How To Be An Ethical Fuckboy (or Girl)

Explicit content warning

05/25/21 • 87 min

Fuckboy (or girl) — but make it ethical. ✨

On today’s episode, Stephanie and Lacey bring on Shark, a Denver hairstylist who has been dipping her toes into sex and intimacy coaching, to teach them all about relationship dynamics and how to be an “Ethical Fuckboy (or girl).”

They talk about how and why starting a relationship with transparent honesty is extremely important in order for people to fully express all their needs and desires while avoiding the trap of falling into a false version of ourselves.

They also touch on different attachment styles and how those can play a role in relationships, as well the difference between jealousy and “compersion.” (If you’ve never looked into your attachment style, you should get on that, baby.)

Shark really brings so much to the table when it comes to discussing the intricacies of all sorts of relationship dynamics. We all know communication and being your true self is where it’s at, but what does that mean and how does it present itself in your relationships? Well, this episode likely has some insight into that for you.

Books recommended:

Attached by Amir Levine

Sex At Dawn by Christopher Ryan Love, Freedom, and Aloneness

Connect with us online!

Shark’s IG: @hairshark & @hi.imshark

https://www.instagram.com/hairshark/

https://www.instagram.com/hi.imshark/

Shark’s Onlyfans: https://onlyfans.com/certifiedblowpro

Oh Here We Go IG: @ohhherewego

https://www.instagram.com/ohhherewego/

Lacey's IG: @thelaceyclaire

https://www.instagram.com/thelaceyclaire/

Stephanie’s IG: @stephanieparsley

https://www.instagram.com/stephanieparsley/

Fuckboy (or girl) — but make it ethical. ✨

Books recommended:

Attached by Amir Levine

Sex At Dawn by Christopher Ryan Love, Freedom, and Aloneness

Connect with us online!

Shark’s IG: @hairshark & @hi.imshark

https://www.instagram.com/hairshark/

https://www.instagram.com/hi.imshark/

Shark’s Onlyfans: https://onlyfans.com/certifiedblowpro

Oh Here We Go IG: @ohhherewego

https://www.instagram.com/ohhherewego/

Lacey's IG: @thelaceyclaire

https://www.instagram.com/thelaceyclaire/

Stephanie’s IG: @stephanieparsley

https://www.instagram.com/stephanieparsley/

Previous Episode

Getting Queer Up in Here

This week we’re getting queer up in here. 🌈💕✨

Steph & Lace are getting real vulnerable & open up about their sex lives & their recent experiences in that lil realm. Aside from their own sexual experiences, the two wanted to learn about Lesbian Sex & discuss what it’s like experiencing those same connections with women, while educating themselves and everyone else along the way.

This episode has A LOT of tips they’ve used for their own lives and, honestly, for anyone who has any interest in pleasing their partner no matter where they fall on the sexuality and/or gender spectrum.

So, today’s guest joins the conversation to teach them all about her own sexual experiences with women & the Lesbian community. She shares her story from coming out to now, where she’s happily with her girlfriend — along with clueing in Lacey & Stephanie to a bunch of queer terms (power bottom energy, anyone?), their own sexualities, and ✨doing you✨ in life, in relationships, and — yes — the bedroom.

Connect with us Online:

@Ohhherewego

@thelaceyclaire

@stephanieparsley

Next Episode

How To Do Threesomes

**TRIGGER WARNING** Sexual assault and rape were both mentioned in this episode.

This week, we’re getting INTIMATE. Lacey and Stephanie open up about some of their sexual experiences and with all of this recent talk about having sex with another woman....the two think they could be possibly manifesting something

Lacey and Stephanie bring on Kelli Tennant, Host of The Kelli Show, Ok Babe, and CEO of Soul Fire Productions — aka a podcast queen.

Her social media is a “juicy intersection of spiritual and sexual liberation helping women break free from toxic lies and rules,” and Steph and Lacey are HEREFORIT. Not only are the two inspired by the messages Kelli shares, but they also look up to everything she's gone through in her relationship with her now-fiancé, Conner. Kelli shares with Lacey and Stephanie how she and Conner got into having threesomes with other women, her sexual awakening & coming into her desires of being with another woman, her & Conner’s first threesome, Somatic Sexological therapy, healing from traumatic sexual experiences, boundaries, jealousy, and deepening her own intimacy.

Keep up with us!

Kelli’s IG: @kellimtennant https://www.instagram.com/kellimtennant/

Kelli’s podcast- @TheKelliShow https://www.instagram.com/thekellishow/

Ok Babe Podcast: @OkBabeShow https://www.instagram.com/okbabeshow/

Oh Here We Go’s IG: @ohhherewego https://www.instagram.com/ohhherewego/

Stephanie’s IG: @StephanieParsley https://www.instagram.com/stephanieparsley/ Lacey’s IG: @TheLaceyClaire https://www.instagram.com/thelaceyclaire/