Pausing and People Pleasing with Alan Heymann

04/30/21 • 31 min

There are lots of things that get in the way of our ability to successfully handle conflict. They often have to do with a limiting mindset, a leaning towards people pleasing, misidentifying the root cause of the conflict, or not creating a safe environment for feedback or different opinions. The good news is that there’s a lot we can personally do to remove those barriers.

Our question this episode: What are some simple but powerful ways we can set ourselves up for better success when we get into conflict?

My guest is Alan Heymann. Alan is a leadership and executive coach in the Washington DC area. He’s a communications and marketing veteran from the media, government, and nonprofit sectors, with degrees in journalism and law. He’s worn many hats, including being a reporter, anchor, editor and producer, spokesperson, business owner, activist and team leader. His entire career has focused on doing good in the world, by helping others grow.

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Our question this episode: What are some simple but powerful ways we can set ourselves up for better success when we get into conflict?

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