Therapeutic MDMA, Burgers and Threesomes with Sophie Jaffe
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04/05/19 • 64 min
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Sophie Jaffe is a Los Angeles-based health and wellness expert, a certified raw food chef and yoga teacher. She’s also a mom of 3 and a brilliant entrepreneur who started the superfood brand Philosophie ... but we actually didn’t talk about any of that.
Sophie’s marriage has been a rollercoaster, taking her and her beloved husband Adi on quite a ride.
They co-host their own podcast, IGNTD, where they openly talk about how their marriage almost didn’t survive Adi’s cheating and sex addiction ... but after 15 years, their love is as strong as ever.
Sophie opens up about their MDMA healing sessions, which are like 6 months of therapy in just one night; she tells us about the one thing that actually saved their marriage, how they spice it up and keep the fire burning even after 3 kids, and so much more.
10% off all Philosophie superfoods with the code "PhilosophieLove"
connect with Sophie @sophie.jaffe
Discussed in this episode:
postpartum: sweet and slow, 3rd time's the charm
intimacy after 3 kids
when he doesn’t notice my naked body after 15 years together
how to connect when you work together and “don’t have time” in day to day life
MDMA couples therapy: 6 months of therapy in one night
how to have an intentional experience
what it’s like to be married to a sex addict
what actually heals relationships: on radical transparency
rule around sexuality with other people
how to allow new experiences without hurting the relationship
"same room at the same time"
how to spice it up: letting someone else in?
journey with veganism & getting away from moralization of food
how to stand up, say what you need, and make your own rules
Mentioned in the Episode:
IGNTD podcast
The Abstinence Myth by Dr. Adi Jaffe
FREE MASTERCLASS with Katya & Lacey
Sophie Jaffe is a Los Angeles-based health and wellness expert, a certified raw food chef and yoga teacher. She’s also a mom of 3 and a brilliant entrepreneur who started the superfood brand Philosophie ... but we actually didn’t talk about any of that.
Sophie’s marriage has been a rollercoaster, taking her and her beloved husband Adi on quite a ride.
They co-host their own podcast, IGNTD, where they openly talk about how their marriage almost didn’t survive Adi’s cheating and sex addiction ... but after 15 years, their love is as strong as ever.
Sophie opens up about their MDMA healing sessions, which are like 6 months of therapy in just one night; she tells us about the one thing that actually saved their marriage, how they spice it up and keep the fire burning even after 3 kids, and so much more.
10% off all Philosophie superfoods with the code "PhilosophieLove"
connect with Sophie @sophie.jaffe
Discussed in this episode:
postpartum: sweet and slow, 3rd time's the charm
intimacy after 3 kids
when he doesn’t notice my naked body after 15 years together
how to connect when you work together and “don’t have time” in day to day life
MDMA couples therapy: 6 months of therapy in one night
how to have an intentional experience
what it’s like to be married to a sex addict
what actually heals relationships: on radical transparency
rule around sexuality with other people
how to allow new experiences without hurting the relationship
"same room at the same time"
how to spice it up: letting someone else in?
journey with veganism & getting away from moralization of food
how to stand up, say what you need, and make your own rules
Mentioned in the Episode:
IGNTD podcast
The Abstinence Myth by Dr. Adi Jaffe
FREE MASTERCLASS with Katya & Lacey
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