
054: Out of Alignment or Fired: My Leadership Story
02/03/25 • 16 min
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In this episode of No Silver Spoons®, host Sarah Beth Herman discusses a defining moment in her career when expressing a feeling of misalignment led to a significant confrontation with her boss. She reflects on the importance of alignment in leadership, emphasizing that true leadership involves understanding and listening to team members rather than demanding compliance. Sarah Beth shares insights on how to promote clear communication, seek mentorship, align with core values, and create a safe space for honest conversations within teams. She concludes with key takeaways about the value of buy-in over obedience and the critical role of engagement in achieving true alignment.
00:00 Introduction: The Stomach-Dropping Boss Call
01:40 A Defining Career Moment
01:48 The Rise in My Career
02:54 Questioning the Dynamics
03:46 The Lunch That Changed Everything
04:55 Realization and Reflection
06:40 Guidance for New Leaders
09:56 The Importance of Alignment
13:09 Final Thoughts and Takeaways
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Sarah Beth Herman: LinkedIn | Personal Bio | Links
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DISCLAIMER:
The content provided in this podcast, including by Sarah Beth Herman and any affiliated guests, is for informational purposes only and does not constitute professional advice, including but not limited to medical, legal, or business consulting services. Listeners engage with the content at their own risk and are responsible for any actions taken based on the information presented. No guarantees are made regarding the accuracy or completeness of the content. For any questions, clarifications, or crediting of sources, please contact us directly, and we will make necessary adjustments.
In this episode of No Silver Spoons®, host Sarah Beth Herman discusses a defining moment in her career when expressing a feeling of misalignment led to a significant confrontation with her boss. She reflects on the importance of alignment in leadership, emphasizing that true leadership involves understanding and listening to team members rather than demanding compliance. Sarah Beth shares insights on how to promote clear communication, seek mentorship, align with core values, and create a safe space for honest conversations within teams. She concludes with key takeaways about the value of buy-in over obedience and the critical role of engagement in achieving true alignment.
00:00 Introduction: The Stomach-Dropping Boss Call
01:40 A Defining Career Moment
01:48 The Rise in My Career
02:54 Questioning the Dynamics
03:46 The Lunch That Changed Everything
04:55 Realization and Reflection
06:40 Guidance for New Leaders
09:56 The Importance of Alignment
13:09 Final Thoughts and Takeaways
SOCIALS:
No Silver Spoons®: Instagram
Dentistry Support: Instagram | Facebook | Linkedin
The Dental Collaborative: Facebook
Sarah Beth Herman: LinkedIn | Personal Bio | Links
Free Training for Dental Offices
DISCLAIMER:
The content provided in this podcast, including by Sarah Beth Herman and any affiliated guests, is for informational purposes only and does not constitute professional advice, including but not limited to medical, legal, or business consulting services. Listeners engage with the content at their own risk and are responsible for any actions taken based on the information presented. No guarantees are made regarding the accuracy or completeness of the content. For any questions, clarifications, or crediting of sources, please contact us directly, and we will make necessary adjustments.
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053: Trust the Process: Building a Strong Team and Community
In this episode of No Silver Spoons®, host Sarah Beth Herman dives into the realities of being a small business CEO, emphasizing the importance of clarity, trust, and purpose. She candidly discusses the struggles entrepreneurs face, such as the overbearing need to control everything and the challenge of endless to-do lists. Sarah shares her personal journey of learning to delegate and trust her team, stressing the value of strong training programs and SOPs. She highlights the transformational power of shifting from competition to community, illustrating how collaboration can drive unexpected growth. By embracing the journey, mistakes, and learnings, Sarah underscores how these experiences shape great leadership. Tune in to discover how to focus on what truly matters and build a thriving business by empowering others.
00:00 Introduction: The True Meaning of Being a CEO
01:46 The Grind and the Illusion of Control
03:30 The Importance of Delegation
08:18 Mastering SOPs and Training
11:15 Community Over Competition
14:25 Embracing the Journey and Final Thoughts
SOCIALS:
No Silver Spoons®: Instagram
Dentistry Support: Instagram | Facebook | Linkedin
The Dental Collaborative: Facebook
Sarah Beth Herman: LinkedIn | Personal Bio | Links
Free Training for Dental Offices
DISCLAIMER:
The content provided in this podcast, including by Sarah Beth Herman and any affiliated guests, is for informational purposes only and does not constitute professional advice, including but not limited to medical, legal, or business consulting services. Listeners engage with the content at their own risk and are responsible for any actions taken based on the information presented. No guarantees are made regarding the accuracy or completeness of the content. For any questions, clarifications, or crediting of sources, please contact us directly, and we will make necessary adjustments.
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055: Episode 1: Building Authentic Brands | Guest Amy Bartko
In this episode of No Silver Spoons®, Sarah Beth Herman sits down with CEO Amy Bartko, the powerhouse behind Chatterbox PR, to talk about what it really takes to grow a brand—without shortcuts or handouts.
Amy shares her journey from corporate marketing to running her own PR agency, proving that success isn’t about luck—it’s about hard work, strong relationships, and knowing how to get your brand seen by the right people. She’s built a career on helping brands land in the hands of celebrities, influencers, and top-tier media outlets—long before influencer marketing was even a thing.
Here’s what you’ll take away from this episode:
- What PR really is (and why you probably need it, even if you think you don’t)
- Amy’s PR formula for getting brands noticed (hint: it’s all about visibility, credibility, and profitability)
- The truth about entrepreneurship—the sleepless nights, the balancing act, and why grit matters more than anything
- The biggest mistakes people make when trying to get media coverage—and how to actually get a journalist’s attention
- Why relationships in PR are everything—and how Amy has built a network that gets brands featured in Forbes, Vogue, and on TV
Sarah Beth and Amy also get real about staying true to your vision, especially when the world of marketing and PR is constantly shifting. If you’ve ever wondered how to get your brand in front of the right people or whether PR is just for big corporations—this episode will give you the clarity you need.
🔹 Next Up: Amy is coming back to talk about overcoming branding challenges and what it takes to push through the tough seasons in business.
📌 Want to connect with Amy? Find her on Instagram @amybartko
🎧 Missed something? Listen again at 1.25x or 2x speed and share this with a friend!
This is one of those conversations you’ll want to take notes on—so grab a coffee and get ready to level up your brand the right way.
SOCIALS:
No Silver Spoons®: Instagram
Dentistry Support: Instagram | Facebook | Linkedin
The Dental Collaborative: Facebook
Sarah Beth Herman: LinkedIn | Personal Bio | Links
Free Training for Dental Offices
DISCLAIMER:
The content provided in this podcast, including by Sarah Beth Herman and any affiliated guests, is for informational purposes only and does not constitute professional advice, including but not limited to medical, legal, or business consulting services. Listeners engage with the content at their own risk and are responsible for any actions taken based on the information presented. No guarantees are made regarding the accuracy or completeness of the content. For any questions, clarifications, or crediting of sources, please contact us directly, and we will make necessary adjustments.
No Silver Spoons® - 054: Out of Alignment or Fired: My Leadership Story
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📍 Have you ever worked for someone and felt like every time they called you into their office, your stomach dropped? Like no matter how well you were doing, there was always that lingering fear that something was wrong. That maybe, just maybe, you weren't meeting some unspoken expectation. If you've ever felt that way, I need you to hear this story.
Because it was a defining moment in my career. One that has stuck with me for nearly a decade. And trust me, you're going to want to hear t
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