Moment: Sex Researcher Explains Why Men Enjoy C*ckolding! ft. Dr. Justin Lehmiller
04/02/25 • 15 min
In this episode, Dr. Rena Malik and Dr. Justin Lehmiller explore the complex world of sexual fantasies, focusing on the kink of cuckolding. They discuss how these fantasies manifest differently in men and women, with men often being more voyeuristic, while women lean towards exhibitionism. The episode also delves into the psychological aspects of humiliation and masochism, explaining why some people find these sensations appealing. Dr. Lehmiller emphasizes the importance of understanding the role of sex education, or the lack thereof, in shaping young people's sexual behaviors and fantasies, touching upon the rise of kinky practices like sexual choking in younger generations.
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▶️Chapters:
00:00 Cuckolding
03:23 Humiliation and Masochism
04:24 Chastity Devices
05:14 Gen Z and Kink
06:52 Porn as Sex Education
11:26 Introducing Novelty in Relationships
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In this episode, Dr. Rena Malik and Dr. Justin Lehmiller explore the complex world of sexual fantasies, focusing on the kink of cuckolding. They discuss how these fantasies manifest differently in men and women, with men often being more voyeuristic, while women lean towards exhibitionism. The episode also delves into the psychological aspects of humiliation and masochism, explaining why some people find these sensations appealing. Dr. Lehmiller emphasizes the importance of understanding the role of sex education, or the lack thereof, in shaping young people's sexual behaviors and fantasies, touching upon the rise of kinky practices like sexual choking in younger generations.
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Schedule an appointment with me: https://www.renamalikmd.com/appointments
▶️Chapters:
00:00 Cuckolding
03:23 Humiliation and Masochism
04:24 Chastity Devices
05:14 Gen Z and Kink
06:52 Porn as Sex Education
11:26 Introducing Novelty in Relationships
Stay connected with Dr. Justin Lehmiller on social media for daily insights and updates. Don’t miss out—follow him now and check out these links!
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/justinjlehmiller/?hl=en ****
X - https://x.com/justinlehmiller?lang=en
Sex and Psychology - https://sexandpsychology.com
Apple Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sex-and-psychology-podcast/id1505460817
Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/6DCIGjOUaenoKdY71N7NqI?si=2320ebe17787443a&nd=1&dlsi=f0648d0cb03746ae
American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) - https://www.aasect.org/
Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life - https://amzn.to/3QvZ6Ls
The Psychology of Human Sexuality - https://amzn.to/3QGv9YV
Let's Connect!:
WEBSITE: http://www.renamalikmd.com
YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RenaMalikMD
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DISCLAIMER: This podcast is purely educational and does not constitute medical advice. The content of this podcast is my personal opinion, and not that of my employer(s). Use of this information is at your own risk. Rena Malik, M.D. will not assume any liability for any direct or indirect losses or damages that may result from the use of information contained in this podcast including but not limited to economic loss, injury, illness or death.
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