ProjectME with Tiffany Carter – Entrepreneurship & Millionaire Mindset - [Manifesting Money Series] PART 1: Your thinking is blocking your desires, time for a reboot EP397

[Manifesting Money Series] PART 1: Your thinking is blocking your desires, time for a reboot EP397

03/28/22 • 24 min

ProjectME with Tiffany Carter – Entrepreneurship & Millionaire Mindset

It’s a full time job believing in ourselves.

Managing our monkey minds and the 6-12 thousand thoughts we have in a day is exhausting sometimes, but the price you will pay if you don’t do the daily work is HUGE.

Of those thousands of thoughts, on average 80% of them are negative, and 95% of those are repetitive negative thoughts.

(Source: The TLX institute®)

Well f*ck no wonder I was walking around like a whacked out zombie most of my life.

First of all, don’t beat yourself up for being so negative or critical, this is the default programming that your mind will go to if left unmanaged.

Second, just because we have those intrusive thoughts, doesn’t mean we can’t manage them. Look at your thoughts like 15 six year-olds playing with puppies...PURE CHAOS.

But just as you can wrangle those kids, you can do the same with your thoughts. At first, it will feel frustrating and exhausting, like nothing is working. That’s 100% normal.

Just like anything else you dedicate time, attention and patience to, your mind also gets easier to manage.

You start by being aware of your words and thoughts. Notice your repeat go to phrases, words, and frustrations.

Mine used to be, “I’m so exhausted.”

Well guess what? I was, but repeatedly saying and thinking this wasn’t helping me feel any less exhausted.

You can’t tell yourself a lie, this is why most affirmations won’t work, because many of them are too far fetched for you mind to buy into. (that’s why I created my own millionaire mindset affirmation card deck for you...everyone out there felt like lies to my brain.)

You need to select a different thought that’s even 15% more positively charged than what you were saying.

Maybe.. “I really want to have more energy.”

See how that’s a little better?

Just like we have to do if we haven’t exercised in a long time...ease into it. Forcing your body to run a marathon when you haven’t even ran a mile doesn’t work, so why would shocking your brain be effective?

Just dropped the first episode of the NEW 3-part Manifesting Money Podcast Series!

Time to get that cash flowing into your life.

*** SPRING APPLICATIONS ARE CLOSING SOON ***

Time to stop treating your business like a hobby. It’s time for you to go ALL IN and make life-changing cash for you and your loved ones.

Apply for my Exclusive 2-Month Private Coaching Program here: Click Here to Apply

(I only take a max of 6 private clients at a time.)

Abundance Walk: Guided Meditation Series > get it here for FREE: projectmewithtiffany.com/guidedmeditation

Get my Millionaire Mindset Affirmation Card Deck HERE: Affirmation Card Deck

Welcome to ProjectME the Podcast with your host Tiffany Carter, who takes the mystery out of making BIG money? A former NBC and CBS TV journalist, turned multi-millionaire entrepreneur, teaching you all things wealth, health, worth, and business. You can follow Tiffany on Instagram @projectme_with_tiffany on Facebook @projectmewithtiffany and watch her TV episodes on ProjectME TV with Tiffany Carter on YouTube.

Subscribe to Tiffany’s FREE weekly digest, The Secret Posse, and get exclusive content you won’t find anywhere else: millionaire mindset exercises, custom weekly abundance affirmations, and her best money making tips.

It’s a full time job believing in ourselves.

Managing our monkey minds and the 6-12 thousand thoughts we have in a day is exhausting sometimes, but the price you will pay if you don’t do the daily work is HUGE.

Of those thousands of thoughts, on average 80% of them are negative, and 95% of those are repetitive negative thoughts.

(Source: The TLX institute®)

Well f*ck no wonder I was walking around like a whacked out zombie most of my life.

First of all, don’t beat yourself up for being so negative or critical, this is the default programming that your mind will go to if left unmanaged.

Second, just because we have those intrusive thoughts, doesn’t mean we can’t manage them. Look at your thoughts like 15 six year-olds playing with puppies...PURE CHAOS.

But just as you can wrangle those kids, you can do the same with your thoughts. At first, it will feel frustrating and exhausting, like nothing is working. That’s 100% normal.

Just like anything else you dedicate time, attention and patience to, your mind also gets easier to manage.

You start by being aware of your words and thoughts. Notice your repeat go to phrases, words, and frustrations.

Mine used to be, “I’m so exhausted.”

Well guess what? I was, but repeatedly saying and thinking this wasn’t helping me feel any less exhausted.

You need to select a different thought that’s even 15% more positively charged than what you were saying.

Maybe.. “I really want to have more energy.”

See how that’s a little better?

Just dropped the first episode of the NEW 3-part Manifesting Money Podcast Series!

Time to get that cash flowing into your life.

*** SPRING APPLICATIONS ARE CLOSING SOON ***

Time to stop treating your business like a hobby. It’s time for you to go ALL IN and make life-changing cash for you and your loved ones.

Apply for my Exclusive 2-Month Private Coaching Program here: Click Here to Apply

(I only take a max of 6 private clients at a time.)

Abundance Walk: Guided Meditation Series > get it here for FREE: projectmewithtiffany.com/guidedmeditation

Get my Millionaire Mindset Affirmation Card Deck HERE: Affirmation Card Deck

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Prioritizing your way to Profits: When your head is filled with tasks and ideas, Where do you even start? EP396

Don’t be fooled by this nonsense.

Thinking you have to do all the things and be on all the socials for this to work.

Thinking you aren’t organized enough or motivated enough to build a successful business.

Thinking that once you have “CLARITY” on what you need to do first and the next steps, then you will take action.

Thinking that you need to be something other than who you are to make major cash and impact online. (ie. a type A over-achiever, an extrovert, well-connected, super confident, well-spoken, etc...)

As a type-Z personality and a self-proclaimed “World’s Laziest Business Coach,’ Empath, highly sensitive person, introvert, unorganized, over-thinking crazy pants...I’ve generated over 160 million dollars in sales for both my self and my clients, leaving me with multiple 7-figures in the bank baby!!!

I too, was fooled just like you for years by my own ego, and listening to other people’s projected fears and scarcity-based opinions. It kept me playing small; it kept me stuck in an unfulfilled life; and one day I said a two-word sentence that changed it all...

“FU*K IT.”

We are in control of whether we do the damn thing or not.

We are in control of whether we believe it’s possible for us or not.

We are in control of whether we allow outside noise to keep us trapped.

I decided to stop sitting on the edge of the pool and jump into that wildly uncomfortable ice-cold water, and GO FOR IT.

The day I decided to stop listening to that loud nasty inner bully (my ego) and other people’s opinions on my life is the day I STEPPED INTO TRUE FREEDOM.

If you know you’ve been holding back, whether it’s starting that business, taking your business to the next level, launching a podcast, writing that book, building your speaking career...I invite you today to say “FU*K IT.”

Everything you desire is on the other side of taking that terrifying leap of faith...but you don’t have to do it blindly or alone, that’s why you’ve got me to guide you every step of the way.

*** SPRING APPLICATIONS ARE CLOSING SOON ***

Time to stop treating your business like a hobby. It’s time for you to go ALL IN and make life-changing cash for you and your loved ones.

Apply for my Exclusive 2-Month Private Coaching Program here: Click Here to Apply

(I only take a max of 6 private clients at a time.)

Abundance Walk: Guided Meditation Series > get it here for FREE: projectmewithtiffany.com/guidedmeditation

Next Episode

[Manifesting Money Series] PART 2: How to use words to get in and stay in the Super Abundance Zone, without lying to yourself EP398

This word makes me lose my mind! It’s the ULTIMATE abundance-blocker.

Incredible how these 3 little letters can change the trajectory of your entire life.

T-R-Y

Guaranteed, you have heard your partner say it, your kids, employees, family members, and yet part of you is still operating parts of your life under the “I’ll try” method.

When my long-time private Spiritual Mentor Tony gave me the task to put a check mark on a Post-It every time I thought or said “try” for two weeks....I thought, “well I hate when people say it to me, so I doubt I say it much at all.” HA!!!!

I found this worn sticky note inside one of my favorite abundance books last week (can you say “divine timing”??!”).... 127 check marks!!!!!

Keep in mind; I was already someone who cringed when I heard this word, ever since I had semi-private sessions with Tony Robbins in my 20s while working for a major pharmaceutical corporation.

BTW, I don’t recommend saying the word “try” to Tony in real life, he broke my ass down hard, and I needed it.

When you ask your husband if he would please fix the dripping faucet this weekend, and his reply is, “sure honey, I’ll try,” would you feel at ease and confident that it is going to get done?

When you tell your kid they must clean their room before they can go out with friends, and the reply is, “sure Mom, I”ll try,” would you not lose your damn mind?

You are doing the same thing with your own dreams.

When you make a commitment to yourself on December 31st, to go all-in on growing your dream business this year and stop putting it off....but then it’s the end of January and you’re still “trying,” then February comes...”I’m trying but nothing is working”....then in March you know you are barely trying, and mad at yourself for it.

NOW IT’S APRIL and you have a decision to make.

Are you willing to commit to STOP TRYING and START DOING?

It’s understandable if you aren’t sure of what the difference is, as I wasn’t completely aware either.

Trying is letting yourself have an option to NOT do, achieve, or complete the thing.

Doing is setting yourself up to make sure you follow through and it gets completed.

Trying is saying to yourself, your inner circle, and the Universe that your dream isn’t all that important to you...and therefor your actions will energetically match the words you continue to speak.

Doing is based in action and energy; it’s a clear and strong vibe. This is when everyone around you including yourself knows you are going for it and THIS IS HAPPENING (and so it will).

When you follow the “I’m trying” method, the Universe doesn’t take you seriously as you aren’t determined to make this manifestation in to a reality.

You hold the power to change this TODAY.

Notice what happens in your body, when go from the toe-dippin’ try to the ALL-IN energy of “it’s happening, and I’ll do my best to make sure of it.”

Which business owner would you bet on, the “tryer” or the “doer” ?

*** SPRING APPLICATIONS ARE ABOUT TO CLOSE! ***

It’s time to start treating your dream like a business and not a side-hobby.

Let’s get those clients and cash flowing, so you can do BIG things in this world.

Apply for my Exclusive 2-Month Private Coaching Program here: Click Here to Apply

(I only take a max of 6 private clients at a time.)

Abundance Walk: Guided Meditation Series > get it here for FREE: projectmewithtiffany.com/guidedmeditation

Get my Millionaire Mindset Affirmation Card Deck HERE: Affirmation Card Deck

Subscribe to Tiffany’s FREE weekly digest, The Secret Posse, and get exclusive content you won’t find anywhere else: millionaire mindset exercises, custom weekly abundance affirmati...