Why Couples Need to Grieve and Mourn to Facilitate Betrayal Trauma Healing & Addiction Recovery w/ Jake Porter
08/06/24 • 42 min
In this episode, host Tara McCausland and guest expert Dr. Jake Porter discuss the significance of grief in the healing process for betrayed partners and how essential it is for both partners in a relationship to engage in the mourning process. He emphasizes the need for safety and stabilization before addressing grief and mourning, and provides insights on how couples can support each other through the healing journey. The episode also highlights the importance of seeking qualified therapy and creating personalized mourning rituals to cope with betrayal trauma. Connect with Dr. Porter at www.daringventures.com.
00:00 Introduction and Event Announcement
01:41 Meet Dr. Jake Porter
02:58 APSATS and Betrayal Trauma
04:13 Phases of Healing in APSATS Model
05:00 The Importance of Grief and Mourning
08:07 Challenges of Grieving Betrayal
11:09 Supporting the Betrayed Partner
14:00 Grief Work for the Betraying Partner
21:06 Creating Rituals for Mourning
22:21 The Role of Qualified Therapy
25:47 Justice in Betrayal Trauma Treatment
34:13 Phases of Grief Work
38:24 Final Thoughts and Advice
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In this episode, host Tara McCausland and guest expert Dr. Jake Porter discuss the significance of grief in the healing process for betrayed partners and how essential it is for both partners in a relationship to engage in the mourning process. He emphasizes the need for safety and stabilization before addressing grief and mourning, and provides insights on how couples can support each other through the healing journey. The episode also highlights the importance of seeking qualified therapy and creating personalized mourning rituals to cope with betrayal trauma. Connect with Dr. Porter at www.daringventures.com.
00:00 Introduction and Event Announcement
01:41 Meet Dr. Jake Porter
02:58 APSATS and Betrayal Trauma
04:13 Phases of Healing in APSATS Model
05:00 The Importance of Grief and Mourning
08:07 Challenges of Grieving Betrayal
11:09 Supporting the Betrayed Partner
14:00 Grief Work for the Betraying Partner
21:06 Creating Rituals for Mourning
22:21 The Role of Qualified Therapy
25:47 Justice in Betrayal Trauma Treatment
34:13 Phases of Grief Work
38:24 Final Thoughts and Advice
SA Lifeline Foundation
SAL 12 Step
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Contact to ask questions or make comments
Transcripts
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In this episode, hosts Tara McCausland and Justin B. discuss applying recovery principles in parenting and how these principles can positively impact parenting style. They emphasize the importance of surrender, trust in God, and the shift from control, fear and pride to surrender, faith, and humility. Personal anecdotes and member shares from the SAL book highlight the positive impact that recovery can have on family dynamics and individual serenity.
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0:00 Q&A - How do recovery principles change the way I parent?
00:53 Summer Break and Podcast Updates
01:36 Announcing the 2024 Virtual Conference
03:48 Parenting and Recovery Principles
04:19 Personal Reflections on Parenting in Recovery
08:36 Applying Recovery Steps to Parenting
11:32 Real-Life Experiences and Testimonials
16:15 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
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In this episode, hosts Tara McCausland and Justin B. discuss the concept of relapse in the context of recovery from sexual addiction. The main discussion revolves around whether relapse is part of recovery, differentiating between terms like lapse and relapse, and emphasizing the importance of rigorous honesty and a recovery mindset for long-term recovery. They also address the partner's perspective on dealing with relapse and the importance of having a relapse preparedness plan in place for safety. Throughout, they highlight the necessity of continuous and honest recovery efforts for sustainable recovery.
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00:00 Introduction and Announcements
00:21 Upcoming SA Lifeline Virtual Conference
01:56 Q&A: Is Relapse a Part of Recovery?
02:58 Defining Lapse vs. Relapse
04:11 The Importance of Rigorous Honesty
08:52 White Knuckle Sobriety vs. Positive Sobriety
12:04 Relapse Preparedness for Betrayed Partners
15:36 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
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Pathway to Recovery - Why Couples Need to Grieve and Mourn to Facilitate Betrayal Trauma Healing & Addiction Recovery w/ Jake Porter
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Why Couples Need to Grieve and Mourn for Betrayal Trauma Healing and Addiction Recovery w/ Jake Porter
Introduction and Event Announcement
[00:00:00] Hey friends before we get started, a couple of things. First, I'm so excited about our upcoming 2024 SA Lifeline Conference. This is a fully virtual event. It will take place from September 26th to the 28th via this platform called Whoova. And over these three days, we'll focus on healing from [00:
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