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Real Moms Too

Real Moms Too

Xia Chekwa & Alana Parks

The podcast for the mom who is looking to connect with other Relatable, Empathetic, Authentic, Liberated Moms. This Podcast is where we keep it Real! Welcome to your Virtual Mom Village!
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Goodpods has curated a list of the 10 best Real Moms Too episodes, ranked by the number of listens and likes each episode have garnered from our listeners. If you are listening to Real Moms Too for the first time, there's no better place to start than with one of these standout episodes. If you are a fan of the show, vote for your favorite Real Moms Too episode by adding your comments to the episode page.

Real Moms Too - Ep. 41: Real Moms Use Doulas Too
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02/20/20 • 41 min

In this episode, your favorite momfriends continue the conversation on Black History Month by discussing black doulas. Often times, the idea of using a doula throughout a pregnancy, labor, and delivery seems more like a "luxury" rather than a necessity. And within the black community, many families may not even consider using a doula because they do not know the significance of the role of a doula or the services they provide. For this reason, Real Moms Too interviewed Jessica Roach, co-founder and the CEO of Restoring Our Own Through Transformation (ROOTT). In episode 41, Jessica explains the history of black doulas, how to involve the whole family in the labor and delivery process, and teaches moms how to advocate for themselves throughout the pre and postnatal process. Jessica reminds listeners that black doulas have been around for centuries and discusses the benefits of utilizing a doula service such as ROOTT.

More About our Guest:

Jessica M. Roach, LPN, MPH is the co-founder and CEO of Restoring Our Own Through Transformation, (ROOTT) a Non-Profit, Black Women led Reproductive Justice Organization focused on Maternal Child Health and Birthing Justice Columbus, Ohio. Her work has spanned over 20 years in areas such as clinical nursing, public health advocacy, and independent scholarship. Ms. Roach has a deeply experiential perspective in her research both personally and professionally, regarding the effects of stress related to structural determinants, and the social determinants created as consequence of those structures, with a focus on inter-generational and historical trauma as it relates to policy development. Ms. Roach currently serves as the co-lead of the care working group for the Black Mamas Matter Alliance and has been featured in Rewire, The Atlantic, Columbus Underground, and Columbus Alive. She has served as a full-spectrum doula, home birth midwife and assistant, consultant to various organizations and is the mother of three young women, one of which was a pre-term infant.
ROOTT Website:
https://www.roottrj.org/
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Real Moms Too - Ep. 50: Real Moms Have Baby Showers Too
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04/23/20 • 35 min

They say April Showers bring May Flowers! And showers, baby showers that is, are what Alana and Xia discuss in this episode. Are you a mom-to-be? Then this episode will help you decide how to choose a host, build your registry, and more. And for those who trying to decide what to do about baby shower plans because of the COVID-19 pandemic, the momfriends share creative tips on how to throw a safe social distancing shower. If you've been there, done that relate with your favorite momfriends as they reminisce about their own showers and the themes they chose. And for the auntie or bff, this episode will help you be the host your friend needs during this exciting, yet stressful time. Tune in Now!
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Real Moms Too - Ep. 43: Real Moms Are Women Too
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03/05/20 • 41 min

It is officially Women's History Month, thus Alana and Xia dedicate a an entire episode to discussing womanhood, sisterhood, and why each are important in our society. The hosts discuss how childhood experiences shaped their idea of womanhood, little girls being labeled as a "Tom-Boy," and how this impacted their ability to create women friendships in adulthood. Alana reveals that she did not realize she needed sisterhood until she was about 25 years old; and Xia discusses some of the challenges she faced as she began to build relationships with women. They also discuss how women are portrayed in the media and on this plays into the comparison and competition among women.
The goal of this episode: to remind women and mothers that even through our differences, we can connect on the simple fact that we are women.
Happy Women's History Month!
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What challenges did you face growing up as a girl and how did it shape your idea of what what it means to be a women?
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To celebrate Black History Month, Real Moms Too interview Dr. Melissa Crum, artist, education consultant, diversity practitioner, and founder of Mosaic Education Network LLC. Dr. Crum shares with listeners how to have difficult conversations with children about skin color, discovering and learning in different environments, and the importance of helping children control their own narrative.

“Parenthood is an experiment, but the hope is that our children love and understand who they are at the core,” said Dr. Crum. She encourages parents to know that no matter what environment our children are in, what narrative society portrays about them and culture, with the right exposure and having courageous conversations, we can help empower our children.

Dr. Melissa Crum’s Bio:

Dr. Melissa Crum is an artist, author, researcher, and founder of Mosaic Education Network, LLC. She leads a consulting company that infuses the arts, research, storytelling and critical thinking into professional development, community building and curriculum development. Dr. Crum works with her team of experts to act as engaging and collaborative resources to schools, nonprofits, and companies helping them gauge the collective impact of our unconscious bias on diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) goals.

With her team, she facilitates and encourages thought-provoking conversations addressing difficult topics on supporting, interacting, and partnering with diverse communities. She works hard to help you become informed of and feel secure about using everyday practical applications of DEI strategies to positively impact your work and learning environment. To make this happen she creates a "brave space" where you can ask the tough questions, admit faults and celebrate successes. Her national and international experiences working with educators, museums, and businesses has allowed her to help you make social change from your desk, to your living room and beyond.

You may have heard her amazing TedxTalk title, A Tale of Two Teachers, where Dr. Crum discusses cultural differences she experienced as a child and how she assists educators with their unconscious biases through an art-based professional development program.

Credentials

  • MBE/EDGE certified
  • B.A. Visual Art Studies from the University of Florida
  • Masters in African-American and African Studies from The Ohio State University
  • Ph.D in Art Administration, Education, and Policy from The Ohio State University

TedxTalk: A Tale of Two Teachers

https://youtu.be/sgtinODaW78

Mosaic Education Network
https://www.mosaiceducationnetwork.com/about-us

Instagram
@mosaic_education_network

Facebook
https://www.facebook.com/MosaicEducationNetwork/

Scene On Radio Podcast
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/scene-on-radio/id1036276968

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Real Moms Too - Ep. 33: Real Moms Too 10 Year Challenge
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12/27/19 • 34 min

As we approach the New Year and a new decade, Alana and Xia take a moment to pause and reflect on the last decade. In episode 33, your momfriends share where they were in life 10 years ago (2009-2010), and how they have evolved since then. They also discuss some of the lessons they learned throughout the last decade and how each of those lessons and decisions have molded them into the women they are today. Everyone has goals and dreams and sometimes it is good to reflect on how far you've really grown. Your momfriends hope their time of reflection and sharing their desires for the new decade help others moms to reflect and be encouraged for the future. Happy New Year from Real Moms Too Podcast!
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Real Moms Too - Ep. 27: Real Moms Discuss Holiday Planning Too
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11/07/19 • 31 min

As the holiday season quickly approaches, the clock is ticking for families as they decide where to spend the holidays . Often times, to avoid the stress, we (parents) allow our families to dictate what we do for the holidays, what traditions we have, and which side of the family we will celebrate with. In episode 27, Alana and Xia provide tips on how to decide where you'll spend the holidays. They discuss creating your own traditions, blending family traditions, being flexible, and encourage all moms to focus on enjoying family time during the holidays. Whatever or wherever you decide to spend the holidays, Real Moms Too wants empower all momfriends to do what is best for your household. By planning in advance and being honest about what you want, RMT hopes you will be able to avoid the stress of holiday planning.
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Real Moms Too - Ep. 38: Real Moms Build Brands Too
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01/30/20 • 41 min

Some mothers have amazing ideas and businesses brewing in their minds, but between juggling motherhood and feeling inadequate, often times we do not even attempt to get started. The moms who have mustered up enough confidence to at least start, are not quite sure how to market and brand themselves, so their amazing ideas go unnoticed. In this episode, Real Moms Too interview their new momfriend, Jasmine Chanelle, owner of The J. Chanelle Group, LLC and host of the Mom2Mogul podcast.
As a personal brand coach for mompreneurs, Jasmine helps corporate moms launch online businesses so they can replace their income in order to leave their 9 to 5 and return home with their kids. When she is not working on branding projects, Jasmine inspires millennial moms to have it all, by sharing her life on YouTube and Instagram. She is a wife and mom of three with more than 350,000 views on her YouTube channel, The Journey Continues. On the channel, she highlights what it takes to be a boss in her business and at home. In 2016, Jasmine was recognized by the Black Pages South as a Top 20 Under 40 award recipient. She has been featured on various TV shows, podcasts and events.

Jasmine leaves Real Moms Too listeners with three very important brand takeaways that she delves in deeper in this episode: Mindset, Messaging, and Method. If you are hoping to better brand yourself or your business, this episode is for you!

Contact Jasmine Chanelle:

www.jasminechanelle.com

https://www.instagram.com/_jasminechanelle/

https://www.youtube.com/user/thejourneycontinue

Jasmine’s Faves:

Side Hustle Pro Podcast

https://www.sidehustlepro.co/

The Big Leap, by Gay Hendricks

https://www.amazon.com/Big-Leap-Conquer-Hidden-Level/dp/0061735361

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In episode 46, Alana and Xia discuss how they handling social distancing and share some of fears surrounding the COVID-19 pandemic. COVID-19 has taken many of us out of our comfort zone and created a lot of uncertainty. Because of the uncertainty, many states and countries are encouraging and mandating, social distancing. With social distancing comes school closings and life is temporarily changed. Alana and Xia share activities they are doing with their kids to keep them learning and entertained, as well as discussing some resources they have taken advantage of to ensure they are practicing self-care. Tune in to hear how your favorite momfriends are coping through social distancing due to the COVID-19 pandemic.
A Note From Our Hosts:
We, would like to be an encouragement to all during the COVID-19 pandemic. Many cities, states, and countries have issued stay-at-home orders to help reduce the spread of the virus. We hope our podcast can bring joy, motivation, and comfort to all moms no matter our backgrounds, ethnicity, or religion. We are all Real Moms Too and this has been a scary time for many of us, but we are hopeful that family bonds are being strengthened and love is being spread. Tune in to old episodes to help you get through this time "alone". And feel free to email us or message us on social media for episode ideas or general conversation as we hope we are creating a mommy village for all. We love to hear from you and we hope you are taking care of yourselves! As your favorite momfriends always say, you cannot be a good mom, until you are a good you!
- Alana and Xia

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Real Moms Too - Ep. 36: Real Moms Declutter and Organize Too
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01/16/20 • 37 min

We're halfway through the month of January and still fresh into the new year. Real Moms Too thinks this is the perfect time to help mamas get organized. Studies show that clutter can cause stress, anxiety, and the feeling of being overwhelmed. Your favorite momfriends want to help you avoid the stress and get rid of the mess! In episode 36, RMT equips moms with tips on how to tackle organizing and decluttering their homes, and also share tips on how to get the entire family involved in the process. Tune in to hear from your favorite momfriends as you not only prepare yourself, but your home in 2020!
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Real Moms Too - Ep. 45: Real Moms Discuss Estate Plans Too
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03/19/20 • 56 min

In episode 45, Real Moms Too interview mother and fellow podcaster, Shakisha Morgan, Estate Planning Attorney with the Griffin Firm PLLC in Washington, D.C. Shakisha discusses the importance of having a Will, Trust, and/or an Estate Plan.

Shakisha drops so many gems throughout the entire episode whether you are riding solo dolo, a new parent, or a grandparent the information she shares is extremely valuable. Shakisha debunks myths, gives tips on how to choose who is the guardian of your children, and encourages people of all ages to be prepared, not only for themselves, but for their family's sake! This episode is for all generations to help protect and secure what and who we all work so hard to provide for, our families.
More About Our Guest:
Shakisha Morgan is an advocate and educator who uses values-based estate planning strategies to empower individuals and families to create, protect, and transfer wealth. She helps guide families through the complex and draining process of probate administration and litigation. She is a workshop facilitator, guest lecturer, and has been a keynote speaker on various topics within estate planning, multigenerational wealth, millennial wealth building, and leadership. She has been featured at the Association of Black Estate Planning Professionals' Creating a Legacy Conference, and has appeared on the Gettin' Grown podcast and local news.
Shakisha's Instagram
Shakisha's Twitter
Mary & Martha Podcast - Outside of being an attorney, Shakisha is also a co-host on the Mary & Martha Podcast! Check it out Here!
A Note From Our Hosts:
We, Alana and Xia, would like to be an encouragement to all during the COVID-19 pandemic. Many cities, states, and countries have been quarantined and asked to use social distancing to help reduce the spread of the virus. We hope our podcast can bring joy, motivation, and comfort in knowing that we are all Real Moms Too no matter our backgrounds, ethnicity, or religion. This has been a scary time for many of us, but we are hopeful that family bonds are being strengthened and love is being spread. Tune in to old episodes to help you get through this time "alone". Feel free to email us or message us on social media for episode ideas or general conversation as we hope we are creating a mommy village for all. We love to hear from you and we hope you are taking care of yourselves! As your favorite momfriends always say, you cannot be a good mom, until you are a good you!
- Alana and Xia

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FAQ

How many episodes does Real Moms Too have?

Real Moms Too currently has 52 episodes available.

What topics does Real Moms Too cover?

The podcast is about Mommy, Breastfeeding, Parent, Baby, Mom, Children, Kids, Family, Podcasts, Kids & Family, Comedy, Pregnancy and Motherhood.

What is the most popular episode on Real Moms Too?

The episode title 'Ep. 51: Real Moms Take Breaks Too' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on Real Moms Too?

The average episode length on Real Moms Too is 41 minutes.

How often are episodes of Real Moms Too released?

Episodes of Real Moms Too are typically released every 7 days, 10 hours.

When was the first episode of Real Moms Too?

The first episode of Real Moms Too was released on Aug 27, 2018.

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