#29 Orgies Like A Brazilian Steakhouse
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02/11/20 • 61 min
How do you make sure that you and your partner are comfortable with everything you do at a sexy party? How do you prevent "unsexifying" the moment when you pause for negotiation and consent checks? How do you handle it when you feel upset at a sexy party, or your partner, or both of you?
The Pod has answers, anecdotes, advice, and more. We'll tell you how we'd like to have those conversations and set expectations, and confess our communication breakdowns. May this episode bless you with some tools to make your kink, swing, and orgy parties a success for all!
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- Event: Winter Fire
- Negotiation Sheet: Rough BS by Sunny Megatron
- Book: The Four Agreements
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- Midroll Music: "The Point Break" by Pale Blue/Goberino
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How do you make sure that you and your partner are comfortable with everything you do at a sexy party? How do you prevent "unsexifying" the moment when you pause for negotiation and consent checks? How do you handle it when you feel upset at a sexy party, or your partner, or both of you?
The Pod has answers, anecdotes, advice, and more. We'll tell you how we'd like to have those conversations and set expectations, and confess our communication breakdowns. May this episode bless you with some tools to make your kink, swing, and orgy parties a success for all!
For complete show notes and a list of terms used in this episode, head to PodPodCvltCast.com
Resources & References
- Event: Winter Fire
- Negotiation Sheet: Rough BS by Sunny Megatron
- Book: The Four Agreements
Credits & Contact
- Hosts: Max, Chastain, Hannah, & Erik
- Website: www.podpodcvltcast.com
- Email: [email protected]
- Title Music: "Spencer - Bluegrass" by Lobo Loco
- Midroll Music: "The Point Break" by Pale Blue/Goberino
Social Meteors
- Instagram: @cvltwithav
- Twitter: @PodPodCvltCast
- Facebook: @PodPodCvltCast
- Patreon: Pod Pod Cvlt Cast
- YouTube: Pod Pod Cvlt Cast
- Tumblr: /podpodcvlcast
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- Email: [email protected]
- Title Music: "Spencer - Bluegrass" by Lobo Loco
- Midroll Music: "The Point Break" by Pale Blue/Goberino
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- Book: Super Sad True Love Story
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- Hosts: Max, Chastain, Hannah, & Erik
- Website: www.podpodcvltcast.com
- Email: [email protected]
- Title Music: "Spencer - Bluegrass" by Lobo Loco
- Midroll Music: "The Point Break" by Pale Blue/Goberino
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- Twitter: @PodPodCvltCast
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