Our Week of Touch and Talk with Two Sex and Relationship Coaches
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03/29/19 • 56 min
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GOLD breakthroughs. So many couples are suffering - couples who love each other deeply, but intimacy is bleh. Lacklustre. We live in a culture obsessed with sex, but most of us are not sexually satisfied, not truly fulfilled and fed. We place impossible expectations on our partners and harbour resentment and hurt. We have no language to ask for what we want, and we place our erotic desires at the bottom of our priority list, somewhere below work, parenting, and laundry. BUT THERE'S HOPE! Here's what happened at a private workshop with two Sex and Relationship therapists.
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Discussed in this episode:
what it’s like to get a lingam massage
Daoist ancient massage practices
deep dive: couples intimacy, touch techniques, sensation play
our biggest breakthroughs
why slowing down and continuous touch are the key
learning yoni massage
what is trigger talk?
do we touch the way we want to be touched?
why we should colour-code sensual play
bloopers
CONNECT WITH KAMILA: [email protected]
GOLD breakthroughs. So many couples are suffering - couples who love each other deeply, but intimacy is bleh. Lacklustre. We live in a culture obsessed with sex, but most of us are not sexually satisfied, not truly fulfilled and fed. We place impossible expectations on our partners and harbour resentment and hurt. We have no language to ask for what we want, and we place our erotic desires at the bottom of our priority list, somewhere below work, parenting, and laundry. BUT THERE'S HOPE! Here's what happened at a private workshop with two Sex and Relationship therapists.
FREE MASTERCLASS with Lacey & Katya
Discussed in this episode:
what it’s like to get a lingam massage
Daoist ancient massage practices
deep dive: couples intimacy, touch techniques, sensation play
our biggest breakthroughs
why slowing down and continuous touch are the key
learning yoni massage
what is trigger talk?
do we touch the way we want to be touched?
why we should colour-code sensual play
bloopers
CONNECT WITH KAMILA: [email protected]
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