of this, about how to stick together and hang together through difficult days. I hope this episode brings you some comfort and gave you some actionable ideas for walking through hard times in your life in a way that brings you real partnership with your beloved. And I really hope this is just the beginning of our conversation about this topic. I want to hear more about your experiences and your successes in this area. I wanna hear your inside jokes.
The secret society of turned on women over at society.lisenbury.com is a great place to ask your questions and tell your stories and get more prompts to explore emotional connection and intimacy in this crazy world.
Come join the conversation at society.lisenbury.com. And you can also leave us a voicemail at 206-659-9865. That link and that phone number are in the show notes at Lisenbury.com/episode/012.
RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
Episode 6: Self-Regulation Toolkit Part 1 - Response to Freeze State
Episode 7: Self-Regulation Toolkit Part 2 - Fight or Flight
If you and your partner (or maybe just you, as far as you know!) long for more closeness, heat, and intimacy in your relationship, I am here to help. More fun th
If the conversations on this podcast are resonating for you, please leave a rating and ideally a review on your favorite podcast platform.
Ready to bring about a transformation in your relationship to yourself, your body, and your partner? CLICK HERE to apply for a consultation.
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