327 - Solution vs. Problem
03/15/24 • 38 min
“Porn is not the problem for us,” I write in my book. “It’s the solution.” It may feel like the problem in your life that needs to be fixed. But if you’re using porn there is a need that is driving it. It’s a solution.
This is part 2 in our series, The Choice is Yours.
Get the full show notes here:
https://recoveredman.com/327
PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are 4 ways I can help you in your recovery:
Porn Free This Year (Free video course)
http://recoveredman.com/thisyear
Buy the book, Porn Free by Matt Dobschuetz
http://pornfreebook.com
Join a REV Group
http://recoveredman.com/rev
1-on-1 Coaching with Matt Dobschuetz
https://recoveredman.com/coaching
“Porn is not the problem for us,” I write in my book. “It’s the solution.” It may feel like the problem in your life that needs to be fixed. But if you’re using porn there is a need that is driving it. It’s a solution.
This is part 2 in our series, The Choice is Yours.
Get the full show notes here:
https://recoveredman.com/327
PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are 4 ways I can help you in your recovery:
Porn Free This Year (Free video course)
http://recoveredman.com/thisyear
Buy the book, Porn Free by Matt Dobschuetz
http://pornfreebook.com
Join a REV Group
http://recoveredman.com/rev
1-on-1 Coaching with Matt Dobschuetz
https://recoveredman.com/coaching
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326 - Owner vs. Victim
Author Steve Chandler often says there are two types of people in the world; owners and victims. Victims see themselves as victims of their situation or circumstance. Life happens to them. Owners on the hand while they can't control every situation and circumstance, they control their reaction to any situation. Learning the habits of thinking like an owner is essential to be porn free.
This is part 1 in our new series, The Choice is Yours.
Get the full show notes here:
https://recoveredman.com/326
PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are 4 ways I can help you in your recovery:
Porn Free This Year (Free video course)
http://recoveredman.com/thisyear
Buy the book, Porn Free by Matt Dobschuetz
http://pornfreebook.com
Join a REV Group
http://recoveredman.com/rev
1-on-1 Coaching with Matt Dobschuetz
https://recoveredman.com/coaching
Next Episode
328 - Skills vs. Willpower
When you started recovery, the challenge was overwhelming (high) and your skill level was low.
And chances are if you have not significantly changed your habits, the challenge feels about the same.
For a long time the only tool in your tool box was willpower. Some version of "JUST SAY NO."
But often willpower is easily exhausted. It gives out when we need it most.
What if I told you success in recovery is not about increasing your willpower, it's about building skills.
This is part 3 in our series, The Choice is Yours.
Get the full show notes here:
https://recoveredman.com/328
PLUS: Whenever you're ready... here are 4 ways I can help you in your recovery:
Porn Free This Year (Free video course)
http://recoveredman.com/thisyear
Buy the book, Porn Free by Matt Dobschuetz
http://pornfreebook.com
Join a REV Group
http://recoveredman.com/rev
1-on-1 Coaching with Matt Dobschuetz
https://recoveredman.com/coaching
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