95. "The Ultimatum South Africa" Ep 6-9 and Reunion

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06/13/24 • 50 min

I Said What I Said

Thank GOD its over! We loved it but my lorddd: what a rollercoaster of a show. Entertaining, shocking, messy!

We discuss

Thoughts on each contestant’s behaviour in episode 6-9, with a special mention to Nolla and Khanya’s bizarre behaviour
Each couple’s proposals
The reunion: surprise breakups, growth and drama

On the full Patreon episode we go on to discuss:

Should we judge people by the friends they keep?
Being guilty by association
Are armchair diagnoses appropriate?
The dangers of dating with low self esteem
The cost of positioning yourself as a tool for people’s growth
Punitive justice: what does rehabilitation look like in your personal life?

References:

Dr Cherie - https://www.youtube.com/@DrCherieTypes

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Thank GOD its over! We loved it but my lorddd: what a rollercoaster of a show. Entertaining, shocking, messy!

We discuss

Thoughts on each contestant’s behaviour in episode 6-9, with a special mention to Nolla and Khanya’s bizarre behaviour
Each couple’s proposals
The reunion: surprise breakups, growth and drama

On the full Patreon episode we go on to discuss:

Should we judge people by the friends they keep?
Being guilty by association
Are armchair diagnoses appropriate?
The dangers of dating with low self esteem
The cost of positioning yourself as a tool for people’s growth
Punitive justice: what does rehabilitation look like in your personal life?

References:

Dr Cherie - https://www.youtube.com/@DrCherieTypes

Instagram: for podcast content follow iswis_podcast. For memes and tits follow mukundwa_

Got thoughts? Send a VoiceNote! https://www.speakpipe.com/iswis

Please leave a review on Apple podcasts or a rating on Spotify (click the 3 dots > Rate Show)

Get bonus content on Patreon

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Previous Episode

93. Yoh! The "Ultimatum South Africa" Review (Ep1-5)

Please DO NOT share with us the outcome of Ep6-10!

SPOILERS: discussing Episode 1-5

TW - Ab*se and addiction

The Ultimatum SA has us by the pubes! It’s 10/10 and we spend the episode dissecting it. The full 1hr40min discussion is on Patreon.

Things we discuss:

Nyakwezi gives an update on her tussle with the psychic
Holding space for friendship breakups
The Public humiliation (or efficacy) of dragging your partner onto The Ultimatum
First impressions of the original couples
Complacency and financial issues
Infidelity
Possible personality disorders and compulsive liars
The realities of hypergamy dating
Abuse, Manipulation and Addiction
South Africa’s racial dynamics
Predictions of outcomes for all couples

Please DO NOT share with us the outcome of Ep6-10!

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Next Episode

96. Hope, Burnout and Depression

On this episode I discuss:

Autistic burnout vs. depression
When affirmations feel like lies
The emotional cost of managing everyday life
The cost of hidden disabilities
Moral imperatives
The selfishness of Nihilism
Cognitive distortions
The applications of optimism, hope, pessimism and nihilism

References:

Rebecca Solnit interview - https://open.spotify.com/episode/45Qgrl4kcHVap19qqVc2G6?si=7989f4dd4f044276

Thank you Patrons for your presence! It’s a real joy creating and engaging with you all

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