Redefining Us

What does embracing pleasure look like as a woman whether your a woman without kids, a mom, a woman in menopause, a grandmother, etc? In this conversation with Dr. Rosalyn Dischiavo, founder of the Institute for Sexuality Education and Enlightenment and author of The Deep Yes: The Lost Art of True Receiving, she shares her personal and professional journey into sex education and therapy, exploring the profound intersections of sexual health, mental well-being, and personal identity. She dives into her story of overcoming infertility, pursuing a doctoral degree, and the importance of integrating pleasure and desire into our holistic health practices.
Rosalyn reflects on how societal messages, like the Madonna-whore complex and hustle culture, inhibit our ability to truly experience life’s joys like enjoying a sunset or embracing intimacy. She wants us to rethink our relationship with pleasure and provides actionable insights for cultivating deeper connections with themselves and our partners.

This is a conversation that goes beyond sex. It’s about reclaiming wholeness, honoring our bodies, and redefining how we show up in the world.
Connect with Dr. Roz:
http://instituteforsexuality.com

IG: @HolisticSexEd https://www.instagram.com/holisticsexed/

FB: https://www.facebook.com/InstituteforSEE

Book: https://www.amazon.com/Deep-Yes-Lost-True-Receiving-ebook/dp/B01COCGE74/ref=monarch_sidesheet_image

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In this episode, we’re diving deep into a topic that touches all of us at some point—connection. I’m thrilled to have the lovely Dayna Sammartino join us. She’s a Licensed Professional Counselor and has a special passion for helping people build meaningful relationships.
Connection matters, especially as we grow older and life gets busier. Dayna shares her insights on how loneliness creeps in as our responsibilities pile up, and what we can do to make sure we nurture friendships.
Dayna breaks down why we sometimes feel lonely, even when we’re surrounded by people. She shares the concept of perceived loneliness, those cognitive distortions that mess with our heads, and practical tips to overcome them. From navigating social anxiety to finding community in new spaces, we cover it all.
Whether it’s a small gesture like sending a text or something more structured like joining a book club, we talk about ways to strengthen our relationships. And for those moments when you realize a relationship is more draining than fulfilling, we talk about letting them go to create space for more nurturing relationships.
Relationships need communication, effort, and alignment with our values. This episode is packed with real talk and heart-centered advice on how to cultivate authentic connections in a world that sometimes feels a little too disconnected.

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Abuse can look many different ways, both overt and not. Our guest, Sybil Cummin, MA, LPC, ACS, shares her evolution working as a play therapist with children in contentious divorces to uncovering the often-overlooked dynamics of abuse dismissed by the systems at play. Our conversation lays bare the realities of narcissistic abuse, domestic violence, and the systemic gaps within family courts.
Sybil highlights the critical role of community, connection, and safety planning in the journey toward healing for anyone who's endured any amount of harm. We talk about how abuse can look many different ways and break the stereotypes that are most often portrayed. We delve into the struggles survivors endure—recognizing coercive control, overcoming post-separation abuse, and reclaiming a sense of self.
If you know someone who's suffering from abuse, or that's you yourself, or if you're a professional who stands survivors, this episode offers clarity, practical guidance, and a steadfast reminder: recovery is possible, and no one walks this path alone.
Connect with Sybil:
https://www.risingbeyondpc.com
https://instagram.com/risingbeyondpc
https://www.risingbeyondpc.com/podcasts
About Sybil: Sybil is a Licensed Professional Counselor who has specialized in working with victims and survivors of narcissistic abuse and domestic violence for the last decade, including the child victims in these families. She owns a small group therapy practice in Colorado and after witnessing the constant ethical issues survivors experience in the family court system trying to protect their children she created Rising Beyond Power and Control (often referred to as The Rising Beyond Community) to help close the gaps in support for this population. Sybil hosts The Rising Beyond Podcast and is active in legislative changes in Colorado for family court reform.

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Website: wellmindedcounseling.com/redefining-us-pod
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Sairan Aqrawi is an engineer and business strategist, reframing midlife crisis to midlife PRICELESS! She believes that turning 40 or 50 (or really any age!) marks the ideal time to reinvent oneself, rediscover passions, and take bold steps two enjoying life. And it all happens by overcoming self-doubt, embracing change, and taking action, because confidence is built by doing, not just thinking about doing.
Sairan also talks about common struggles among successful women who feel “stuck” despite achieving career milestones, or raising a family. She's giving us some strategies for breaking free from routine, handling rejection with resilience, and transforming hidden talents into fulfilling side businesses. No matter what age you are, if you’ve ever felt like you’re just going through the motions, this episode is a must-listen. You'll feel motivated to take charge of your future, start something new, and redefine what’s possible at any stage of your life.

Want to connect with Sairan? She’s offering a complimentary one-hour consultation for Redefining Us listeners! Mention this episode when reaching out:
LinkedIn: Sairan Aqrawi
Instagram: @sairan_aqrawi

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I wrote a book! Becoming Mommy: Aligning with yourself and finding your voice during pregnancy and motherhood, available at all major retailers - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DZT9P3RB?ref=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&social_share=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&bestFormat=true

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Imagine how powerful we'd all be if we stopped wasting energy on body shame and turned it toward something that truly matters. Eada Gendelman, a therapist who helps those with disordered eating is here to talk about healing our relationship with food, body, and exercise. Drawing from her own experience with an eating disorder, Eada shares how shame, societal praise for disordered behaviors, and a lack of language prevent many from seeking help. She and Stephanie discuss how cultural shifts have changed (but not solved) body image struggles and why self-compassion is the key to true healing. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a cycle of self-criticism, this conversation will inspire you to break free, reclaim your energy, and see that healing is always possible.

Connect with Eada:
Website: http://morningbirdtherapy.com

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Website: wellmindedcounseling.com/redefining-us-pod
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