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Parents Who Write

Parents Who Write

Erin P.T. Canning

Repeat after me: "I cannot do the dishes until I sit down and write for at least 10 minutes."
Welcome to Parents Who Write, the podcast that helps you pursue your writing dreams.
Join host, Erin P.T. Canning—an indie author, editor, writing coach, and mom of two young boys—as she helps you to regularly make time for your writing, strengthen your voice, and gain confidence and direction, so you can own your identity as a writer and thrive as an author.

You’ll hear from other writers and authors as they share (1) how and why they make time to write, (2) what keeps them inspired, and (3) what they’ve learned throughout their journey, including publishing and marketing tips. Their experiences will inspire you and help you find solutions to the struggles that many writers face.
We’ll also talk about the craft of creative writing, including my personal favorite genres of fantasy and romance, and discuss techniques you can apply to your own manuscripts.

Enjoy the laughs, the writing tips, the occasional parenting stories, and the relief in knowing you’re not alone. Episodes release every other Tuesday.

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Parents Who Write - 40. Reading like a writer & what that means
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03/28/23 • 20 min

Have you heard this advice read like a writer but have wondered what does that actually mean?
In today's episode, you are going to learn how this practice helps strengthen your writing, which books you should apply this approach to, and how to actually read like a writer.
Topics discussed in this episode:

  • Books that resonate
  • Subconsciously learning through imitation
  • Deciding what lessons and techniques to keep and not keep
  • Identifying what you don’t like
  • Recognizing the patterns of storytelling
  • Choosing books to read like a writer
  • Understanding decisions regarding structure
  • How to look at the book’s big picture
  • How to study the first chapter
  • How to observe the way the author handles transitions
  • How and why you should track predictions and breadcrumbs
  • How to study passages that suck you into the story
  • How to study passages you find boring
  • What to notice regarding how chapters tend to end

About Erin:
Erin P.T. Canning has worked for more than 15 years as a magazine and book editor, encouraging each writer’s individual voice and strengthening their writing goals.
She always planned to write a book. Then she had kids. While she focused on them, she stopped writing—for six years. Something deep inside was missing. Depression, anxiety, and anger forced her to search for herself, both for her sake and her family’s.
Despite fearing her skills had atrophied, Erin started writing again. One journal entry led to one blog post that led to her creating her podcast, Parents Who Write. Erin’s current role as a podcaster and writing coach enables her to help others pursue their writing dreams.
Finally, she finished writing her own shitty first draft and will release her first novel in 2023. She earned her MA in Writing from Johns Hopkins University, and she lives with her husband and their two boys in Maryland.
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Feeling stuck in your author journey? As an experienced editor, I specialize in helping writers like you, especially parents juggling family and creativity, finish and publish their books.
Take action on your writing dreams! Book a FREE 30-minute discovery call to discuss how I can help you implement these strategies and finally achieve your author goals.
https://calendly.com/parentswhowrite/30min-meeting
Bonus! Book your call and mention this episode for a free publishing check list.

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She started writing again as a means to process her infertility struggles. Linnea March, a parent of two boys, former educator, and author of Faultless Notion, is on the show today.
In this episode, Linnea shares how fanfiction helped her through her infertility struggles and what she learned from that experience. She also tells us what prompted her to not only finish but also publish a story she wrote seven years ago, which how-to books transformed her writing, and which part of the book publishing process she finds the hardest.
We also learn how Linnea sets manageable writing goals while keeping up with family responsibilities, and we share which mindset shifts made all the difference in permitting ourselves to set aside that time to write. And don’t miss Linnea’s methods for overcoming imposter syndrome.
Fun fact, Linnea also surprises us with her connection to author Stephanie Meyer. And, as always, we discuss which books we and our kids love most.
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Books discussed during the show:

  • Twilight, by Stephenie Meyer
  • Launch, by Jeff Walker
  • Tess of the d'Urbervilles: A Pure Woman Faithfully Presented, by Thomas Hardy
  • ­Romancing the Beat: Story Structure for Romance Novels, by Gwen Hayes
  • Author Jane Austin
  • ­Shakespeare
  • Author Tessa Bailey
  • Author Julia Quinn, Bridgerton Series
  • Author Kahlil Gibran
  • Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets by J.K. Rowling
  • ­East of Eden by John Steinbeck
  • Sense and Sensibility by Jane Austin
  • Authors Christina Lauren
  • The Bell Jar by Sylvia Plath
  • Stardust by Neil Gaiman
  • ­Kafka on the Shore by Haruki Murakami
  • Sideways Stories from Wayside School by Louis Sachar

Resources mentioned:

  • Set and Forget Social System by Rachel Miller
  • DomesticBlisters on TikTok

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The traditional publishing route can feel overwhelming. Query letters and manuscript evaluations and book agents—oh, my!
In this episode, you’ll learn how one author entered Dante’s inferno, her words, not mine, and took initiative to get her narrative nonfiction novel published.
You’ll also walk away not only better understanding the twists and turns of the traditional publishing route but also learn 5 tried and true tips for shopping your manuscript with book agents.
So stay tuned to find out how this author never gave up and finally published her book after 17 years!
Topics discussed in this episode:

  • 17 years of drafting / shopping a narrative nonfiction book
  • How Maria kept going and found her co-author
  • Making tough revision decisions
  • Shopping the manuscript and entering Dante’s hell
  • The challenge of not being famous
  • Query letters, manuscripts, and book proposals
  • Exiting Dante’s hell with positive manuscript reviews
  • 5 tips for attending writing workshops
  • Making dad’s dream come true
  • Changing the narrative of our own stories

About Maria:
A narrative nonfiction writer, Maria Costanzo Palmer is also a Page Turner Award Finalist for her co-authored book On the Rocks (Koehler Books). Her writing has been published in OC87 Recovery Diaries, and she has made a number of media appearances.
She also serves as the grant writer for St. Paul's Community Development Corporation in Paterson, NJ, where she helps fund programs that support "a hand-up, not a hand-out." She lives in New Jersey with her husband and college sweetheart Joe, their two children, ages 9 and 7, and her two rescue pit bulls, Luna and Stella.
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Take action on your writing dreams! Book a FREE 30-minute discovery call to discuss how I can help you implement these strategies and finally achieve your author goals.
https://calendly.com/parentswhowrite/30min-meeting
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Parents Who Write - 41. Book talk: Discovering layers w/ Maria Secoy
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04/11/23 • 34 min

Can you recall a book that inspired you to become a writer? What about a book that fundamentally changed your view of the world or yourself?
Never underestimate the power of reading books you love—and books you hate.
Joining today’s conversation is Maria Secoy, a romance fiction author, former English teacher, and book coach for those who self-publish literary romance novels.
In this episode, you’ll enjoy a combination of banter and insight into writing techniques as two good friends discuss the books that taught them how to recognize that people (and stories) have layers, what it means to show and not tell, and how people can read the same book but have completely different experiences.
Tune in to enjoy these two good friends bantering while they challenge each other to consider a different point of view.
Whenever Maria and Erin are together, you’re guaranteed to learn something while laughing. A lot.
Topics discussed in this episode:

  • Books that change the trajectory of our lives
  • The book at showed Maria we’re all human
  • The book that taught Erin show vs tell
  • The trauma of being forced to read the “right” book
  • The book that showed Erin the worst in people
  • Rosenblatt’s theory of reader response
  • The perfect example of satire

About Maria:
Maria Secoy has a BA in English and an MEd in Secondary English. She spent more than a decade in the classroom helping students grow as authentic writers.
She wrote and published her first romance novel in February 2022, which has since reached #4 on the Amazon Best Sellers List.
After hearing stories of editors gone wrong, flopped cover designs, marketing struggles, and anxiety over the entire self-publication process, she launched All Write Well, which has grown to include a team of supportive experts who meet all the self-publishing needs of writers.
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Books discussed during the show:

  • Fat Kid Rules the World, by K.L. Going
  • Pride and Prejudice, by Jane Austen
  • The Hound of the Baskervilles, by Sherlock Holmes
  • Lord of the Flies

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Feeling stuck in your author journey? As an experienced editor, I specialize in helping writers like you, especially parents juggling family and creativity, finish and publish their books.
Take action on your writing dreams! Book a FREE 30-minute discovery call to discuss how I can help you implement these strategies and finally achieve your author goals.
https://calendly.com/parentswhowrite/30min-meeting
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It’s that time of year again when we ponder what we want to achieve in the new year. For parents who write, our lives are exceptionally busy, so planning our writing goals is crucial to our success. However, we also need to intentionally set writing goals that we can realistically achieve.
So if you haven’t already sat down to plan out your writing goals for the new year, use this template that is tried, tested, and true. Help set yourself up for success and ensure that whatever story is living inside of you does, in fact, come to life.
Topics discussed in this episode:

  • Digging deep into why you write
  • Setting realistic goals
  • Tracking your progress
  • Planning ahead
  • Identifying potential obstacles and solutions
  • Finding the right accountability community
  • Conquering self-doubt
  • Telling your inner judge to wait their turn
  • Identifying your audience
  • Connecting with one person
  • Redefining what it means to be a writer

Editing w/ Parents Who Write:
Ready to stop circling around your manuscript? As an experienced professional editor, I can help you finish your book with confidence and direction. Learn more by visiting ParentsWhoWrite.com/editing, and book a free 30-minute call with me to discuss what’s right for you.
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Feeling stuck in your author journey? As an experienced editor, I specialize in helping writers like you, especially parents juggling family and creativity, finish and publish their books.
Take action on your writing dreams! Book a FREE 30-minute discovery call to discuss how I can help you implement these strategies and finally achieve your author goals.
https://calendly.com/parentswhowrite/30min-meeting
Bonus! Book your call and mention this episode for a free publishing check list.

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Parents Who Write - 43. Growing your audience organically
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05/09/23 • 22 min

Do you struggle with spreading the word about your writing and growing your audience organically? Do you fear people just scroll past your “buy my book” or “read my writing” posts?
In this episode, you’ll learn how to reach your ideal readers and why spamming other groups doesn’t convert users into readers.
Best of all, you’ll walk away knowing how to create content that users actually want to consume AND share.
So, stay tuned to learn the secrets for gaining a following of raving fans who love your posts and voluntarily spread the word about you and your writing.
Topics discussed in this episode:

  • Conquering the purpose of social media
  • Finding your ideal readers
  • Knowing what to post and NOT post in other groups
  • Creating your own consistency
  • Using the three main types of content
  • Posting content people want to consume and share
  • BONUS: An affordable resource for generating your ideas

About Erin:
Erin P.T. Canning has worked for more than 15 years as a magazine and book editor, encouraging each writer’s individual voice and strengthening their writing goals.
She always planned to write a book. Then she had kids. While she focused on them, she stopped writing—for six years. Something deep inside was missing. Depression, anxiety, and anger forced her to search for herself, both for her sake and her family’s.
Despite fearing her skills had atrophied, Erin started writing again. One journal entry led to one blog post that led to her creating her podcast, Parents Who Write. Erin’s current role as a podcaster and writing coach enables her to help others pursue their writing dreams.
Finally, she finished writing her own shitty first draft and will release her first novel in 2023. She earned her MA in Writing from Johns Hopkins University, and she lives with her husband and their two boys in Maryland.
Connect with Erin:

Resources discussed during the show:

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Feeling stuck in your author journey? As an experienced editor, I specialize in helping writers like you, especially parents juggling family and creativity, finish and publish their books.
Take action on your writing dreams! Book a FREE 30-minute discovery call to discuss how I can help you implement these strategies and finally achieve your author goals.
https://calendly.com/parentswhowrite/30min-meeting
Bonus! Book your call and mention this episode for a free publishing check list.

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Parents Who Write - 38. Writing about family and difficult memories
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03/14/23 • 40 min

Do you have personal moments of your life that you want to write about, but you're not sure how to approach difficult memories? Or you fear backlash from the people you'd have to write about in order to tell that story?

In today's episode, I'm going to share how I navigate those issues, after I read for you one such story that I wrote.
Topics discussed in this episode:

  • Reading of Erin’s personal essay, Erin Go Brách: How My Irish Heritage Found Me
  • Why Erin wrote this personal essay about her father and heritage
  • Three ways to prepare writing about difficult memories
  • Waiting until the right time
  • Gaining internal permission to write these stories
  • Knowing when you’re ready to face and share your wounds
  • Returning to our big why for telling this story
  • Writing to help yourself
  • Writing to help others and overcoming fear of judgment
  • Addressing fear of backlash
  • Identifying your intention behind telling this story
  • Notice what language you’re using
  • Exploring the other person’s point of view
  • Play worst case scenario and make a plan
  • If you fear physical harm
  • Changing details to conceal your identity
  • Approaching writing about these moments with caution
  • Have a TLC plan in place post-writing

About Erin:
Erin P.T. Canning has worked for more than 15 years as a magazine and book editor, encouraging each writer’s individual voice and strengthening their writing goals.
She always planned to write a book. Then she had kids. While she focused on them, she stopped writing—for six years. Something deep inside was missing. Depression, anxiety, and anger forced her to search for herself, both for her sake and her family’s.
Despite fearing her skills had atrophied, Erin started writing again. One journal entry led to one blog post that led to her creating her podcast, Parents Who Write. Erin’s current role as a podcaster and writing coach enables her to help others pursue their writing dreams.
Finally, she finished writing her own shitty first draft and will release her first novel in 2023. She earned her MA in Writing from Johns Hopkins University, and she lives with her husband and their two boys in Maryland.
Connect with Erin:

Resources discussed during the show:

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Feeling stuck in your author journey? As an experienced editor, I specialize in helping writers like you, especially parents juggling family and creativity, finish and publish their books.
Take action on your writing dreams! Book a FREE 30-minute discovery call to discuss how I can help you implement these strategies and finally achieve your author goals.
https://calendly.com/parentswhowrite/30min-meeting
Bonus! Book your call and mention this episode for a free publishing check list.

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Parents Who Write - 37. Get acquainted with the 5 primary sentence patterns
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03/07/23 • 15 min

Have you ever written a sentence that just feels off? And you’re not sure how to rearrange the words or phrases to create a stronger sentence?
Today’s episode plants the first seeds for gaining this knowledge. Just listen, and let these concepts grow roots. And when you come back and listen again, you’ll strengthen these ideas, which in turn will begin to strengthen your writing.
Why? Because no matter how many words a sentence contains, whether that’s 3 words or 100, every sentence boils down to 5 basic patterns. And when you know how the patterns should flow, you’ll be better able to identify and fix those awkward sentences that muddy your ideas and confuse your readers.
So stay tuned and familiarize yourself with the bigger picture.
Also, if you want a visual version of this episode, you can read the article version online: https://lifebeyondparenting.com/sentence-patterns.
Topics discussed in this episode:

  • Know your puzzle pieces
  • When to implement this in your writing
  • Pattern one: subject + verb + subject complement
  • Pattern two: subject + verb
  • Pattern three: subject + verb + direct object
  • Pattern four: subject + verb + indirect object + direct object
  • Pattern five: subject + verb + direct object + object complement
  • How this helps you

About Erin:
Erin P.T. Canning has worked for more than 15 years as a magazine and book editor, encouraging each writer’s individual voice and strengthening their writing goals.
She always planned to write a book. Then she had kids. While she focused on them, she stopped writing—for six years. Something deep inside was missing. Depression, anxiety, and anger forced her to search for herself, both for her sake and her family’s.
Despite fearing her skills had atrophied, Erin started writing again. One journal entry led to one blog post that led to her creating her podcast, Parents Who Write. Erin’s current role as a podcaster and writing coach enables her to help others pursue their writing dreams.
Finally, she finished writing her own shitty first draft and will release her first novel in 2023. She earned her MA in Writing from Johns Hopkins University, and she lives with her husband and their two boys in Maryland.
Connect with Erin:

Send us a text

Feeling stuck in your author journey? As an experienced editor, I specialize in helping writers like you, especially parents juggling family and creativity, finish and publish their books.
Take action on your writing dreams! Book a FREE 30-minute discovery call to discuss how I can help you implement these strategies and finally achieve your author goals.
https://calendly.com/parentswhowrite/30min-meeting
Bonus! Book your call and mention this episode for a free publishing check list.

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Have you pondered writing children’s book but aren’t sure how to pull the whole project together, from prose, to illustrations, to publication?
In this episode, Sheryl Bass discusses various resources that can help you write and publish your book, how to handle illustrations, and what to consider when pondering traditional or self-publishing.
You’ll also learn more about social emotional learning and how you can incorporate these messages into your books to help foster positive messages for children. Also enjoy hearing an excerpt of Sherly’s rhyming storybook.
Topics discussed in this episode:

  • Being a midwife to others’ creativity
  • The sneeze that inspired a children’s book
  • The importance of rhyme vs what’s fashionable
  • The challenge of being an unknown author
  • Holding onto an idea for years
  • Creating your own author’s brand
  • Incorporating SEL into children’s books
  • Pros to self-publishing
  • Cons to self-publishing
  • Finding self-publishing services, such as editors and illustrators
  • Four tips for writing children’s books
  • Our children provide us with built-in resources
  • How your kids can help you choose an illustrator
  • Writing isn’t a race
  • The benefits of reading your story aloud
  • An excerpt from Baby Dragon’s Big Sneeze
  • Adding more kindness to the world

About Sheryl:
Sheryl Bass holds a master’s degree in Social Work and has studied child development, and she uses these insights to inform her picture book writing. Her goal in creating Be-Kind Publishing is to produce lighthearted rhyming stories with gentle themes of teamwork and friendship.
Sheryl also holds a master’s degree in Journalism and is currently working in public relations. Sheryl resides just outside of Chicago, IL with her husband and two terriers.
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Resources discussed during the show:

  • April Cox, coach, Self-Publishing Made Simple
  • Society of Children’s Book Writers and Illustrators
  • Laura Bontje, children’s book editor
  • Children’s Book Insider
  • Remesh Ram, illustrator, Prayan Animation

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Feeling stuck in your author journey? As an experienced editor, I specialize in helping writers like you, especially parents juggling family and creativity, finish and publish their books.
Take action on your writing dreams! Book a FREE 30-minute discovery call to discuss how I can help you implement these strategies and finally achieve your author goals.
https://calendly.com/parentswhowrite/30min-meeting
Bonus! Book your call and mention this episode for a free publishing check list.

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Parents Who Write - 14. Rewriting your parenthood story w/ Emily Popek
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09/27/22 • 37 min

What does editing a book and parenting have in common? A ton, actually!
As an editor, your job is to excavate through what you are given and pull out the best from the author. Same goes with good parenting. Your job is to direct your children, but allow them to have their voice heard where they can still shine.
Your writing and editing skills crossover with parenting more than you would think. You can use the concepts and skills you’ve refined over time to not only guide your children, but to advocate for them as well. Whether that be writing to your local school board or having challenging conversations with policy makers to create positive change in your community.
Having children doesn’t mean you need to stop writing or using your skills. If anything, you can elevate your abilities by having children by getting creative with how you use your skills.
Not to mention, kids’ imaginations are endless, so if you’re ever stuck on a story plot, you can always turn to your little ones for some brilliant inspiration.
Joining us on today’s episode is Emily Popek, a journalist, school communications professional, and mom of one pre-teen. Emily joins us to discuss how parenting and writing can intertwine, as well as how parenting has changed over the years, and how to reframe struggles in parenting and writing into opportunities, and much more!
This is an enlightening conversation with so many nuggets of wisdom that you don’t want to miss.
Tune in to learn more!
Topics discussed in this episode:

  • How children are great resources of inspiration
  • The concept of a “throwaway book”
  • Why Emily started writing a newsletter
  • The importance of removing the idea of perfection when writing
  • The camaraderie in the writing community
  • The direction Emily wants to see her newsletter go
  • Struggles in parenting in today’s society
  • Just because parenting is hard doesn’t mean it is being done the wrong way
  • The power in having challenging conversations in your local communities
  • How strong communication skills can make an impact
  • How and why Emily became a journalist
  • Writing the elusive headline and catchy hooks
  • Erin’s joy of editing
  • Importance of finding an editor that allows you to showcase your voice
  • The crossover between editing and parenting

About Emily:

Emily Popek is a journalist and school communications professional. Her newsletter about the intersections of parenting and education is at thinkofthechildren.substack.com. Emily and her husband are both graduates of Bennington College; they live in upstate New York with their 10-year-old daughter.

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Connect with Emily:

  • Twitter: https://twitter.com/EmilyPopek
  • FB page: https://www.facebook.com/EmilyFPopek
  • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emilypopekwriter/

Books discussed during the show:

  • Mother Nature: Maternal Instincts and How They Shape the Human Species by Sar

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Feeling stuck in your author journey? As an experienced editor, I specialize in helping writers like you, especially parents juggling family and creativity, finish and publish their books.
Take action on your writing dreams! Book a FREE 30-minute discovery call to discuss how I can help you implement these strategies and finally achieve your author goals.
https://calendly.com/parentswhowrite/30min-meeting
Bonus! Book your call and mention this episode for a free publishing check list.

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