Renewed Mama - Kimberly Muhtar | Mom Life, Parenting Tips, Parenting Coach, Education, Homeschool

My husband and I are celebrating 20 years of marriage! And in honor of that, I’m sharing 8 things I have done wrong in our 20 years of marriage.

I wrote in my journal July 2012 “I am negative. I speak things that make Andrew feel like he can’t do anything right. I smile less. I am frustrated. Why Andrew still loves me, I don’t know. He has a lot to put up with.”

What else can I say but that our 20 years of marriage hasn't been rosy and wedding bliss! But I look forward to forty more years of marriage, as long as the Lord gives us days and breath.

So what are the 8 things I have done wrong in my marriage? Let’s dive right in so that you don’t make the same mistakes I have.

➡️ To help you to build a stronger marriage, download the FREE "My Marriage" guide mentioned in this podcast. You can find it at https://speaklifebadges.com/my-marriage/

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▶️ My Marriage – Renewed Mama Podcast https://speaklifebadges.com/my-marriage/

▶️ No More Miscommunication with Special Guest Tera Wages, Connection Codes – Renewed Mama Pocast https://speaklifebadges.com/no-more-miscommunication/

▶️ My Story – Kimberly Muhtar – Renewed Mama Podcast https://speaklifebadges.com/my-story-kimberly-muhtar/

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We hurt others. How can we apologize and make it right with someone when we mess up and lose it and shout? What about when we place negative labels on someone? How can we restore the broken relationship and rebuild trust?

** This is Part 5 of a 6 part series. Hit the Like and Subscribe Button so that you don’t miss any of the episodes in this series on Labeling Children.

Let's keep the conversation going! How have these tips for apologizing helped you? Share in the comments.

And while you’re at it, share this episode with another mama who needs this encouragement, too. https://speaklifebadges.com/how-to-apologize-to-someone-you-hurt/

⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️ NEED ANOTHER MAMA TO TALK TO? Have the negative labels spoken over you as a child been holding you back? Can't change the negative, critical tape that is replaying in your mind no matter how hard you try? ❤️ GET COACHED with RENEWED MAMA COACHING. https://renewedmamacoaching.com/

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▶️ Stop Labeling Children: How Negative Labels Hurt – Renewed Mama Podcast Episode 83 https://speaklifebadges.com/stop-labeling-children-how-negative-labels-hurt/

▶️ When Positive Labels Help and Hurt Children – Renewed Mama Podcast Episode 84 https://speaklifebadges.com/when-positive-labels-help-and-hurt-children/

▶️ Who is God and What Does He Say About Me? – Renewed Mama Podcast Episode 85 https://speaklifebadges.com/who-is-god-and-what-does-he-say-about-me/

▶️ Do This if Your Child’s Teacher is a Bully – Renewed Mama Podcast Episode 86 https://speaklifebadges.com/do-this-if-your-childs-teacher-is-a-bully/

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You can try to cover up a lot of things, but you can’t cover up what comes out of your mouth...what you say. Can you?

The truth is that your mouth tells what is in your heart, and what is in your heart is going to come out of your mouth. Luke 6:45

You might cover up or look good on the outside for a little while, but just as soon as you get frustrated or stressed, it comes out of your mouth because it’s in your heart, meaning it’s been in your thoughts.

In this podcast episode, we talk about how the words you speak again and again are powerful in two ways: (1) Death or life is in your tongue. Proverbs 18:21 and (2) Your words steer your life.

RESOURCES KIMBERLY SHARES IN THE EPISODE:

If you need help with what is going on in your thoughts. If you want to change some stinkin’ thinkin’, listen to Episode 10 Your THOUGHTS are a Pretty Big Deal https://speaklifebadges.com/your-thoughts-are-a-pretty-big-deal/

And download the free "What's in Your Word Bank?" guide by visiting https://speaklifebadges.com/whats-in-your-word-bank-our-words/ This guide will help you to evaluate your thoughts and figure out what is the truth you should be thinking.

Episode 12 Tell Me No More Lies https://speaklifebadges.com/tell-me-no-more-lies/ Watch this video with your children to learn how to spot lies you may be telling yourself. Kimberly uses two lies as examples: “It’s too hard. I can’t do this.” and “I don’t belong.” You’ll learn seven questions to ask yourself to break off lies. You’ll learn how to keep truth rooted in your heart and mind so that you act in full confidence and become who you are meant to be.

There is also a free activity fun sheet that you and your children can color and fill out while watching the video. https://speaklifebadges.com/tell-me-no-more-lies/

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The music used for this podcast was composed by Gop Intarachot and accompanied by Emmanuel Songsore.

You’ve heard this before, “Why do I have to do this?” Your kids have said it. My kids have said it. And if we’re honest, we have said it too. “Why do I have to do this?”

Before you say to your kids...”Because you have to. Doing your school work is your job right now. It’s your responsibility.” Really... does saying that motivate them to hop up, walk away from their device, and get down to work? No way! Who are we kidding?

Watch or listen as I share 6 tips and scripts for how you can spur on self-motivation in your kids because it is possible for them to do more than just the bare minimum!

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💬Let's keep the conversation going! Share in the comments which suggestion you will use to motivate your child when they don’t want to do it. https://speaklifebadges.com/it-is-possible-to-have-self-motivated-kids/

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▶️ Motivating Your Child When It’s Too Hard - Renewed Mama Podcast Episode 29 https://speaklifebadges.com/motivating-your-child-when-its-too-hard

▶️ Strengthening You, Mama: What Do You and Your Children Need Today?– Renewed Mama Podcast Episode 30 https://speaklifebadges.com/strengthening-you-mama

▶️Motivating Your Child When They Don’t Want to Do It – Renewed Mama Podcast Episode 32 https://speaklifebadges.com/motivating-your-child-when-they-dont-want-to-do-it

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Are you a homeschool mama who worries about what other people think about your homeschool including the in-laws? Is it that everyone has an opinion about how you should do your homeschool? What about socializing your children?

Do you take your children to the grocery store and the clerk asks, “No school today?” What do you say?

Do you need to work to help provide for your family? How do you homeschool and work?

Are you doing too much?

Today’s special guest, Rowan Atkinson, author of ENOUGH ALREADY! Real Help for Home School Burnout, Freak Out, and Zone Out shares golden advice about all of this.

There is so much goodness in this conversation. Listen to this Renewed Mama Podcast episode now.

Please note that this is Part 2 of our conversation. Part 1 can be watched at: Preventing Homeschool Burnout with Special Guest Rowan Atkinson – Renewed Mama Podcast Episode 40

https://speaklifebadges.com/preventing-homeschool-burnout-with-rowan-atkinson/

Resources Rowan referenced in the episode:

Rowan Atkinson

Her book: ENOUGH ALREADY! Real Help for Home School Burnout, Freak Out, and Zone Out https://www.amazon.ca/Enough-Already-Homeschool-Burnout-Freak/dp/1999013735

Headphone History: An Audio History of Canada https://www.headphonehistory.com/

Her Podcast Canada Homeschools: https://www.canadahomeschools.com/

Her Children’s book Inside Outside Box Available on Amazon

💬Let's keep the conversation going! Share in the comments one take away that you will incorporate into your homeschool today. https://speaklifebadges.com/preventing-homeschool-burnout-with-guest-rowan-atkinson/

⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️ RECOMMEND TO WATCH / LISTEN TO NEXT:

▶️ Preventing Homeschool Burnout with Special Guest Rowan Atkinson – Renewed Mama Podcast Episode 40 This is Part 1 of our conversation!

https://speaklifebadges.com/preventing-homeschool-burnout-with-rowan-atkinson/

▶️ Strengthening You, Mama: What Do You and Your Children Need Today?- Renewed Mama Podcast Episode 30 https://speaklifebadges.com/strengthening-you-mama/

▶️ What do Renewed Mamas Sound Like? – Renewed Mama Podcast Episode 2 https://speaklifebadges.com/what-do-renewed-mamas-sound-like/

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The music used for this podcast was composed by Gop Intarachot and accompanied by Emmanuel Songsore.