The Art (and Science ) of Grace with Sarah Kaufman

11/01/21 • 82 min

Grace is a way of making others feel at ease. Like hospitality, good manners, cultivating a sense of fashion, and putting your best foot forward when it counts, grace is an ongoing effort and cultivated habit of making the world less stressful and more pleasing for those around us.

For these reasons, grace is something like a virtue or a paramount “first principle” of social interaction. In this sense, grace is a courtesy; a respect for others. Grace reflects an awareness of being situated in something larger than ourselves, whether that’s a relationship, a community, or a society.

Yet grace is overlooked. In my own lifetime, it seems to have eroded considerably. I remember fondly back to my childhood, a time when nobody received calls after 7pm - a social convention that respected family and personal time and recognized a need to collect oneself, move at a slower pace, and wind down for the day. I remember a time when politicians showed at least some deference to decorum, especially a head of state. I even grew up in a small town in the foothills of Berkshires where vestigial organs of a bygone etiquette would make the occasional appearance: antique ideas that children might refer to their parents and grandparents by “sir” and “maam,” that one ought to ask to be excused from the table, or that any plateware left behind by a guest ought not be returned to them empty.

Grace is an outward orientation, and as such it’s a bit anemic in a modern culture with such inward-oriented messaging that encourages us to prioritize our own happiness, our own boundaries, our self care, our self expression, our feelings, our self-reliance, and our independence.

To try and understand what grace is and where it fits into modern life, we’re speaking today with Sarah Kaufman, Pulitzer Prize-winning author and dance critic at the Washington Post. I read her book “The Art of Grace: On Moving Well Through Life” years ago and it’s had a lasting impact on me. It takes the reader on a search for grace, occasionally looking at some pretty surprising and educative examples. It’s not only a pleasure to read, it’s an inspirational call to action.

At OSCILLATIONS we’re all about the inspirational and the visionary - the imagining of new, more creative and beautiful worlds. The book gently encourages us to imagine a world where we are generally better to each other and collectively contributing to a sort of beautification project. For most of us, life is hard enough without having to suffer through its trials surrounded by slumped shoulders, shuffling feet, and morose dispositions. I came away from the book with a strong desire to fashion myself into a graceful person as a matter of virtue and civic responsibility. Let’s just say it’s a work in progress.

We couldn’t be more honored and excited to speak with Sarah about grace, culture, art, dance, civics, and science. And so with that, we bring you Sarah Kaufman.

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We couldn’t be more honored and excited to speak with Sarah about grace, culture, art, dance, civics, and science. And so with that, we bring you Sarah Kaufman.

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Art, Entertainment, and Society with Brad Haugen

Art and entertainment play a central role in culture, shaping our preferences, attitudes, and values, and creating a sense of shared cultural identity. In the 21st century, new technological platforms have not only changed the way we consume art and entertainment, but they’ve also led to new genres of content and paved new pathways for creators. There’s been an explosion of new forms of expression, communication, storytelling, and connecting with others around the world.

At OSCILLATIONS, we’re interested in understanding these cultural changes and how we can leverage them to amplify creative expression and cross-cultural collaborations. On this front, there’s perhaps no better role model to look to than Brad Haugen, President of Westbrook Media at Westbrook.

We’ve all seen Will Smith and his family’s incredible adaptation to the new ways of doing media and entertainment in the digital and social technology age. Westbrook exemplifies several emerging trends, where celebrities are leveraging their brands in new, socially progressive ways. They’re working to reach younger audiences, who engage with content very differently. They’re partnering with other organizations in the Smith Family circle to make and promote socially impactful investments in startups. And they’re experimenting with categorically new kinds of storytelling at a time when Hollywood—and our increasingly interconnected world, more broadly—is undergoing rapid transitions and associated growing pains.

Westbrook’s mission is to empower artists to tell stories that connect the world. If you’ve read the OSCILLATIONS manifesto or listened to us read it on the first three episodes of our podcast, you might have noticed the alignment. At OSCILLATIONS, we’re all about empowering artists to guide the future of some of the most exciting—but also potentially scary—creative technologies that will be coming out in the next decade or two.

One of the reasons we’re so excited to talk with Brad is that he himself is a talented visual artist. You can see his paintings on his Instagram profile, and more recently showcased at art galleries. It’s extraordinarily rare to find such dedicated, technically proficient, and talented artists working on the business and entrepreneurial side of any industry. We’re thrilled to have the opportunity to get Brad’s thoughts on how entertainment is changing, how the attention economy can be used for social good, and how artists might tangibly shape the future by spreading their art and ideas in a rapidly changing world.

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Cognitive Technologies with Dr. Judy Fan

In the modern world, technology is all around us. It’s hard to imagine a life without our phones, our cars, and our apps. When we think about what technology is , we typically think about physical inventions, like lightbulbs, steam engines, and laptops, along with the algorithms these machines run on. Most people would agree that technology, broadly speaking, refers to the tools we invent to solve problems and simplify things. Moreover, many would also acknowledge that these tools often create new problems and complicate things. For example, the internet has given us unprecedented access to information... but it has also accelerated the spread of misinformation. This means that we have to invent new technologies to manage the old ones. Within this cycle, we culturally co-evolve with our technologies.

When we think about technologies as culture-shaping tools with which we co-evolve generally , rather than hardware and software specifically , it becomes clear that many things can count as “technologies.”

Those of you who’ve listened to previous podcasts know that my research focuses on language evolution. When I was making the transition from academia to tech, I had to give a talk as part of the interview process at Google. So I gave my dissertation talk, and in it I described language as the “original technology” that defined homo sapiens. My interviewers found this very strange. They were used to thinking about technology in terms of the products they were building.

Fundamentally, however, language is a technology - and it’s one that set humans off on their current evolutionary trajectory.

At Oscillations, we focus on technology, art, culture, and the science of the mind. All of these things come together in what psychology Professor Judy Fan, Director of the Cognitive Tools Lab at UC San Diego, calls “cognitive technologies.” Cognitive technologies are behaviors that shape our capacities to think, communicate, and imagine. I met Professor Fan earlier this year at a month-long conference called the “Diverse Intelligences Summer Institute,” or “DISI” for short. As the name implies, every summer the institute brings together an interdisciplinary group of scholars working on some aspect of intelligence. There are cognitive scientists, like Judy and myself, philosophers, biologists, neuroscientists, artificial intelligence researchers, political scientists, and even writers and artists. DISI also puts out a fantastic podcast called the Many Minds podcast, which you should definitely check out if you’re into the science of the mind.

Today we’re talking with Professor Fan about some of her recent research, which integrates methods from cognitive science, computational neuroscience, and AI, to investigate how humans learn and link their minds together. This research has implications for understanding our cultural co-evolution with technology, our strategies for establishing common ground, and our predisposition to create art.

Oscillations - The Art (and Science ) of Grace with Sarah Kaufman

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Welcome to the oscillations podcast, where we invite you to participate in conversations at the intersection of art, culture, technology, and the science of the mind. I'm Danielle persik. And I'm Brendan Lewis.

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Grace is a way of making others feel at ease, like hospitality, good manners, cultivating a sense of fashion and putting your best foot forward when it counts. Grace is an ongoing effort an