
Hanging On To Your Identity As A Couple (aka- Who Are We?!?!)
02/21/22 • 76 min
It's hard enough to be a parent let alone a parent in a relationship. Hanging onto your identity as a couple takes a lot of work! We've put together some tips from our experience as well as those from the Parenting is Hard online community.
Our six tips are:
- Define Your Values
- Schedule Stuff Out
- Be on the Same Team
- Have Each Other's Backs
- Do Hard Things
- Start Small... But Start Now!
All of these with a bunch of practical examples of living these tips out.
This is Episode Five of Parenting is Hard with Matt & Stacy Barnes.
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Parenting is Hard w/ Matt & Stacy Barnes
Hosts: Matt Barnes (@immattbarnes) and Stacy Barnes (who does not do the social media much)
Family IG : @thosebarnestwins
Music by Jerad Atherton of CHPTRS
Produced and Engineered by Matt Barnes for Rogue Labs
Promotion, Design and Social Media by Rogue Creative Development
Recorded at Rogue Collective in Santa Ana, CA.
It's hard enough to be a parent let alone a parent in a relationship. Hanging onto your identity as a couple takes a lot of work! We've put together some tips from our experience as well as those from the Parenting is Hard online community.
Our six tips are:
- Define Your Values
- Schedule Stuff Out
- Be on the Same Team
- Have Each Other's Backs
- Do Hard Things
- Start Small... But Start Now!
All of these with a bunch of practical examples of living these tips out.
This is Episode Five of Parenting is Hard with Matt & Stacy Barnes.
Make sure to SUBSCRIBE and leave reviews!
Join our Facebook community at facebook.com/pages/parentingishardcommunity
Follow us on Instagram at instagram.com/parentingishardpodcast
Share your Parenting Wins, Kid Quotes or other thoughts at parentingishard.com/contact
Parenting is Hard w/ Matt & Stacy Barnes
Hosts: Matt Barnes (@immattbarnes) and Stacy Barnes (who does not do the social media much)
Family IG : @thosebarnestwins
Music by Jerad Atherton of CHPTRS
Produced and Engineered by Matt Barnes for Rogue Labs
Promotion, Design and Social Media by Rogue Creative Development
Recorded at Rogue Collective in Santa Ana, CA.
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Kids & Eating (or "Just Eat It!")
Before we were parents, we had no idea that food was going to be one of the biggest stressors in our parental lives. With four kids four and under, trying to get them to all eat the same thing, let alone eat healthy options, try new things, not be picky, and, you know... just finish their freaking dinners is more than a tall order. Add to that whatever relationship we have with food ourselves, and the anxiety about getting this right can be overwhelming and none of us should be figuring it out alone. This week, we're going to share our journey and tips with eating (and beg you for yours!).
Not only that, but we've got some great Parenting Wins involving bugs, tadpoles, butterflies, a lot of mud, and a musical recap of the day (seriously); Kid Quotes with listener submissions and whole bunch more!
This is Episode Four of Parenting is Hard with Matt & Stacy Barnes.
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Parenting is Hard w/ Matt & Stacy Barnes
Hosts: Matt Barnes (@immattbarnes) and Stacy Barnes (who does not do the social media much)
Family IG : @thosebarnestwins
Music by Jerad Atherton of CHPTRS
Produced and Engineered by Matt Barnes for Rogue Labs
Promotion, Design and Social Media by Rogue Creative Development
Recorded at Rogue Collective in Santa Ana, CA.
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Dealing with Sickness (aka "I'm Sick Of This!")
Being sick sucks. Having sick kids sucks too. Being sick while you have sick kids? That's when you find yourself asking why you got into this whole parenting thing to begin with. This week, we're talking about dealing with kid sickness. We've experienced quite a bit with sickness in the past four years and have figured out quite a few tips we're sharing with you this week. But, it's not just us and our tips, a number of our listeners contributed to these tips to deal with sickness! Tips such as:
- Make a Chart (and Keep Your Charts!)
- Keep Notes!
- Steamy Showers and Long Baths
- Humidifiers and Diffusers
- Shut it Down!
- No Shoes
- Let Them Sleep!
- Mask Up
Not only that, but we share a list of our favorite products that help make the whole sickness thing a little more bearable. And, as always, Parenting Wins!
This is Episode Six of Parenting is Hard w/ Matt & Stacy Barnes!
Make sure to SUBSCRIBE and leave reviews!
Join our Facebook community at facebook.com/pages/parentingishardcommunity
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Share your Parenting Wins, Kid Quotes or other thoughts at parentingishard.com/contact
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Parenting is Hard w/ Matt & Stacy Barnes
Hosts: Matt Barnes (@immattbarnes) and Stacy Barnes (who does not do the social media much)
Family IG : @thosebarnestwins
Music by Jerad Atherton of CHPTRS
Produced and Engineered by Matt Barnes for Rogue Labs
Promotion, Design and Social Media by Rogue Creative Development
Recorded at Rogue Collective in Santa Ana, CA.
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