This episode helps couples troubleshoot problems around initiating sexy time. In it, I guide you through how to talk over two of the most important topics for you and your partner to cover:
1) How are we dividing up initiation and do we both like the split? If not, what kind of split might feel better to each of us and why?
2) Are the initiation styles we've been using working as well as they can for both of us? How can we improve them?
We'll cover some styles of initiation that can fall flat and why, plus other common pitfalls. I'll also help you distinguish between initiation problems and other sexual challenges in relationships. As always, this episode will emphasize the need to ensure ongoing consent, pleasure, and enthusiasm from each partner, rather than assuming that "initiation" means some sort of foregone conclusion.
Join me and discover how to troubleshoot your own challenges around initiation today.
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06/03/24 • 20 min
Sex Help for Smart People - Initiating Sex: Key Troubleshooting Questions for Couples
Transcript
Welcome to episode 19, everybody. Today is all about troubleshooting a common challenge area for couples, sexual initiation, or just initiating sexy time. So if you have questions about how to do it in a way that works best for you and your partner, who does it, whether it should be the same every time, you are in the right place to get some answers.
And one thing that will be really handy for you is to know your deepest desires so that you can get the kind of initiation going that works we
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