Is Our Love Non Monogamous? (w Ruby Rare)

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05/13/20 • 81 min

Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert

Does it seem like everyone is talking about open relationships and polyamory lately? Is non-monogamy actually better? Who is it for? Does non-monogamy mean you have more sex? And why does it have so many syllables? Ruby Rare joins us this week to spell out the shades of non-monogamy from A-Z. Whether you’re already considering non-monogamy or you want some applicable learnings for your future relationships, this episode has relatable bits of wisdom for everyone - monogamous or not. PLUS, Stephen, Lola and Ruby give some advice to a pleasure seeking individual struggling to achieve orgasm with a partner.

Follow Ruby on Instagram: @rubyrare

If you're in need of sex, love or relationship advice : Email us at [email protected]

------~ Follow us on social media ~------- The show: @isourlove_____ Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert

This weeks' end of episode song is a throwback: The Rapture "Open Up Your Heart" Our official theme songs were lovingly composed & recorded by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com

Follow Ruby on Instagram: @rubyrare

If you're in need of sex, love or relationship advice : Email us at [email protected]

------~ Follow us on social media ~------- The show: @isourlove_____ Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert

This weeks' end of episode song is a throwback: The Rapture "Open Up Your Heart" Our official theme songs were lovingly composed & recorded by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com

Previous Episode

Is Our Love A Pelvic Floor (w/ Dr. Rachel Gelman)

Did you know you have a pelvic floor? Yes, all of you. Do you know what is does? Spoiler Alert: EVERYTHING. Rachel Gelman a San Francisco based Pelvic Floor Therapist joins us this week to tell us everything from the 411 on kegals to why a good bowel movement can make your week.

Whether you had no idea that the hammock in your pelvis was responsible for your orgasms AND your urination or you’ve been trying to kegel your way to the heavy weights - there’s always something new to learn. Trust us: you’re going to want to get a notebook for this ep. PLUS Stephen, Lola, and Rachel give some advice to a vortex of vaginal odor & erectile difficulty shame.

You can find the extensive list of resources Rachel mentioned here: www.painperceptionproject.com/patients & you can find Rachel's practice on instagram: @pelvichealthsf

As always, if you're finding yourself in need sex, love or relationship advice : Email us at [email protected] ... if we can't help we'll be happy to search for a trained professional.

------~ Follow us on social media ~------- The show: @isourlove_____ Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert

This weeks' end of episode song is the Soulwax remix of Hot Chip's "Ready For The Floor" Our official theme songs were lovingly composed & recorded by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com

Next Episode

Is Our Love the New 'Talk'? (with Jet Setting Jasmine)

Do you remember getting the talk? Who gave it to you? How would you give “the talk?” Easier said than done. This week’s guest Jet Setting Jasmine is not only walking the walk but talking THE 'talk'. Jasmine is a mother of three and can add therapist, pornographer and domme to her extensive resume. Jasmine schools us on the sex positive parenting playbook that doesn’t exist, answering questions like: When do you start introducing topics of sex to your children and how you go about doing it? Do you have to be comfortable with your own sexuality to be able to provide them with a quality ‘talk?’ Does it have to be awkward? Above all, how do we keep our children safe while enabling them to explore sexuality in a healthy manner? PLUS we talk to Jasmine about how to educate your kids on looooove.

Find everything Jet Setting Jasmine on: jsjlinks.com (or, like she says, just google her)

If you're in need of sex, love or relationship advice : Email us at [email protected]

------~ Follow us on social media ~------- The show: @isourlove_____ Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert

This weeks' end of episode song is Madison McFerrin "TRY" Our official theme songs were lovingly composed & recorded by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com