110. Creating a secure Ethical Non Monogamous relationship with Jessica Fern.
07/05/22 • 49 min
What is ENM - Ethical Non Monogamy? What does ENM mean? How can you have a deep, meaningful, and secure relationship with multiple partners? These are the difficult questions that my guest Jessica Fern will answer.
The world has always treated poly relationships as second-class, not "real" relationships. But in her groundbreaking book, Jessica Fern shows how ENM relationships can carry the same deep meaning and provide secure attachment as monogamous relationships.
Jessica is a psychotherapist specializing in polyamory, and the author of the very successful and important book Poly Secure: Attachment, Trauma, and Consensual Nonmonogamy. Jessica will explain the basics of an ENM relationship and how to create secure attachments with multiple partners.
Here's a link to Jessica Fern's book
Here's a link to Jessica Fern's website
What is ENM - Ethical Non Monogamy? What does ENM mean? How can you have a deep, meaningful, and secure relationship with multiple partners? These are the difficult questions that my guest Jessica Fern will answer.
The world has always treated poly relationships as second-class, not "real" relationships. But in her groundbreaking book, Jessica Fern shows how ENM relationships can carry the same deep meaning and provide secure attachment as monogamous relationships.
Jessica is a psychotherapist specializing in polyamory, and the author of the very successful and important book Poly Secure: Attachment, Trauma, and Consensual Nonmonogamy. Jessica will explain the basics of an ENM relationship and how to create secure attachments with multiple partners.
Here's a link to Jessica Fern's book
Here's a link to Jessica Fern's website
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109. Emotionally Immature Parents with Dr. Lindsay Gibson
Growing up with self-involved or emotionally immature parents can make childhood very hard. You may be well taken care of, have a stable home life, and get birthday parties, but still feel that something was really lacking in your childhood. If your parents are emotionally unable to really connect with you, then you may still grow up feeling emotionally empty.
In her landmark book Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents, Dr. Lindsay Gibson explains how confusing it is for the child when their parent is so self-involved, that they can't really see, or respond to, the child's emotional needs.
We'll also talk about Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents and then carry that experience into their own marriages and with their own children. Dr. Gibson will talk about how you can recover from that experience to create happier and healthier relationships.
Please join us for this fascinating and important conversation.
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Sex, Love, & Couples Therapy - 110. Creating a secure Ethical Non Monogamous relationship with Jessica Fern.
Transcript
Hi, my name is Jacob Brown and I'm a couple's therapist in San Francisco. I wanna welcome you to sex love and couple's therapy.
Speaker 1We all want to feel loved. That's a universal desire, but sometimes instead of feeling loving our relationships, feel confusing, frustrating, and a little crazy making
Speaker 1the purpose of this podcast is to help you cle
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