Is Our Love Normative (with Porn Performer & Activist Lync Johnson)
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09/09/20 • 95 min
What is a norm and how do you know if you’re willingly or unwillingly abiding by it? By now we know our formative years at least have some influence in our worldview. Does that mean norms are good? Bad? or do they not even matter at all? Porn performer and activist Lync Johnson (@lyncjohnson3x) takes us through his formative years and how his lack of societal influence helped him form norms of his own. From a unique first time experience to rejecting labels, Lync’s journey down memory lane has us all questioning our societal influences and how norms can be particularly gendered. PLUS a listener gets some words of advice from Julia Koewer (@JuliaKoerwer) LMSW on finding affordable therapy for a new lover.
Follow Lync everywhere: allmylinks.com/lyncjohnson
If you're in need of sex, love or relationship advice Email us at [email protected]
------~ Follow us on social media ~------- The show: @isourlove_____ Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert
The end of episode song this week is Suicide "Dream Baby Dream" Our official theme songs were lovingly composed & recorded by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com
What is a norm and how do you know if you’re willingly or unwillingly abiding by it? By now we know our formative years at least have some influence in our worldview. Does that mean norms are good? Bad? or do they not even matter at all? Porn performer and activist Lync Johnson (@lyncjohnson3x) takes us through his formative years and how his lack of societal influence helped him form norms of his own. From a unique first time experience to rejecting labels, Lync’s journey down memory lane has us all questioning our societal influences and how norms can be particularly gendered. PLUS a listener gets some words of advice from Julia Koewer (@JuliaKoerwer) LMSW on finding affordable therapy for a new lover.
Follow Lync everywhere: allmylinks.com/lyncjohnson
If you're in need of sex, love or relationship advice Email us at [email protected]
------~ Follow us on social media ~------- The show: @isourlove_____ Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert
The end of episode song this week is Suicide "Dream Baby Dream" Our official theme songs were lovingly composed & recorded by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com
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You can find more information on Mia's work, upcoming workshops, and her podcast at sharetheloadinc.com.
If you're in need of sex, love or relationship advice Email us at [email protected]
------~ Follow us on social media ~------- The show: @isourlove_____ Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert
The end of episode song this week is Rival Schools "Hooligans For Life"
Our official theme songs were lovingly composed & recorded by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com
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You can find Peekaboo's work at peekaboocollins.com and @peekaboocollins
If you're in need of sex, love or relationship advice (or just want to share a story) Email us at [email protected]
------~ Follow us on social media ~------- The show: @isourlove_____ Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert
The end of episode song this week is Peaches "Talk To Me"
Our official theme songs were lovingly composed & recorded by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com
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