Is Our Love HYPNOTIZED? (Erotic Hypnosis with Wizard: Devin Person)

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09/04/19 • 96 min

Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert

This week on Is Our Love we talk to a *fucking* Wizard. Find out how one becomes a fucking wizard and what a real life wizard even does. Devin Person dispels the mystique behind erotic hypnosis and what happens when a hypnosis goes dark. So much of pleasure based sex ed focuses on physical touch, but how can one manipulate the mind as a part of the mind-body experience? Whether you subscribe or not, hypnotism has many interesting parallels to BDSM and sex. PLUS, Stephen and Lola get hypnotized and have (you guessed it)*very* different reactions.

You can find all things Wizard or book sessions with Devin at personisawake.com and hear him on his podcast: THIS PODCAST IS A RITUAL.

If you have a sex or relationship question for us or have a topic you want to hear covered on the show? MANIFEST! [email protected]

Books mentioned this episode: Mindplay: A Guide to Erotic Hypnosis by Mark Wiseman

------~ Follow us on social media ~------- The show: @isourlove_____ Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert

This weeks' end of episode song is a throwback, Aphex Twin "Film." Our official theme songs are composed & recorded by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com

You can find all things Wizard or book sessions with Devin at personisawake.com and hear him on his podcast: THIS PODCAST IS A RITUAL.

If you have a sex or relationship question for us or have a topic you want to hear covered on the show? MANIFEST! [email protected]

Books mentioned this episode: Mindplay: A Guide to Erotic Hypnosis by Mark Wiseman

------~ Follow us on social media ~------- The show: @isourlove_____ Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert

This weeks' end of episode song is a throwback, Aphex Twin "Film." Our official theme songs are composed & recorded by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com

Previous Episode

Is Our Love a One Night Stand?

No conversation about sex is complete without talking about the one night stand. So commonplace its earned its own abbreviation: ONS. One-night standspert MOMO (@momosinmieda) joins Stephen and Lola as we break down what constitutes a one night stand. Are one night stands inherently bad & what can be done to improve them? With vivid stories from one night stands past, present, and maybe even the future, Momo and Lola bond over shared ghosts and Stephen gets to the bottom of why cis-dudes are so susceptible to becoming ghosts. PLUS: We tackle fantasy habits in our listener questions.

If you have a sex or relationship question for us or have a topic you want to hear covered on the show, Email us! [email protected]

------~ Follow us on social media ~------- The show: @isourlove_____ Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert

This weeks' end of episode song is THE DETROIT COBRAS "Bad Girl" Our official theme songs are composed & recorded by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com

Next Episode

Is Our Love Intimate (with Sex Therapist Cyndi Darnell)

In our continued pursuit of all conversations sex & kink, this weeks' guest Cyndi Darnell, a leading sex therapist and educator, brings us back to our human core: INTIMACY. We have an in depth convo about fostering intimacy within our various types of relationships. Cyndi also illuminates how her clientele has changed over time, and addresses some of the most common issues that bring clients into her office (we're looking at you sexual dysfunction stress!). PLUS Lola and Stephen cover some butt stuff with a listener email. With so many great nuggets from this weeks episode perhaps the most poignant is: Ask not only what do you want, but what can you offer.

You can find Cyndi's work, digital courses, or contact her for sessions at: https://cyndidarnell.com/ And follow her instagram: @cyndi_darnell

------~ Follow us on social media ~------- The show: @isourlove_____ Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert

This weeks' end of episode song is Qveen Herby "Sade In The 90s" Our official theme songs are composed & recorded by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com