6: How to Save Your Sexless Marriage
03/21/25 • 25 min
What happens in the bedroom is a reflection of what happens outside the bedroom, and nowhere is this more evident than in the case of sexless marriages. (If you find yourself in a sexless relationship, please know you’re not alone.)
When I researched sexless relationships in academic publications, I couldn't find any published articles in journals—only newspaper and magazine articles. That tells us that sexless marriages are common, but we're still very hesitant to talk about them.
This episode is primarily focused on 1:1 paired relationships—both gay and straight. In it, I’m revealing staggering statistics, how gender roles create the perfect breeding ground for sexless marriages, how SSRIs and hormones factor into this, and questions you can begin asking yourself to identify possible solutions for you. Let’s get into it!
See the full show notes and resources mentioned in this episode at
https://www.kaamnalive.com/sex-tech-and-spirituality-podcast/how-to-save-your-sexless-marriage
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What happens in the bedroom is a reflection of what happens outside the bedroom, and nowhere is this more evident than in the case of sexless marriages. (If you find yourself in a sexless relationship, please know you’re not alone.)
When I researched sexless relationships in academic publications, I couldn't find any published articles in journals—only newspaper and magazine articles. That tells us that sexless marriages are common, but we're still very hesitant to talk about them.
This episode is primarily focused on 1:1 paired relationships—both gay and straight. In it, I’m revealing staggering statistics, how gender roles create the perfect breeding ground for sexless marriages, how SSRIs and hormones factor into this, and questions you can begin asking yourself to identify possible solutions for you. Let’s get into it!
See the full show notes and resources mentioned in this episode at
https://www.kaamnalive.com/sex-tech-and-spirituality-podcast/how-to-save-your-sexless-marriage
Connect with Kaamna
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