Is Your Pleasure More Important Than Her Pleasure?

08/10/23 • 15 min

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In today’s episode, I am going to talk about PLEASURE, more specifically as the Leader, as the Dominant, whose pleasure are you striving to fulfill in the relationship?

A couple of days ago, lk and I sat down and discussed several topics that came to mind. At one point, she fired off several great but difficult questions. As we began to discuss some of these questions in more detail, I thought that it may be beneficial to share one of them with you.

When is your pleasure more important than hers?

When leading with masculinity, what is the correct answer?

Is her pleasure more important than yours?

Or should your pleasure take precedence over hers?

Leading with integrated masculine energy!

In today’s episode, I am going to talk about PLEASURE, more specifically as the Leader, as the Dominant, whose pleasure are you striving to fulfill in the relationship?

When is your pleasure more important than hers?

When leading with masculinity, what is the correct answer?

Is her pleasure more important than yours?

Or should your pleasure take precedence over hers?

Leading with integrated masculine energy!

Previous Episode

One Giant Leap

I was talking with lk today about the husDOM podcast. I told her that I was going to begin producing and publishing podcast episodes again. Our conversation leads into many different areas, from who the target audience is, to sharpening the tagline, to the music at the beginning of the podcast. Without a clear picture of the journey, it is difficult how to navigate.

The music has been a topic that we have discussed before.

The first podcast episode had a cool swanky kind of music intro. After that, I changed it to different music with some original audio takes from the Apollo 11 mission to the moon.

Lk asked me why the Apollo 11 mission and how that connected to Married Dominance and submission, Leadership, or being a husDOM.

Obviously, I am into aviation which admittedly isn't quite going to the moon BUT like most of you, we draw similarities from the things that we are familiar with.

Connection to Married Dominance and submission

Lk was asking those questions because she didn't see ANY connection. For myself, on the other hand, I thought it fit pretty well. After explaining what it meant to me, lk felt that I should share the same story with you. Here is what I told lk....

Leading with integrated masculine energy!

Next Episode

A Tale of an Emasculated Man

In today's episode, I will give you my perspective on today's Emasculated husband.
I will begin with the origin of today's topic, an elevator ride in my hotel in Iceland. Here I witnessed an all too common interaction between a husband and wife.
Was this shell of a man always this emasculated, or had it been a long journey through life that left him this way?
Did his wife take his masculinity throughout their marriage, leaving him emasculated? Or did he surrender his masculinity over time by taking what looked like the easier way out? In essence, did he surrender his masculinity?

Join me as I wrap my thoughts around my short interaction on an elevator.

Leading with integrated masculine energy!

husDOM | Masculine Dominant Leadership - Is Your Pleasure More Important Than Her Pleasure?

Transcript

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In today's episode, I'm going to take a deep dive into the aspects of pleasure in a relationship. Today's topic isn't about how to give or receive pleasure, but rather, whose pleasure Are you striving for anyway? And why, as a masculine leader, a dominant? Are you striving to satisfy your own needs? Or are you trying to satisfy her needs? Or could it be a combination of both? Who are we actually trying to please? And why? Join me, and let's try and