
Messy Can't Stop Her
Judith Kambia Obatusa (JKO)
Are you a woman feeling overwhelmed by the chaos, crisis and challenges of life? Are you yearning to do something worthwhile with your life, but feel stuck in a cycle of problems? Join Judith Kambia Obatusa – JKO, every Thursday on Messy Can’t Stop Her as she shares scientific insights, practical strategies and biblical wisdom to guide you through life’s struggles. With reflections, inspiring interviews, and heartfelt prayers, you will find the motivation and spiritual encouragement to overcome adversity, cultivate inner peace, and build a joy-filled life. If you are a woman who wants to rise above domestic violence, parenting challenges, and the mental health struggles caused by difficult relationships, this podcast reminds you that no matter how messy your story is, with God, your future is full of hope and endless possibilities.
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Finding (her)Self Through Obesity: Aleisha Black on taking the pounds off through self love
Messy Can't Stop Her
01/25/22 • 53 min
After losing 85lbs and documenting her journey on YouTube, life happened and she gained it all back and more. In this episode of Messy Can’t Stop Her, Aleisha Black, host of the podcast and Facebook community Finding Myself Through Obesity tells us how getting off the weight loss pendulum helped her learn to love herself and take pounds off when she wasn’t looking.
In Aleisha’s story of growth and healing, we learn that as long as we don’t stop learning, messy cannot stop us.
Listen and subscribe to Aleisha's podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify and other podcast platforms
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Learn more about Aleisha on her Website www.findingmyselfthroughobesity.com
References in this episode
Loving And Listening To Yourself by Sarah Blondin
Mel Robbins on How to Break Through Resistance & Love Yourself with the High 5 Habit
Why Mirror Work Will Change Your Life - Lisa Nichols
Please DM me on Instagram or Facebook @judithobatusa to let me know what you thought of this episode. If you'll love to share your story on the #MessyCantStopHer podcast, click here.
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If Messy Can’t Stop Her blesses or inspires you, please consider supporting it at supportmessycantstopher.buzzsprout.com. Thank you for being part of this journey.
If you would love to share your story on the #MessyCantStopHer podcast, click here to let me know.
Thank you so much for listening.
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Abducted as a Teen: Jessica’s Journey from Trauma
Messy Can't Stop Her
05/12/22 • 48 min
Abducted as a teen from Canada to the United States by a father figure and kept in domestic violence captivity for 15 years, Jessica Faught escaped but the impact of that trauma on herself and her children followed her back to Windsor, Ontario. Jessica shares her journey back to healing and her sacrificial collaboration with the child welfare system to give her daughter a new lease on life.
Her story highlights the harrowing effect of domestic violence on our children and why every mother should have zero tolerance for domestic violence.
To learn more about Jessica’s work with Attachment Disorders and raising children with PTSD, follow her on Canadians Raising Children With Attachment Disorders or join her Facebook Community at Families raising children diagnosed with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.
Thank you so much for listening!
References in this episode
Mirror Neurons: How We Reflect on Behavior
Jessica’s Story on brokenandbraced.blogspot.com
Attachment Disorders in Children: Causes, Symptoms, and Treatment
Please DM me on Instagram or Facebook @judithobatusa to let me know what you thought of this episode.
If you'll love to share your story on the #MessyCantStopHer podcast, click here to let me know.
Music Credit: https://indiefy.me/wanted-carter
If Messy Can’t Stop Her blesses or inspires you, please consider supporting it at supportmessycantstopher.buzzsprout.com. Thank you for being part of this journey.
If you would love to share your story on the #MessyCantStopHer podcast, click here to let me know.
Thank you so much for listening.
Music Credit: https://indiefy.me/wanted-carter

The Danger of Judging from a Single Story
Messy Can't Stop Her
06/05/25 • 26 min
In this follow-up to “The High Cost of Being Judgmental” JKO unpacks the danger of forming conclusions about someone based on a single story. When we reduce people to one chapter of one story they shared from their lives, we sabotage connection, trust, and compassion. If you’re a woman walking through the pain of judgment, this episode is for you.
If Messy Can’t Stop Her blesses or inspires you, please consider supporting it at supportmessycantstopher.buzzsprout.com. Thank you for being part of this journey.
If you would love to share your story on the #MessyCantStopHer podcast, click here to let me know.
Thank you so much for listening.
Music Credit: https://indiefy.me/wanted-carter

Bloom inside Pain: JKO shares one thing that makes life’s trenches easier
Messy Can't Stop Her
10/26/22 • 20 min
Are you feeling worn down and not valuable? Do you think your life is too imperfect to be useful? Do you know that it is possible to have an imperfect life and still be the perfect help another person needs? This episode shares a practice that makes this possible.
References in this episode
Les Brown Life is Hard
If Messy Can’t Stop Her blesses or inspires you, please consider supporting it at supportmessycantstopher.buzzsprout.com. Thank you for being part of this journey.
If you would love to share your story on the #MessyCantStopHer podcast, click here to let me know.
Thank you so much for listening.
Music Credit: https://indiefy.me/wanted-carter

The Danger of a Single Story: unCreating the Life that You do not Want
Messy Can't Stop Her
10/19/22 • 24 min
All it takes is a single story to make or break your life. What is the single story you’re telling yourself? JKO shares the three things you can do to change that single story and create the life that you desire.
References in this episode
The Danger of a Single Story TED Talk
If Messy Can’t Stop Her blesses or inspires you, please consider supporting it at supportmessycantstopher.buzzsprout.com. Thank you for being part of this journey.
If you would love to share your story on the #MessyCantStopHer podcast, click here to let me know.
Thank you so much for listening.
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From Fact to Faction: Yvonne Randle tells us how she coloured her way out of depression and became a Faction writer
Messy Can't Stop Her
10/12/22 • 33 min
Life may be hard, yet we can use the hard facts of our challenges to bring others through their own challenges.
Yvonne tells us how she coloured her way out of depression and turned her painful love and marriage experiences into inspiration for herself and empowerment for others.
Yvonne Randle has authored many fiction (faction) and non-fiction books that inspire people to have healthy relationships with themselves and others. She also hosts a podcast and personal development workshops through her company, You Are Dynamic, LLC.
You can get Yvonne’s Books on Amazon and other bookstores, and you can listen to her podcast on various listening platforms at Healthy Wealthy Wise Dating Podcast.
If Messy Can’t Stop Her blesses or inspires you, please consider supporting it at supportmessycantstopher.buzzsprout.com. Thank you for being part of this journey.
If you would love to share your story on the #MessyCantStopHer podcast, click here to let me know.
Thank you so much for listening.
Music Credit: https://indiefy.me/wanted-carter

Church Girl Meets God: Yvonne Randle shares how she stopped running and listened
Messy Can't Stop Her
10/06/22 • 30 min
Raised in Church, actively serving in Church, yet living in pain filled disappointment, loneliness and heartache. Yvonne Randle tells us what happened when life got too painful to handle.
When we get sick and tired of being sick and tired, we have to do the work inside before it shows up outside. Yvonne takes us to Church in this episode.
Yvonne Randle has authored many fiction and non-fiction books that inspire people to have healthy relationships with themselves and others. She also hosts a podcast and personal development workshops through her company, You Are Dynamic, LLC.
You can get Yvonne’s Books on Amazon and other bookstores, and you can listen to her podcast on various listening platforms at Healthy Wealthy Wise Dating Podcast.
If Messy Can’t Stop Her blesses or inspires you, please consider supporting it at supportmessycantstopher.buzzsprout.com. Thank you for being part of this journey.
If you would love to share your story on the #MessyCantStopHer podcast, click here to let me know.
Thank you so much for listening.
Music Credit: https://indiefy.me/wanted-carter

The Price of Unforgiveness: Too steep to pay and so not worth it
Messy Can't Stop Her
09/21/22 • 21 min
Have you ever wondered how unforgiveness affects your mental, physical and spiritual health? This episode shares some thoughts, research and expert opinion about it.
Would you like to share your thoughts about this topic on the podcast?
Please send me a voice note dm on IG or Facebook, with your answers to the following three questions and I’ll feature you in a future episode of the podcast:
1. What does forgiveness mean to you?
2. What are the benefits of forgiving?
3. Are there offenses that are unforgivable?
If Messy Can’t Stop Her blesses or inspires you, please consider supporting it at supportmessycantstopher.buzzsprout.com. Thank you for being part of this journey.
If you would love to share your story on the #MessyCantStopHer podcast, click here to let me know.
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Triggers: Forgiveness is a Journey and I faced my past today
Messy Can't Stop Her
09/14/22 • 15 min
I got triggered today when I went to sign my youngest up for Air Cadets.
It brought me face to face with my forgiveness journey. Have I really forgiven? Is the pain gone? This conversation is about that.
Please DM me on Instagram or Facebook @judithobatusa to let me know your thoughts on forgiveness and how you handle those difficult situations.
If you'll love to share your story on the #MessyCantStopHer podcast, click here to let me know.
Podcast Music Credit: https://indiefy.me/wanted-carter
If Messy Can’t Stop Her blesses or inspires you, please consider supporting it at supportmessycantstopher.buzzsprout.com. Thank you for being part of this journey.
If you would love to share your story on the #MessyCantStopHer podcast, click here to let me know.
Thank you so much for listening.
Music Credit: https://indiefy.me/wanted-carter

Praying God's Word with Prophetess Natasha Rae: Prayers for Healing, Restoration and Power
Messy Can't Stop Her
09/19/24 • 18 min
Rounding up our series on praying God’s Word over us Natasha Rae, a prophetess and passionate prayer warrior, offers practical advice on how prayer can heal wounds, restore relationships, and bring hope to even the darkest of times. She encourages and reminds women who are feeling distant from God that He hears every cry, and leads a powerful prayer for listeners to experience God's love healing and restoration.
If you are struggling with faith or seeking spiritual growth, this episode will reignite your connection with God and empower you to move forward.
Nuggets of wisdom in this episode
Even if you feel disconnected from God, He still hears you when you call.
No matter the situation, even when it seems your prayers are unanswered, trust in God’s plan for you.
Do not stop calling on God because He is always present and willing to help you.
You can follow Natasha on YouTube at Natasha Rae Ministries and read her books on Amazon.
If Messy Can’t Stop Her blesses or inspires you, please consider supporting it at supportmessycantstopher.buzzsprout.com. Thank you for being part of this journey.
If you would love to share your story on the #MessyCantStopHer podcast, click here to let me know.
Thank you so much for listening.
Music Credit: https://indiefy.me/wanted-carter
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FAQ
How many episodes does Messy Can't Stop Her have?
Messy Can't Stop Her currently has 140 episodes available.
What topics does Messy Can't Stop Her cover?
The podcast is about Christianity, Motivation, Religion & Spirituality, Emotional Healing, Podcasts, Self-Improvement and Education.
What is the most popular episode on Messy Can't Stop Her?
The episode title 'Justice Was Served for Nicole: An update on a domestic violence murderer's request for parole' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on Messy Can't Stop Her?
The average episode length on Messy Can't Stop Her is 26 minutes.
How often are episodes of Messy Can't Stop Her released?
Episodes of Messy Can't Stop Her are typically released every 7 days.
When was the first episode of Messy Can't Stop Her?
The first episode of Messy Can't Stop Her was released on Jan 6, 2022.
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