40. We tried period sex (again)

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02/07/22 • 55 min

And we almost didn’t release this episode.

Given the stigma and epic amount of shame and trauma around periods, it’s no wonder that this can lead to insecurities and awkwardness when it comes to having sex on your (or your partner’s) period.

In this episode, we attempt period sex for the first time in a long time (because last time didn’t go as planned) and discuss why people have period sex, what the issues are, and how we can help people with this part of life.

And yes, things get messy.

But since there’s no sexual blueprint that dictates what makes sex successful or right or good, we continue to show up for each other despite the awkwardness, energetic disconnect, and “womb robbery.”

So, whether you or your partner are a bleeding human, grab your headset, tune in, and get ready for some learning moments when it comes to having sex on your period (or knowing when not to).

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/40-again

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And we almost didn’t release this episode.

And yes, things get messy.

So, whether you or your partner are a bleeding human, grab your headset, tune in, and get ready for some learning moments when it comes to having sex on your period (or knowing when not to).

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/40-again

Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started.

Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.

Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.

Previous Episode

39. Lacey heals her rejection wound + listener questions

Do you ever feel like there’s something that wants to come out during sex? Frustration? Confusion? Sadness? Have you ever felt shy or even shame when referring to your own body parts? And what about this; have you ever had an unhealed wound from childhood come out of absolute fucking nowhere in the form of pure rage?

If you’re reading this (and being honest with yourself), you’re likely nodding your head and saying YES to at least one of those.

In this episode, we’re answering a couple of listener questions about crying after orgasm, leaning into the emotions that may come up during sex, and taking back ownership of words like “pussy” and “cock.”

We’re also having quite the deep and meaningful conversation exploring a very recent event in our lives that resulted in Lacey throwing Flynn’s pillow off the bed (yup, he’s back in the big bed!) and eventually healing her childhood rejection wound.

Grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to learn how to reclaim ownership of stereotypical porn words and the importance of noticing and fully stepping into your emotions.

Oh, and in case you missed it, we were recently featured in an article in The Guardian, and you should definitely go and check it out!

And keep the questions coming!

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/39-rejectionwound

Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started.

Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.

Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.

Next Episode

41. Flynn's (penis's) journey with trauma & healing

We don’t often talk about penis trauma or the things men go through.

In this episode, we dive into Flynn’s three testicle and groin surgeries (due to a varicocele), the impacts of circumcision on newborn baby boys, and the problems with normalising these traumatic events.

The changes we make to our bodies are just that, our own. But what happens when changes are made to our bodies when we’re too young even to realise what’s happening? How can we seek the support we need to heal from these traumas when we live in a society that doesn’t even classify them as such?

That’s why we’re bringing this discussion to you today. Because your body knows everything you’ve been through, even if you haven't integrated it yet.

So grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to get vulnerable in order to heal. It's worth it.

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/41-trauma

Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started.

Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.

Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.