What we do if we don’t accept our situation?

06/28/24 • -1 min

This is quite common because the world is fast changing and we have to adapt. It starts that we don’t accept our situation, we are fighting against the change, or we are depressed.For instance, when the Tsunami killed around 250000, I was one of the survived victims. The Indian families of the victims could not accept the loss, were mourning, complaining, blemished God blemished the Karma .... And I was consulting them. I said for instance: Be happy that you survived, don’t blemish God/Karma it will not help. Thank God, that you have survived... The first step is, to release the anger, sadness about the change, loss ...The second step is to change our perception, that for instance, everything is bad through that.... Everything has two poles....and every pole has the same size. Before the Tsunami happened, I had an accident and got a wrong treatment from the Orthopedic... Through that treatment, my back became very sick (I could not work or meditate anymore). I blemished these stupid doctors... At the moment when the Tsunami was coming, I went to an Acupuncture treatment, and this saved my life, I missed the Tsunami for some minutes.... Was the accident/wrong treatment bad or good?After the tsunami, I was grateful to had this accident....The third step, we have to find a new solution for our life.I had to leave the Ashram and India after 10 years to recover. This was very sad for me. Never less I said to everyone, my back will be in 3 years better than before... Nobody believed me, they had been dam wrong. And I chose to start a new life in Thailand and to learn and apply the Chi Gong from Mantac Chia...The fourth step is, after releasing our negative feelings, we chose confidently and positive to change our lives, so that our life will be even better. We change our perception, embrace our tragedy, have faith that everything will be for the better, hope that we suicide and looking for new life opportunities.... Don’t remain to lie on the ground, go up and start positive.... Feel your suffering and let it go, self-pity will never work. Recognize that many other people are in even a worse situation than yourself. Be thankful for your tragedy, that you are still alive...If we have doubts, we go deep in our doubts and looking what we can learn from our doubts. Afterward, we let them go.... My Video: What we do if we don’t accept our situation? https://youtu.be/Ytz56ircIuAMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/What-we-do-if-we-don’t-accept-our-situation.mp3

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Don’t be a robot!

T. Harv Eker said so sweet, for schedule exact our time ... I am not a robot... I put the most important tasks on my daily schedule, do them, celebrate that, and if I like to work more then, I do this too. Otherwise, I finish my job. I love to work, and I don’t like to be overwhelmed by my time schedule....And exact here start the problem that we have a to-do list and don’t look how it responds to our feelings.We push away our feelings to function as a machine and this we also do with the feelings of our kids and spouse... Feelings are in our way... How we can be happy if we push away our emotions? Then we drive away also our happiness and love!We should learn to understand our feelings, our needs for love and happiness.It looks great if we are over cool, never show any feelings...and we get through that the appreciation of the society. The reality is that we sell our feelings for recognition and inside the negative feelings are piling up and working against us. This means our suppressed feelings can erupt to a not appropriate situation, can cause diseases or can sabotage our success.There was a father with a baby sitting on a bus, and that baby cried and screamed like crazy... The father repeated again and again: Please calm down.... It didn’t help... A passenger said to the father: Maybe your baby can’t understand: Please keep cool. The father replied: I say this to myself!!! Because I have to calm down.We should learn from the father in the Joke above to deal with our feelings. For sure for many people, it is embarrassing when their baby is crying, and then we are getting panic... What should we do? Until we can’t calm down, we can’t calm down the baby.... So it is with all of our conflicts, we first find out, what are our feelings. Then we accept our feelings and feel them. For instance: we breathe deep in our feelings and with the breath out we release them... until the feelings are gone.We are feeling beings who can think... This means we have inherited the biggest part of our brain from the animals so that our feelings and subconsciousness are dominant. We make our decisions through our subconsciousness and feelings, and afterward, we reason it with our logic. Our logic is still not so important. And if we suppress our emotions, then still these negative suppressed feelings are making our decisions... Let release them, and then we make much better decisions.My video: Don’t be a robot! https://youtu.be/ADQ69sjHiLgMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/Don’t-be-a-robot.mp3

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