
Empowering Healthy Independence in Your Children
10/13/24 • 28 min
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Join Melanie and Heidi as they discuss the delicate balance of parenting without over-helping, based on Stanford's research and their own experiences. They emphasize the importance of letting children face challenges to build independence, a strong work ethic, and a sense of purpose. By stepping back, parents can help their kids develop self-regulation, emotional understanding, and responsibility.
In this episode, you'll learn a practical four-step process inspired by how Jesus taught his disciples, applicable for all ages—from helping a toddler clean up to teaching a teen to drive. With personal stories and insights into how parental control affects children's future, they encourage a supportive rather than controlling approach.
Helpful Links from this Episode:
- Free Developmental Checklists
- Stanford Research
- Study #2
- How to Nurture a Strong Work-Ethic in Your Child
- Guide to Raising Successful Kids
- How to Build a Heart of Gratitude in a Child
- 4 Ways to Give Your Child Purpose
- Teaching a Child Responsibility Through Household Chores
- You May Be Raising a Selfish Child
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Send me a text to ask a question or share a thought!
Join Melanie and Heidi as they discuss the delicate balance of parenting without over-helping, based on Stanford's research and their own experiences. They emphasize the importance of letting children face challenges to build independence, a strong work ethic, and a sense of purpose. By stepping back, parents can help their kids develop self-regulation, emotional understanding, and responsibility.
In this episode, you'll learn a practical four-step process inspired by how Jesus taught his disciples, applicable for all ages—from helping a toddler clean up to teaching a teen to drive. With personal stories and insights into how parental control affects children's future, they encourage a supportive rather than controlling approach.
Helpful Links from this Episode:
- Free Developmental Checklists
- Stanford Research
- Study #2
- How to Nurture a Strong Work-Ethic in Your Child
- Guide to Raising Successful Kids
- How to Build a Heart of Gratitude in a Child
- 4 Ways to Give Your Child Purpose
- Teaching a Child Responsibility Through Household Chores
- You May Be Raising a Selfish Child
Episode Sponsor: The Be Intentional Planner - the planner created to help you be the intentional woman God has called you to be. Order now for only $15.00
Get connected with Parenting to Impress:
Facebook Group: /groups/ABCJLM
Facebook: /heidi.franz.2911
Instagram: /abcjesuslovesme/
Subscribe to Blog & Newsletters: forms.feedblitz.com/5r0
Thanks for listening!
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Simple Steps to Starting a Family Bible Time
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Let’s do some shocking math for a moment. If your family goes to church for three hours a week, that only accounts for 1.8% of your entire week. While those three hours in corporate worship are vital, we can't hold the church responsible for the spiritual growth of our children. We must bring God's Word into our homes .
Family Bible time is one more opportunity to consistently nurture your child’s faith beyond Sundays. You aren't creating a mini-church service—just a simple time of learning together who God is and what He does. Discover simple ideas you can begin today as well as tips for working with your spouse and kids who don't want to join the time.
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- ABCJesusLovesMe Facebook Group
- Play Dough Recipe
- Bible Coloring Sheets
- Preschool Developmentally Appropriate Checklists
- Sunday School Songs
- Age-Appropriate Bibles for Kids
- Deuteronomy 6:4-9
- The Beginner's Bible
- Choosing the Best Children's Bible Podcase Episode and Blog Post
- Interactive Bible Stories for Preschoolers
- Betty Lukens Flannelgraph
- YouVersion Kids
- Seeds Family Worship
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How to Speak God's Truth Over Your Child's Life
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In this episode, Heidi and Melanie dive into the power of speaking truth over your children and the lasting impact it can have on their lives. We'll explore what it means to speak truth, why it's so important, and practical ways to begin doing this in your everyday parenting. They'll also share a personal example from Priscilla Shirer that really highlights how meaningful this practice can be. Plus, there's a special Valentine Affirmation printable that ties perfectly into this idea—so stick around to hear more!
Helpful Links from this Episode:
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- Impressing on Children Scripture - Deuteronomy 6:4-9
- Westminster Catechism for Kids
- Gideon - Judges 6
- How to Pray Scripture Over Your Family Podcast Episode
- I Surrender All by Priscilla Shirer
- Gideon by Priscilla Shirer
- One-Liner Free PDF
- Free Valentine Affirmations printable
Episode Sponsor: ABCJesusLovesMe.com, an educational ministry that equips adults with the materials needed to be intentional in educating children.
Get connected with Parenting to Impress:
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Parenting to Impress - Empowering Healthy Independence in Your Children
Transcript
Heidi Franz Host 00:00
There is a famous parenting quote that says, “Never do for a child what he can do for himself.” I think about a mom who carries a child's backpack to and from school, or a parent who makes the teenager's lunch every day. It's so easy because we deeply desire to love our kids, yet do we love them best when we do things for them? This is the topic that we are going to cover today.
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