
28: Find Yourself a Business Bestie
11/14/22 • 46 min
After weeks apart doing solo podcast episodes, the stars have aligned, and fate has finally reunited us! It’s a double the flavor, double the fun episode with both Cheryl and Nicky back from our solo journeys and we’re happy to be together again. This happy meeting has reminded us how important it is to have a business friend to share all the feelings of running a business, and if you don’t have one yet we’re laying out everything that we’ve learned finding each other and what the differences are between a friend in your personal life and someone to share our business adventures with.
You wouldn’t think that having a business friend that you can share your wins and worries with would be an important part of being a successful business owner, but when it really gets right down to it, being able to share your experiences with someone who’s been there before, or who might be able to give some insight, that kind of relationship can be invaluable. We don’t know where we would be if we couldn’t send each other messages of encouragement or bounce our frustrations off of each other. Hopefully our experience can help you find the right person for you to connect with and create your own business friend!
Key Takeaways:
The importance of Business friendships cannot be overstated - if you’re going to be a successful business owner, you need to have a network you can relate to all those highs and lows
Personal friendships mean well, but they’re no substitute for someone who is going through or has been through a similar experience
Your peers are looking for those types of relationships too! Don’t be afraid to reach out and start talking
Quotes:
“Because we're business owners, our work takes up so much of our time that our family members, our children, our parents, our significant others, they all want to be there and to be supportive of us. But if we don't have actual business buddies, kind of separate from those people, then all we have is our family and our like regular life friends to talk to about our business and it can get repetitive.” – Cheryl
“When you run into a problem, a business friend can usually see things from a different perspective and has the experience to see things that we miss because we're so close to it.” – Nicky
“At some point, if you want to have a friendship, you need to trust somebody. If you're not comfortable with people in your own industry, look for people outside of your industry. Your business friend does not have to be somebody within your industry; it can be somebody who does something completely different.” – Cheryl
“But you will surprise yourself. When we started talking, it was about if I had a question or just wanted to run something by her. But slowly it just evolved into this amazing friendship.” – Nicky
Have a subject you’d like us to cover or just want to comment about how much you love the podcast? We want to hear from you! You can like, subscribe, and leave us a 5-star rating everywhere you can download podcasts.
After weeks apart doing solo podcast episodes, the stars have aligned, and fate has finally reunited us! It’s a double the flavor, double the fun episode with both Cheryl and Nicky back from our solo journeys and we’re happy to be together again. This happy meeting has reminded us how important it is to have a business friend to share all the feelings of running a business, and if you don’t have one yet we’re laying out everything that we’ve learned finding each other and what the differences are between a friend in your personal life and someone to share our business adventures with.
You wouldn’t think that having a business friend that you can share your wins and worries with would be an important part of being a successful business owner, but when it really gets right down to it, being able to share your experiences with someone who’s been there before, or who might be able to give some insight, that kind of relationship can be invaluable. We don’t know where we would be if we couldn’t send each other messages of encouragement or bounce our frustrations off of each other. Hopefully our experience can help you find the right person for you to connect with and create your own business friend!
Key Takeaways:
The importance of Business friendships cannot be overstated - if you’re going to be a successful business owner, you need to have a network you can relate to all those highs and lows
Personal friendships mean well, but they’re no substitute for someone who is going through or has been through a similar experience
Your peers are looking for those types of relationships too! Don’t be afraid to reach out and start talking
Quotes:
“Because we're business owners, our work takes up so much of our time that our family members, our children, our parents, our significant others, they all want to be there and to be supportive of us. But if we don't have actual business buddies, kind of separate from those people, then all we have is our family and our like regular life friends to talk to about our business and it can get repetitive.” – Cheryl
“When you run into a problem, a business friend can usually see things from a different perspective and has the experience to see things that we miss because we're so close to it.” – Nicky
“At some point, if you want to have a friendship, you need to trust somebody. If you're not comfortable with people in your own industry, look for people outside of your industry. Your business friend does not have to be somebody within your industry; it can be somebody who does something completely different.” – Cheryl
“But you will surprise yourself. When we started talking, it was about if I had a question or just wanted to run something by her. But slowly it just evolved into this amazing friendship.” – Nicky
Have a subject you’d like us to cover or just want to comment about how much you love the podcast? We want to hear from you! You can like, subscribe, and leave us a 5-star rating everywhere you can download podcasts.
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27: Keeping a Healthy Work / Life Balance through the Seasons of your Life
We hear about it all the time: how do we, as creative entrepreneurs, maintain a healthy work / life balance? We want to dedicate as much time as we can to making our business successful, but how much of our personal life should we sacrifice to achieve that result? On this episode of the podcast, Cheryl’s sharing her experience building her business from the ground up while also having a professional career and a growing family, and how realizing our life is more about seasons than work and play helped her be able to find a good balance between both.
Key Takeaways:
Not every season of our personal and professional life is going to be the same
As such, balancing those two aspects of our life requires thought and planning to be successful
Communication with our family and our work associates is key to finding that balance
Sacrificing one side for the other is tipping things too far! We’re more than our work, but our work is important to us as well
Quotes:
“I believe that we all have seasons in our lives and in our business. A season might last a month, or it might last a quarter, or it might last six months. It could even last a year. It could be any span of time. However, we all have the seasons that bring different things into our lives.” – Cheryl
“I think to run a successful business, you need to be showing up for your people. However, we can't always be on. And there's no sense in beating ourselves up about times in our lives where we just can't show up in that way.” – Cheryl
“There are only so many things we can do in a day, even if we are the most organized person, even if we have the most perfect systems in place. We can't do everything because we are not superhuman, and it’s okay to recognize that because it means not having a breakdown, not burning out, or not finding yourself in crisis because you're trying to do too many things. To me, having it all means being able to maintain my business while still being able to enjoy the other aspects of my life without letting the stress become overwhelming.” - Cheryl
Have a subject you’d like us to spin a yarn about? We’re dying to hear from you! You can leave us a comment wherever you download your podcasts, and while you’re at it, subscribe and leave us a 5-star rating. Grow with us as we put out more podcast episodes!
Come find us online - we would love to hear from you!
- Cheryl: Indie Dyed Entrepreneur on Instagram or Facebook
- Nicky: Avery Lane Creations on Instagram or Facebook
- For a Text Notification when new episodes drop, text “Makers Gonna Sell” to 603-928-7108
- Hypnotic Yarn on Instagram or Facebook
- Yarnable Subscription Box - Cheryl’s Subscription Box
- ALC Yarns - Nicky’s Yarn Shop
- Nicky’s Maker’s Momentum Inner Circle
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BONUS: Is It Time To Hire Help? (Replay)
Are you so busy working IN your business that there’s no time left to work ON your business?
We’ve all said it, “There aren’t enough hours in the day.”
It really does feel that way when you’re wearing all the hats in your creative business. And it can be downright impossible to embrace the visionary role that your business requires of you when you’re bogged down with perpetual product making and never-ending to-do lists!
But guess what? We all get the same 24 hours each and every day. It’s what you do with them that counts.
Imagine what it would feel like if you had an extra set of hands every now and then. Would it change your life if you could take a day off (or *gasp* go on vacation) all the while things are still getting done?
Hiring is a big step, and you might be thinking, “Yeah, that all sounds great, but I’m not even paying myself yet! How the heck am I going to hire someone?”
In today’s episode we’re going to walk you through getting the right type of help without breaking the bank, and why it might be the best thing you can do for your business.
Topics discussed in this episode:
- 1:00: Are you being pulled in too many directions?
- 5:54: The different shapes and sizes of hiring help.
- 28:26: Finding the right fit is sometimes trial and error.
- 32:30: Do you really need to spend money to make money?
- 40:59: Where do you find the help you need?
...and so much more!
Needle Mover
- We’re closing out every episode by declaring a Needle Mover in each of our businesses. You learn more about what a Needle Mover is and what it isn’t in episode 2 of the
- podcast.
- 49:01: Cheryl’s Needle Mover
- 54:30: Nicky’ Needle Mover
Don’t forget to share YOUR Needle Mover with us on Instagram by posting it to your Stories and tagging us, or shoot us a DM. Together, let’s make a BIG impact in our businesses over the next 2 weeks!
Come find us on social media - we would love to hear from you!
- Cheryl: Indie Dyed Entrepreneur on Instagram or Facebook
- Hypnotic Yarn on Instagram or Facebook
- Yarnable Subscription Box
- Nicky: Avery Lane Creations on Instagram or Facebook
- ALC Yarn Club
- For a Text Notification from Cheryl when new episodes drop, text “Makers Gonna Sell” to 603-928-7108
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