
Question yourself!
07/01/24 • -1 min
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When a great desire fails,…
we enjoy our life even more?This looks ridiculous? The great psychologist Prof. P. Wazlavic had done a research on this... The results are, that people who didn’t get fulfilled their heart desire, could after they had recovered, appreciate the small things in their life much more. Because after this tragic experience, they know that the little things in life are valuable. And so they can enjoy their life more. Then every moment can be enjoyed.For me, it was very tragic, that first I could not procreate and did love to have a child. And then I procreate, and the baby was coming too early.... Life is life, - be happy in the here and now. When we are driven by passion, then we forget to enjoy our life in the here and now. Then only our goal is important.Oscar Wild said we are the small things and not the big goals that we have accomplished... This means if we can only enjoy, when we accomplish something, then 99% of our time we are suffering... So that we are unhappy. A happy person enjoys nearly everything,... When he gets up, he thankful for the new day, enjoys his morning exercise, the small talk with his children and spouse during his breakfast, even he is enjoying his meal as a very delicate menu... And the unhappy person gets up fast, pushes the food into his mouth and don’t want to waste his time on his family. For sure be friendly to ordinary people is a luxury for him. For what? It is not serving him....!!!! Everything becomes an obstacle for him!!!We can enjoy our life, only when we slow down and enjoy the small things in our life. Our passions have their place in our lives and when we are under the control of our emotions... Life becomes a suffering. And so is it with our heart/great desires, they become too important... And our life becomes unhappy. Prof. Paul Wazlavick (Author of the int.Bestseller: The situation is hopeless but not seriously. It is an amusing book about how stupid we are sometimes.) My Video: When a great desire fails. https://youtu.be/wDYXKN05MiAMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/When-a-great-desire-fails.mp3
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Is there more?
If we see for instance the old people, mainly frustrated, depressed, even they have tried their best to get their goals, desires fulfilled.There was this research from old people what they regret most? Answer what they didn’t have done.If we grow older, we had many desires which we could not live ... and then we get inside, even we don’t recognize it, slowly more and more depressed. If we would had felt all of our frustration, then we would not be depressed for that. Now I want to go one step farther.If the world would be perfect and we could accomplish everything....Do you think that this will give us all? Or would it make us total happy?Or would it make ourselves more dependence on material, worldly things?Can we buy Happiness or Love?Is it possible that there is true happiness/love beyond of our desires/ worldly things?Goethe said: Happiness that accompany our whole life and that doesn’t matter on worldly things/desires is the true or inner happiness! The same is true also for love... true love doesn’t depend on our desires that we get fulfilled, it is just there without reason.So more we accomplish so more we want!! Or we don’t care anymore!!My guru Osho/Bhagwan said if we don’t achieve something meaningful on the inner/spiritual/religious path, then we become more and more depressed/frustrated when we grow older. Because we have missed our chance to connect with the divine...This doesn’t mean that we do not live our desires!!! We should live our desires consciously and find out through that: This is not all (Sanskrit: Neti Neti).There must be something bigger ... And this I call here the Divine!!!If God would have created a perfect world, who would think any more of God.Our world is not perfect for the worldly thinking people, and so we have to suffer for everything we accomplish or even we could not accomplish.The happiest people in the world had been the people, who had been connected to the divine.... Because they have learned to connect with the divine... And this everybody can learn!!! We don’t need to live in celibacy, rather more we chose for ourselves the right spiritual methods that make us happy.... It can start with Trance dancing or a great Dikir Night (Sufi), or with going to a high spiritual loaded place in India, Nepal, Tibet, Turkey (Konya)... and to meditate there, or going to a saint...My Video: Is there more? https://youtu.be/LOFOtRwuxOEMy Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast.A/Is-there-More.mp3
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