5: Betting on the Bright Side

Explicit content warning

01/07/19 • 33 min

"There's an equal chance that you will experience positive or negative. With a fifty-fifty shot, stop counting on a negative outcome."
Episode 5
It's a new year, and a new you: I bet you're sick and tired of hearing that right about now. If you are, you may be the type of person who tends to gravitate to the grumpier, more cynical side of things. And if that's what you tend to focus on, you totally may be missing out on all the really good stuff that's happening around you and to you! Let's get the new year off to a positive start by resetting our default filters to something a little less stick-in-the-muddy.
And this week, we help an out young man reconnect with his best friend after he gets ghosted.
Visit our homepage:
www.neverfingsettle.com

Previous Episode

4: New Year's Resolutions and other Societal Norms to Ignore

"You don't need a calendar to work on self-improvement. Every day is an opportunity to do better and be better."

In this week's episode, we talk about New Years Eve, and how to -- well, f*** the resolutions, because we all know you've had them five years in a row! As well as societal norms. How can we improve this year without talking about all the things you're NOT going to do in "the future"? Spoiler: I drop a lot of f-bombs in this one. That should clue you in on how I feel about societal norms. Mr. Producer isn't happy about it. [ ... Nnnnnope! -_-]

Also, what do you do when you're forced to deal with people you never want to see again?

Visit our homepage:
www.neverfingsettle.com

Next Episode

6: Pathology vs. Uniqueness

"Laughter and sex cures a myriad of maladies."
Episode 6
Has anyone ever accused your love of wine or video games is "pathological"? As in, you're doing it too much and it's bad for you? Well, if it's not affecting your work or personal life, then I have good news for you! You're not crazy! We're often quick to put negative labels on people's quirks because they might not be ... "normal" ... whatever the hell that means! Well, breaking news: "normal" doesn't really exist. We all have personality traits and are attracted to certain behaviors that may seem "unique" by those who don't "get it". I'm going to walk you through the difference between real pathology and stuff that just makes us all delightfully weird in our own lovable ways. And I use fun examples. Like sex. And BDSM. Who knew science could be so fun?
I'm also going to school you on the four feel-good neurochemicals in the brain. For those of you keeping score, they are:
Endorphins: Allows you to push past pain.
Dopamine: Helps you reach your goals.
Serotonin: Makes you feel significant.
Oxytocin: Helps you bond with other humans, especially through touch.
I walk you through how the brain balances all of these in order to drive human behavior. And once you understand that, you'll have a much better understanding of not only your weirdness, but the weirdness of everyone else around you. And maybe we all will jump to less conclusions about one's pathological activities.
In our question of the week, we help someone who's stuck in his ways and learn how to deal with the really big life changes he needs to make.
Visit our homepage:
www.neverfingsettle.com