
41. Juneteenth!
06/19/22 • 9 min
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Welcome back to Spend Donate Invest. We vote, we protest, but what about our money? Is there a way we can line up our personal values and our money? This is what I’m exploring on this show. Thank you so much for all of your emails and DMs with all of the questions you’re wondering about.
Here’s this week’s letter:
I got the day off for Juneteenth and I’m trying to think about ways to honor the holiday and incorporate it into my family’s annual traditions. We have a nice tradition in my family of volunteering on Thanksgiving, we love it, it’s fun, it brings the family together, it reminds us to practice gratitude. We usually spend some time that weekend learning more about Native American history as a family and that has felt right for my family. What can we do for Juneteenth to honor the magnitude of this day?
Thanks for your letter. Before I offer some thoughts on honoring the day, I’ll encourage you to do your own research to understand the history and meaning of the day. And really look around at multiple sources. There’s a tendency to gloss over some of our ugliest aspects of our country and an inability to hold painful truths alongside gratitude for our progress. Our best self is one where we can acknowledge where we started, work to improve, and continually check for successes and failures as we evolve. I think your family’s participation in Juneteenth can be a part of how your family does this.
Let’s start with education. When I think about the potential of Juneteenth, the first thing I think of is the potential for education. I’d encourage you to think about your family’s specific relationship to the enslavement of Africans in this country. Were your family members enslaved? Were they enslavers? Do you live on a former forced labor camp? I guess they call those plantations in a lot of places. What’s the truth behind your family’s relationship to the enslavement of kidnapped Africans in America? Are you recent Americans like my family? Maybe you showed up here after the Emancipation Proclamation in the 1800s. Did your family benefit from the anti-Black policies that lingered after slavery? Did your family work in careers where Black people were not allowed the same government protections or benefits? Did your family work in agriculture for example? Did your family buy a home in a redlined area? Has your family benefited from anti-blackness? Exploring your family’s relationship to slavery in America could be one way that you honor Juneteenth in your family.
Let’s talk about celebration. Depending on your relationship to slavery in America, you can be thoughtful about how to celebrate? Are you celebrating your ancestors' survival? Are you celebrating Black joy? Are you celebrating African American culture and history?
And finally, let’s talk about activism. What can you do to be on the side of progress? There’s so much! Find out what the Black activists in your neighborhood are talking about. What do they need? How can you help? Can you advocate for truthful teaching of our history? Can you advocate for reparations? This is a money show, so there’s the first recommendation which is to look for your role in advancing reparations! Other potential areas for advocacy that you might consider include include voting rights and police and criminal justice reform. There are so many advocacy areas, pick the ones that make sense for your family.
In fact, you might put your advocacy efforts towards really ending slavery in America. The 13th Amendment didn’t end enslavement for all Americans. The law very specifically carves out an exception to continue slavery and involuntary servitude for people who have been convicited of a crime. And so today, there is a very quie
Welcome back to Spend Donate Invest. We vote, we protest, but what about our money? Is there a way we can line up our personal values and our money? This is what I’m exploring on this show. Thank you so much for all of your emails and DMs with all of the questions you’re wondering about.
Here’s this week’s letter:
I got the day off for Juneteenth and I’m trying to think about ways to honor the holiday and incorporate it into my family’s annual traditions. We have a nice tradition in my family of volunteering on Thanksgiving, we love it, it’s fun, it brings the family together, it reminds us to practice gratitude. We usually spend some time that weekend learning more about Native American history as a family and that has felt right for my family. What can we do for Juneteenth to honor the magnitude of this day?
Thanks for your letter. Before I offer some thoughts on honoring the day, I’ll encourage you to do your own research to understand the history and meaning of the day. And really look around at multiple sources. There’s a tendency to gloss over some of our ugliest aspects of our country and an inability to hold painful truths alongside gratitude for our progress. Our best self is one where we can acknowledge where we started, work to improve, and continually check for successes and failures as we evolve. I think your family’s participation in Juneteenth can be a part of how your family does this.
Let’s start with education. When I think about the potential of Juneteenth, the first thing I think of is the potential for education. I’d encourage you to think about your family’s specific relationship to the enslavement of Africans in this country. Were your family members enslaved? Were they enslavers? Do you live on a former forced labor camp? I guess they call those plantations in a lot of places. What’s the truth behind your family’s relationship to the enslavement of kidnapped Africans in America? Are you recent Americans like my family? Maybe you showed up here after the Emancipation Proclamation in the 1800s. Did your family benefit from the anti-Black policies that lingered after slavery? Did your family work in careers where Black people were not allowed the same government protections or benefits? Did your family work in agriculture for example? Did your family buy a home in a redlined area? Has your family benefited from anti-blackness? Exploring your family’s relationship to slavery in America could be one way that you honor Juneteenth in your family.
Let’s talk about celebration. Depending on your relationship to slavery in America, you can be thoughtful about how to celebrate? Are you celebrating your ancestors' survival? Are you celebrating Black joy? Are you celebrating African American culture and history?
And finally, let’s talk about activism. What can you do to be on the side of progress? There’s so much! Find out what the Black activists in your neighborhood are talking about. What do they need? How can you help? Can you advocate for truthful teaching of our history? Can you advocate for reparations? This is a money show, so there’s the first recommendation which is to look for your role in advancing reparations! Other potential areas for advocacy that you might consider include include voting rights and police and criminal justice reform. There are so many advocacy areas, pick the ones that make sense for your family.
In fact, you might put your advocacy efforts towards really ending slavery in America. The 13th Amendment didn’t end enslavement for all Americans. The law very specifically carves out an exception to continue slavery and involuntary servitude for people who have been convicited of a crime. And so today, there is a very quie
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40. Give now or wait till I'm rich?
Here’s this week’s letter:
Should I wait until I am financially well off before I give?
No. Please don’t wait until you are “rich” before you take your giving seriously. We’ve talked about this before on Episode 24, you might never feel rich. In my observation, nobody hoards money more than a wealthy person. Give what you can when you can. Especially because people need help now. As of the end of 2021, 20 million Americans reported living in households without enough food. In America!
If you're doubting what your small donation can do, take heart, you can change someone's day. You can change someone's season with an act of generosity. You can step in to help right when someone is about to go down a spiral or you can set someone onto a different path with an intervention today. If your hesitation is that you think giving will hold you back from becoming financially well off, you can set boundaries for yourself. I’ve never met anyone who was donating too much except for people who have said they were giving too much to their relatives. Now that’s a concern that I do think warrants some caution. You’re going to want to get guidance from someone who understands your cultural background to be able to provide you guidance on how to help those that you love while still protecting your financial future. But I’m talking about helping your parents keep their house or your cousin fix their car so they can get to work.
But if you’re concerned that you giving small donations as you can on your path to financial security is going to hold you back from financial security, I just haven’t seen that to be true before. If you are worried you will become an impulsive giver, you can definitely think about setting some giving goals. There’s a very popular episode #2 about figuring out how much you want to give.
If your concern on the other hand is that you won’t be able to create meaningful change with small donations versus this hypothetical large donation you want to give at the end of your life, again I would shine the spotlight on the issues your fellow humans are facing right now. Because the reality is that you can do both. You can give in small increments as you grow your wealth and then your level of giving can grow as your wealth grows and if it is important to you to leave a big donation when you leave the earth, I think you can plan for this. Then again, much like saying how you feel about people while they are alive, and not waiting until their funeral. I would encourage you to give while you are alive and not wait until your own funeral.
Of all the things to procrastinate, please don’t let helping others be one of those things.
https://www.cbpp.org/research/poverty-and-inequality/tracking-the-covid-19-economys-effects-on-food-housing-and#:~:text=The%20COVID%2D19%20pandemic,remained%20high%20throughout%202020.
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42. Pay Transparency for Allies
Here’s this week’s letter:
I’m wondering how I can be an ally at work. I heard that there’s a new pay transparency law coming into play, in the past what always made me uncomfortable was thinking about the nondisclosure form I had signed promising that I wouldn’t share my salary with anyone, but over the past few years as I’ve become educated about pay discrepancies particularly for women, I have started to think that what my employer is asking me to do is unethical. So my question is, do you recommend pay transparency as a form of allyship?
Links from today's discussion:
https://www.forbes.com/sites/ruthgotian/2022/05/24/why-new-pay-transparency-law-may-not-solve-the-wage-discrimination-problem/?sh=6943467d489e
https://www.wired.com/story/salary-transparency-gender-pay-gap/
https://www.govdocs.com/can-employees-discuss-pay-salaries/
Progressive Pockets: a podcast about the untapped power of our wallets to build the world we want - 41. Juneteenth!
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Welcome back to Spend Donate Invest. We vote, we protest, but what about our money? Is there a way we can line up our personal values and our money? This is what I’m exploring on this show. Thank you so much for all of your emails and DMs with all of the questions you’re wondering about.
Here’s this week’s letter:
I got the day off for Juneteenth and I’m trying to think about ways to honor the holiday and incorporate it into my family’s annual traditions. We have a nice tradi
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