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Sex Stories - 0 | I Will If You Will: Wyoh's Sex Stories

0 | I Will If You Will: Wyoh's Sex Stories

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12/31/18 • 161 min

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Sex Stories

Wyoh revisits her very first episode where she interviews herself and updates it with her current, six-years-later perspective and reflections.

00:00 Inspirations of MeToo and sex ed gaps

04:11 Reflections on oversharing, shame, friendship and parasocial relationships

08:09 Updates on sexuality labels, erotic artistry and sex work

10:12 Formative experiences, masturbation discovery

15:20 Understanding rejection and communication

18:45 First blowjob experiences, deep throat learning

24:30 Evolution of oral sex skills and preferences

29:15 BDSM discovery and communication growth

35:22 Safety protocols and boundary setting

41:08 Protection discussions and body hair preferences

47:33 Updated views on hygiene and consent

52:16 Relationship styles and touch needs

1:04:22 Professional boundaries and parasocial dynamics

1:11:08 Double penetration hopes and gangbang fantasy sharing

1:19:54 Evolution of fantasies and connection needs

1:30:12 What makes me go WOO? The moon, croissants, and learning from others

1:31:30 How learning about others' experiences shapes understanding of connection

1:33:37 The reality of projections in new relationships and meeting expectations

1:35:14 My obsession with "lining things up"

1:37:41 How “lining things up” applies to photography, podcasting, and all creative work

1:40:19 How I woo me: the importance of alone time

1:45:06 How to woo me: food, touch, and engagement with creative work

1:48:55 Building safety and trust in relationships

1:50:44 Requirements for physical intimacy and love of clear containers

1:54:22 Evolution from early podcast days to embracing all erotic arts

1:56:56 Dreams of creating edurotic content and spaces

2:00:13 Ongoing learnings navigating personal relationships

2:01:29 Health, safety, and communication practices

2:05:02 Patterns of boundaries in vanilla vs kinky connections

2:15:52 Ongoing project: organizing my ultimate bucket list of pleasure exploration

2:21:56 Vision for Explicit Negotiation edurotic series

2:32:15 Future goals: redefining sex education and creating safe spaces for deep connection

2:35:12 Dreams of co-creating a more connected, loving world together

🔗 | PEOPLE & RESOURCES MENTIONED

Marc Brackett (Yale researcher, creator of RULER emotional intelligence program) - marcbrackett.com

Lisa Feldman Barrett (Neuroscientist, emotions researcher) - lisafeldmanbarrett.com

Esther Perel (Psychotherapist, relationships expert) - estherperel.com

Brené Brown (Researcher focusing on vulnerability and shame) - brenebrown.com

Andrew Huberman (Stanford neuroscientist, host of Huberman Lab podcast) - hubermanlab.com

Emily Nagoski (Sex educator and researcher, writer on sexuality and stress) - emilynagoski.com

Amelia Nagoski (Choral conductor, co-author on burnout research)

Cherie DeVille (Adult performer, former pod guest) - cheriedeville.com

Ophelia Kaan (Adult performer) - x.com/OpheliaKaan

Tyler Poelle (Acting teacher at Lesly Kahn) - tylerpoelle.com

RESOURCES / BOOKS

Show Me by Will McBride and Dr. Helga Fleischhauer-Hardt

Atlas of the Heart by Brené Brown

Hot Sex: How to Do It by Tracey Cox

Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski

Come Together by Emily Nagoski

Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by Emily & Amelia Nagoski

🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!

SDC: A place for swingers to connect

FIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% off

BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex

BUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure |...

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Wyoh revisits her very first episode where she interviews herself and updates it with her current, six-years-later perspective and reflections.

00:00 Inspirations of MeToo and sex ed gaps

04:11 Reflections on oversharing, shame, friendship and parasocial relationships

08:09 Updates on sexuality labels, erotic artistry and sex work

10:12 Formative experiences, masturbation discovery

15:20 Understanding rejection and communication

18:45 First blowjob experiences, deep throat learning

24:30 Evolution of oral sex skills and preferences

29:15 BDSM discovery and communication growth

35:22 Safety protocols and boundary setting

41:08 Protection discussions and body hair preferences

47:33 Updated views on hygiene and consent

52:16 Relationship styles and touch needs

1:04:22 Professional boundaries and parasocial dynamics

1:11:08 Double penetration hopes and gangbang fantasy sharing

1:19:54 Evolution of fantasies and connection needs

1:30:12 What makes me go WOO? The moon, croissants, and learning from others

1:31:30 How learning about others' experiences shapes understanding of connection

1:33:37 The reality of projections in new relationships and meeting expectations

1:35:14 My obsession with "lining things up"

1:37:41 How “lining things up” applies to photography, podcasting, and all creative work

1:40:19 How I woo me: the importance of alone time

1:45:06 How to woo me: food, touch, and engagement with creative work

1:48:55 Building safety and trust in relationships

1:50:44 Requirements for physical intimacy and love of clear containers

1:54:22 Evolution from early podcast days to embracing all erotic arts

1:56:56 Dreams of creating edurotic content and spaces

2:00:13 Ongoing learnings navigating personal relationships

2:01:29 Health, safety, and communication practices

2:05:02 Patterns of boundaries in vanilla vs kinky connections

2:15:52 Ongoing project: organizing my ultimate bucket list of pleasure exploration

2:21:56 Vision for Explicit Negotiation edurotic series

2:32:15 Future goals: redefining sex education and creating safe spaces for deep connection

2:35:12 Dreams of co-creating a more connected, loving world together

🔗 | PEOPLE & RESOURCES MENTIONED

Marc Brackett (Yale researcher, creator of RULER emotional intelligence program) - marcbrackett.com

Lisa Feldman Barrett (Neuroscientist, emotions researcher) - lisafeldmanbarrett.com

Esther Perel (Psychotherapist, relationships expert) - estherperel.com

Brené Brown (Researcher focusing on vulnerability and shame) - brenebrown.com

Andrew Huberman (Stanford neuroscientist, host of Huberman Lab podcast) - hubermanlab.com

Emily Nagoski (Sex educator and researcher, writer on sexuality and stress) - emilynagoski.com

Amelia Nagoski (Choral conductor, co-author on burnout research)

Cherie DeVille (Adult performer, former pod guest) - cheriedeville.com

Ophelia Kaan (Adult performer) - x.com/OpheliaKaan

Tyler Poelle (Acting teacher at Lesly Kahn) - tylerpoelle.com

RESOURCES / BOOKS

Show Me by Will McBride and Dr. Helga Fleischhauer-Hardt

Atlas of the Heart by Brené Brown

Hot Sex: How to Do It by Tracey Cox

Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski

Come Together by Emily Nagoski

Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle by Emily & Amelia Nagoski

🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!

SDC: A place for swingers to connect

FIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% off

BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex

BUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure |...

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Wyoh and her Mom have never directly talked about sex before, and Wyoh finally explicitly admits to her mom that she is not, in fact, a virgin. They touch on topics of consent and the benefits of infant massage in teaching babies what giving permission to be touched looks like, and talk about how Wyoh's mom used to think she was a lesbian, and her initial reaction to discovering that Wyoh is into women and men, sometimes at the same time.

🔥 PARTNERS | Make your world a sexier place—get a discount & support the pod!

SDC: A place for swingers to connect

FIRMTECH: Performance-enhancing cock rings | Use the code LOVER for 15% off

BEDUCATED: Learn how to have great sex

BUTTER WELLNESS: Prioritizing prostate pleasure | Use the code LOVER for 20% off

⚡️ WORK WITH WYOH | Explore (y)our creativity: wyohlee.com/links

One-on-one photoshoots, content creation, writing retreats & creative support

🤩 PATREON | Wy’s exclusive updates, stories & the community discord: patreon.com/wyohlee

💸 PLAY | Tickle Wy’s moneykink: 🪭onlyfans.com/wyohlee 🐈‍⬛sextpanther.com/wyoh

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