
Ep. #231: We’re Back! Reclamation Rituals, Healing Around Compulsory Heterosexuality, Coming Out, Shifting Identity + More
09/06/21 • 45 min
The Living Open podcast is back with a solo episode! In this episode, your host Eryn shares about her healing journey this year & talks about reclamation rituals, healing around compulsory heterosexuality, coming out, shifting identity & more.
The Living Open podcast is back with a solo episode! In this episode, your host Eryn shares about her healing journey this year & talks about reclamation rituals, healing around compulsory heterosexuality, coming out, shifting identity & more.
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Ep. #230: Being in Your Wholeness, Trauma Healing & Creating Spaciousness with Stevie Leigh
Stevie Leigh (they/she) is a somatic practitioner, a writer, mystic, and a caretaker in many forms. In service to body autonomy and literacy, they help people find their way back to themselves.
In this episode, Eryn and Stevie talk about:
- Stevie’s healing journey and how they came into somatic work
- Critical inner voices and parts of ourselves
- Slowing down & trauma
- Integrating head and body for trauma healing
- You are fine just how you are!
- Growing around our trauma, not getting rid of it
- What is somatics?
- Working with somatics and spirituality for trauma healing
- Stevie’s journey with queerness
- What is the self? What are our selves?
- Accessing more expansiveness and curiosity and imagination
- Hangups around wellness world meets capitalism
- The trauma of capitalism
- The empress archetype & pleasure
- Growing our awareness of pleasure
Blog for this episode: www.living-open.com/blog/stevie-leigh
Connect with Eryn on Instagram. Register for pleasure magic: a tender embodied journey into deeper pleasure.
Connect with Stevie on their website and Instagram.
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Ep. #232: Getting Back Into Your Body, Deconstructing Catholicism & Living Uncaged with Phuong-Thao Nguyen
Phuong-Thao (she/her) is a Somatic Practitioner, ReBloom Coach and Trauma Educator supporting QTBIWOC & 1st and 2nd generation immigrants in navigating life transitions and moving from a place of survival to thriving & living life on their own terms from a place of deep self trust and connection to their bodies, voices, and aliveness so they can live an uncaged life.
In this episode, Eryn and Phung-Tao discuss:
- Phuong-Thao’s healing journey
- Fight, flight, freeze, and fawn trauma responses
- Shame over our body’s trauma responses
- What fills the gap when we don’t understand our lizard brain responses
- Seeking safety after trauma
- Telling the truth as an act of love
- Phuong-Thao’s deconstruction journey
- Her journey with self-trust after Catholicism
- How Catholicism reinforced that she should disconnect from herself and not trust herself
- Feeling like too much & feeling like you’re bad
- The pedestal of “goodness”
- Shame from church
- Moving towards sexual liberation and including yourself in the pleasure equation
- The power of choice
- How to start connecting with your body
Blog for this episode: www.living-open.com/blog/phuong-thao-nguyen
Connect with Eryn on Instagram. Join the upcoming virtual erotic poetry writing class. Last day to join HOLY - one spot left!
Connect with Phuong-Thao on her website and Instagram. Download her free 30 day observe your yes and no worksheet here.
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