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Join us this week on "Matchmaker Matchmaker" as Aleeza Ben Shalom and Rabbi Yisroel Bernath discuss trust in relationships. They explore the time it takes to establish trust, the link between commitment and the growth of trust, and the impact of personal insecurities and past traumas on trust-building. Throughout the episode, they share practical perspectives, stressing the importance of open communication to navigate challenges related to trust. Tune in to unravel the layers of trust and its pivotal role in the journey of love and commitment.
Key Points:
Aleeza Ben Shalom and Rabbi Yisroel Bernath emphasize the time it takes to develop trust, highlighting that true trust often takes years to develop, as supported by research findings.
Aleeza and Rabbi discuss the correlation between commitment and the growth of trust, emphasizing that trust evolves with the level of commitment within the relationship.
The impact of personal insecurities and past traumas on the timeline for establishing trust is addressed, with the hosts stressing the importance of open communication to navigate these challenges.
Throughout the episode, practical perspectives are shared, shedding light on the significance of consistency, reliability, vulnerability, and personal integrity in building trust within relationships.

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🎙 Love, Music, and Taking a Chance with Yoni Z & Ashley Eden
In this episode, I sit down with Yoni Ziegelbaum , better known as Yoni Z, a popular singer, and his fiancée Ashley Eden, who works in FinTech. Freshly engaged, they share their love story—full of unexpected twists, big decisions, and the persistence it takes to find "the one."
We talk about:
🎤 Yoni’s journey in music
✈️ Ashley’s bold decision
❤️ The challenges they faced early on and how they finally connected
Their story is a reminder that love doesn’t always follow a straight path—but when it’s meant to be, everything falls into place.
🔔 Tune in for an episode filled with inspiration, gratitude, and the magic of finding your match!

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In this special episode, I sit down with my in-laws, Fran and Sid Schwartz, who have been married for 63 years! We dive into the secrets of a long-lasting marriage, the importance of shared values, and the lessons they’ve learned along the way.
We talk about:
💍 The humorous way Sid proposed
💡 How background and values play a role in a strong relationship
❤️ The key to navigating roles, responsibilities, and communication in marriage
👩‍❤️‍👨 Advice for younger couples looking to build a lasting partnership
I also reflect on the impact they’ve had on my own life and family—because when it comes to love, experience speaks volumes.
🔔 Tune in for heartwarming stories, timeless wisdom, and plenty of laughs!

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Welcome back to another episode of the Matchmaker Matchmaker Podcast. On this week's episode, Aleeza Ben Shalom and Rabbi Yisroel Bernath discuss the complexities of physical attraction in dating and relationships. They go into the question of what to do when someone attempts to set you up with a person who is considered a great match, but you don't find them physically attractive.
Aleeza Ben Shalom and Rabbi Yisroel Bernath explore the nuances of this situation and provide insights on how to approach it.
Key Points:
The Importance of Physical Attraction: Aleeza and Rabbi discuss the significance of physical attraction in relationships, acknowledging its role while also exploring its limitations.
Handling "Hard No" Situations: The hosts provide advice on how to navigate situations where there is an immediate lack of physical attraction and when it's appropriate to decline a potential match outright.
Giving It a Chance: Aleeza Ben Shalom and Rabbi Yisroel Bernath share anecdotes and examples of instances where initial lack of physical attraction evolved after giving the relationship a chance, emphasizing the value of getting to know someone beyond their appearance.
Patience and Decision-Making: The episode concludes with a blessing for patience and wisdom, underscoring the importance of taking time to make the right decision after a few dates and allowing both the heart and mind to align.

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In this episode, Aleeza Ben Shalom steps into the world of matchmaking with Kami Salman, a 28-year-old opera singer whose Israeli roots and love for tradition shape her journey to find lasting love. From New York’s vibrant energy to Philadelphia’s potential matches, Kami shares her experiences in dating, the significance of shared values, and how her priorities shifted after October 7th.

Join Aleeza and Kami as they delve into the intricacies of modern relationships, navigating cultural alignment, and overcoming the unique challenges of creating harmony in love. With insights from Kami’s social media polls and deeply personal reflections, this episode uncovers what it truly takes to find a meaningful match.

✨ Don’t forget to check out Aleeza’s NEW book, Matchmaker Matchmaker: Find Me a Love That Lasts! ✨

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