
Episode 49: How to Remove Your Mental Load, Part II
04/21/22 • 16 min
What is overwhelm, and how do we deal with it? I break it down, and then share a powerful tool to ease the burden and help you sharpen your purpose.
Learn more about:
- Why and how overwhelm happen
- Making decisions during transitions
- Cultivating discipline when there are too many choices
- There’s math, and there’s drama
As always, you’re invited to my website, GirafeCoaching.com, where you can sign up for a monthly newsletter. In addition to finding out about free events within the Girafe Community, you can also download a free workbook to help you through tough times.
What is overwhelm, and how do we deal with it? I break it down, and then share a powerful tool to ease the burden and help you sharpen your purpose.
Learn more about:
- Why and how overwhelm happen
- Making decisions during transitions
- Cultivating discipline when there are too many choices
- There’s math, and there’s drama
As always, you’re invited to my website, GirafeCoaching.com, where you can sign up for a monthly newsletter. In addition to finding out about free events within the Girafe Community, you can also download a free workbook to help you through tough times.
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Episode 48: How to Remove Your Mental Load, Part I
I need to pack, I have to make sure the dogs have had their shots, I must get the kids ready for school, did I remember to register for a new driving license?
And on and on and on. Life can be overwhelming — especially during times of transition, as every expat knows.
But what if all those "I need to" and "I have to" and "I must" statements were instead "I choose to"? How much more empowering is it when your actions are controlled by your choices, to get you closer to the life you'll love, rather than by external forces?
In this episode, I'll discuss what it means to be carrying a "mental load" or "mental burden," and how you can lift it off your shoulders.
Learn more about:
- What is a "mental load"?
- Why we overload ourselves with cr*p!
- Why keeping lists really isn't a solution.
- How to get your finger off the "overwhelm" button.
- What you can gain by losing that mental load.
As always, you’re invited to my website, GirafeCoaching.com, where you can sign up for a monthly newsletter. In addition to finding out about free events within the Girafe Community, you can also download a free workbook to help you through tough times.
Next Episode

Episode 50: How to be the Hero of your Own Life
Sometimes we crash. Sometimes Literally. On this week’s episode, Caroline shares a recent accident that landed her in the hospital. It’s been a challenging time, with physical and emotional suffering. And, it’s been an opportunity for transformation, because there are ways to frame experiences like these to feel empowered, rather than victimized.
So, how do we become the hero of our own story, instead of the passenger?
Learn more about:
- Embracing your flaws
- Slowing down and practicing patience
- Finding courage
- The hero’s journey
A great companion episode to this one is 11 Modern Emotional Health.
As always, you’re invited to my website, GirafeCoaching.com, where you can sign up for a monthly newsletter. In addition to finding out about free events within the Girafe Community, you can also download a free workbook to help you through tough times.
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