Escort Says Why Men Cheat

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02/18/24 • 59 min

Shona River is back on Offbeat and she's here to tell me all about why men cheat on their wives and girlfriends. Shona has a unique perspective as a professional escort that seen hundreds of married men. In the episode we debate why men cheat, it's impact on their relationships and Shona explains how she actually saves relationships rather than damages them.

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Timestamps:

Timestamps: 00:00 - Intro

01:32 - How many men cheat?

03:16 - Why men cheat

08:09 - Is cheating ok in sexless marriages?

20:55 - Using pros to get away with it

22:15 - Is meeting an escort cheating?

24:30 - Women know when men are cheating

27:09 - Cheating stats by age and gender

31:12 - How it feels when your partner cheats

34:48 - What if I caught my husband cheating?

42:37 - Visiting a married man at his family home!

47:23 - Do footballers cheat more?

52:34 - Is being an escort cheating?

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Timestamps:

Timestamps: 00:00 - Intro

01:32 - How many men cheat?

03:16 - Why men cheat

08:09 - Is cheating ok in sexless marriages?

20:55 - Using pros to get away with it

22:15 - Is meeting an escort cheating?

24:30 - Women know when men are cheating

27:09 - Cheating stats by age and gender

31:12 - How it feels when your partner cheats

34:48 - What if I caught my husband cheating?

42:37 - Visiting a married man at his family home!

47:23 - Do footballers cheat more?

52:34 - Is being an escort cheating?

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Male Inequality: What Feminists Won’t Tell You

In this episode I'm joined by George Horne from The Tin Men, an advocate for men and boys in the UK. Together we did a deep dive into the main issues facing men today. Including male suicide, falling behind in education and at work, and the female on male domestic abuse. George explains why he campaigns on men issues and highlights a lot of biases society now has against men whether it's in prisons, job applications or in family courts. More importantly, he also says what needs to be done and how we need to change our thinking if we want to start putting this right.

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Timestamps:

00:00 - Intro 02:53 - Men's rights 05:06 - The biggest risk to men's lives 11:13 - Family court bias against men 15:41 - Men get longer prison sentences than women 24:39 - WTF is the patriarchy anyway? 27:34 - Men vs women at work 31:26 - The men being abused by women 48:57 - Need to focus on issues not gender 53:32 - Men are disposable 59:16 - Problem with the manosphere 01:06:47 - Man can't be the breadwinner anymore 01:18:39 - Only women can be victims of domestic violence 01:20:43 - "Men's jobs" are disappearing

Next Episode

Trafficked Into American Porn

Join me as I sit down with Shona River as she bravely shares her story of being trafficked into the American porn industry by LA Direct. Sadly, Shona's experience isn't unique. Many non-US citizen models, like her, are forced into this industry without proper permits and even coerced into illegal prostitution by their agents. This form of sex trafficking affects hundreds of victims, with every porn site profiting from their exploitation. It's time for change. By enforcing work visas for foreign models, the porn industry could put an end to this overnight. Let's spread awareness and work towards a safer environment for all models. Please share this video.

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LA Direct Documentary

Louis Theroux interview with Derek Hay & Woodman

Timestamps:

00:00 - Intro

05:39 - Beginnings of porn career

15:12 - Pierre Woodman introduction to LA Direct

17:10 - Sex trafficking loophole

21:24 - AVN Awards market place for trafficked women

23:40 - Immigration failed

27:43 - Meeting Derek Hay for the 1st time