Getting the Words Right

08/08/24 • 21 min

Welcome to this episode of the Psychology of the Voice ® podcast. Today, we're diving into a topic that’s crucial for anyone looking to enhance their communication skills: getting the words right. As we wrap up the Olympics season, we'll use a unique example from this year's games to illustrate our point.

Episode Highlights

1. Introduction to Today’s Topic

We’ll discuss the importance of getting your words right and how it ties into your overall communication strategy.
Explore the concept of perfectionism in communication and how it can affect your delivery and confidence.

2. Monthly Free Training & Resources

I offer free training every month to help you speak more confidently, connect authentically, and convert consistently. Join us at captivatetheroom.com/unleashfree.
Don’t miss out on my audio resource, “Use Your Voice to Command Any Space,” available at captivatetheroom.com/command.

3. The Pressure to Get the Words Right

Delve into why people often feel they must get every word perfect.
Discuss how striving for perfection can undermine your natural communication style and authenticity.

4. The Snoop Dogg Example

A light-hearted look at Snoop Dogg’s Olympic commentary. His unfiltered, authentic style has captivated millions, demonstrating that connection and personality often outweigh technical perfection.
Example: Snoop Dogg’s badminton commentary – playful, engaging, and far from traditional.

5. The Real Issue: Connection and Authenticity

Can a commentator, or anyone speaking publicly, balance the need to get the words right with staying true to their authentic self?
Why it's crucial to focus on how you deliver your message rather than obsessing over getting every word perfect.

6. Practical Advice for Speakers

Trust yourself and your knowledge. Understand that perfectionism can hinder rather than help your communication.
The importance of being genuine and engaging in your delivery. People are drawn to authentic voices, not just correct words.

7. Overcoming Insecurities

Strategies to overcome the fear of not getting the words right.
Real-life example of a client’s experience with resistance and perfectionism.

8. Final Thoughts

Embrace your unique voice and style. Let go of the need for perfection and focus on connecting with your audience.
Remember: Authenticity and confidence are key to captivating any audience.

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Episode Highlights

1. Introduction to Today’s Topic

We’ll discuss the importance of getting your words right and how it ties into your overall communication strategy.
Explore the concept of perfectionism in communication and how it can affect your delivery and confidence.

2. Monthly Free Training & Resources

I offer free training every month to help you speak more confidently, connect authentically, and convert consistently. Join us at captivatetheroom.com/unleashfree.
Don’t miss out on my audio resource, “Use Your Voice to Command Any Space,” available at captivatetheroom.com/command.

3. The Pressure to Get the Words Right

Delve into why people often feel they must get every word perfect.
Discuss how striving for perfection can undermine your natural communication style and authenticity.

4. The Snoop Dogg Example

A light-hearted look at Snoop Dogg’s Olympic commentary. His unfiltered, authentic style has captivated millions, demonstrating that connection and personality often outweigh technical perfection.
Example: Snoop Dogg’s badminton commentary – playful, engaging, and far from traditional.

5. The Real Issue: Connection and Authenticity

Can a commentator, or anyone speaking publicly, balance the need to get the words right with staying true to their authentic self?
Why it's crucial to focus on how you deliver your message rather than obsessing over getting every word perfect.

6. Practical Advice for Speakers

Trust yourself and your knowledge. Understand that perfectionism can hinder rather than help your communication.
The importance of being genuine and engaging in your delivery. People are drawn to authentic voices, not just correct words.

7. Overcoming Insecurities

Strategies to overcome the fear of not getting the words right.
Real-life example of a client’s experience with resistance and perfectionism.

8. Final Thoughts

Embrace your unique voice and style. Let go of the need for perfection and focus on connecting with your audience.
Remember: Authenticity and confidence are key to captivating any audience.

Previous Episode

My Voice Story

Understanding the Psychology of the Voice: My Personal Journey and Insights

Episode Summary: In this episode, we dive deeper into the concept of the psychology of the voice, blending personal anecdotes with professional insights to illuminate how our voice is influenced by our life experiences. Whether you're new to this concept or a returning listener, today's discussion will offer valuable perspectives on how our past can shape our present vocal expression and communication.

Key Topics:

Introduction to the Psychology of the Voice:
- A brief recap of the psychology of the voice concept for newcomers and a refresher for existing listeners.
- The importance of understanding how personal experiences shape vocal expression.
Personal Journey and Early Challenges:
- The initial resistance to the field and dealing with impostor syndrome.
- Growing up in an environment of silence and the impact it had on the ability to express emotions and assert oneself.
Critical Influences and Early Realizations:
- Insights from the TED Talk on voice masks and how early life experiences of being silenced influenced the development of the psychology of the voice.
- The development of unique auditory skills and the struggle to navigate silence and assertiveness.
A Challenging Experience in College:
- A dramatic story from college involving physical and emotional challenges while performing in a lead role.
- The profound impact of being unable to say “no” and how it affected vocal expression and personal boundaries.
Breakthrough and Discovery:
- The pivotal moment of realizing the connection between past traumas and current vocal challenges.
- The development of the psychology of the voice methodology and how the author’s experiences led to new insights.
The Turning Point:
- Transitioning from traditional voice coaching to a deeper understanding of voice psychology.
- The struggle to reconcile traditional methods with the need to address underlying psychological issues.
Overcoming Doubts and Building Expertise:
- The journey from feeling like a fraud to establishing a successful voice coaching practice.
- Insights into the development of techniques to address subconscious influences and vocal sound.
The Role of Voice Masks:
- Introduction to voice masks and their significance in shaping how we communicate and are perceived.
- Real-life examples of how understanding voice masks can transform communication effectiveness.
Current Work and Future Directions:
- Ongoing commitment to understanding and applying the psychology of the voice.
- The impact of continued research and practice on refining the approach to voice coaching.

Listener Takeaways:

Recognize the impact of past experiences on current vocal expression and communication.
Understand the connection between psychological wounds and vocal habits.
Learn how to identify and address underlying issues that affect vocal authenticity and effectiveness.
Gain insights into the development of the psychology of the voice and how it can enhance personal and professi

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In today's episode, you're going to learn something fascinating about how she wants to come across the effort that she's making to create that sound and my interpretation of how that is going sideways.

Lauren is putting something in place to get a result and the very thing she is putting in place will actually cost her from getting the result because the sounds are not what she perceives them to be.

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