Boundaries - Queer Sex Ed Podcast: Episode 36

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10/12/18 • 97 min

Sara and Jay are BACK and this time we're talking about boundaries, rules, agreements, and how you can figure out what your boundaries are and what you need to feel safe.

Useful links:

https://www.morethantwo.com/polyamorywithoutrules.html

https://www.morethantwo.com/jealousypractice.html

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Sara and Jay are BACK and this time we're talking about boundaries, rules, agreements, and how you can figure out what your boundaries are and what you need to feel safe.

Useful links:

https://www.morethantwo.com/polyamorywithoutrules.html

https://www.morethantwo.com/jealousypractice.html

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Jay and Sara are answering your questions this week! Thank you to everyone who was vulnerable and asked us to help you move through difficult things.

Discussed in this episode: dysphoria and eating disorder history, family rejection, telling a partner you are no longer attracted to them, fatphobia in dating preferences, what queer porn do we enjoy, supporting ethical porn production, and the pitfalls of focusing on inclusive language without inclusive action for allies.

Show links:

http://www.ashleighshackelford.com/

http://www.askingbear.com/

https://www.sonyareneetaylor.com/

http://www.instarbooks.com/books/nerve-endings.html

http://www.ihartericka.com/#home

https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/7xx73q/this-leading-trans-porn-company-is-wiping-slurs-from-its-site

https://medium.com/the-establishment/the-radical-potential-of-trans-kink-porn-cc6396773fd7

https://www.teenvogue.com/story/what-you-should-know-before-you-start-watching-porn

https://www.vice.com/en_ca/article/mgyax8/what-its-like-to-be-a-genderfluid-sex-worker

https://medium.com/@HARLOT/what-does-it-take-to-believe-a-whore-or-why-writing-about-sex-work-should-be-left-to-sex-workers-22fc6b2e9bdb