The Bi-rds and the Bees

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01/03/20 • 44 min

Believe it or not, but Rose and Annie definitely don’t know everything there is to know about sex. To be honest, sometimes they’re not even sure what sex is, so we called in the expert. Eva Bloom, a pleasure positive sex educator, youtuber, host of Sex Ed, and bisexual who just got her Masters in SEXTING comes on to talk to us about obtaining consent in a digital world, ettiquette of responding to nudes, what to do when your sex drive doesn’t match your partner’s and SO MUCH MORE. TIMESTAMPS Interview with Eva Bloom of @WhatsMyBodyDoing 00 - 32:32 Bilights 32:32 Bising Stars 40:40 Adbice 43:20 REFERENCES Eva’s Channels &References Patreon https://www.patreon.com/WhatsMyBodyDoing Youtube http://youtube.com/whatsmybodydoing Instagram https://www.instagram.com/whatsmybodydoing Twitter https://twitter.com/whatsmybodydoin? Sex Ed School https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLFrqObEvDOwkfkcik9TOYgBh4RlhIXj-_ Want, Will, Won’t List http://old.mojoupgrade.com/ Sending nudes with invisible ink - check our instagram, we’ll post soon Sex Positive Families https://www.instagram.com/sexpositive_families Sex Positive Families Reading List https://sexpositivefamilies.com/sex-positive-families-reading-list/ Nadine Thornhill, Save Sex Ed https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLFrqObEvDOwkxd09MEgeleRJW-k73nEtI Stevie Boebi https://www.youtube.com/user/SassiBoB What’s Wrong With Molly Margaret https://www.instagram.com/whatswrongwithmollymargaret/ The Dildorks Podcast https://thedildorks.wordpress.com/ Give $3 a month to get the sex research letter https://www.patreon.com/join/WhatsMyBodyDoing/signup?ru=%2Fjoin%2FWhatsMyBodyDoing%2Fcheckout%3Frid%3D1881643%26 Andrew Gurza, Disability & Sex http://www.andrewgurza.com/ Bilights & Other References Lex Dating App https://www.vogue.com/article/lex-queer-dating-app Human Rights Campaign’s Municipal Equality Index https://www.hrc.org/mei Lots of animals are bisexual https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2019/11/19/gay-animals-bisexual-same-sex-behaviour-evolution-yale-school-forestry-environmental-studies/ Bisexual people who are out to their partners may have worse sex https://www.insider.com/bisexual-people-out-to-their-straight-partners-have-worse-sex-2019-11 Bisexuality & Race on Dating Apps https://www.eurekalert.org/pub_releases/2019-11/uoia-rei111419.php Kathleen Hanna http://www.kathleenhanna.com/ Le Tigre’s Feminist Sweepstakes https://open.spotify.com/album/0sba5xAGgB7VP3X6BSzIOg?si=ATE-6UcZRMyXFf1G7YiC_w

Previous Episode

Getting Bi-sy

Have you ever Googled “how to do sex?” If the answer is yes, have we got a podcast for you! In this episode, Rose and Annie explore getting consent, having pleasurable sex, and the public school system that failed to teach them how to do either. Together, they discuss what constitutes sex and share some explicit sex acts you can do with your partner (and how to make sure everyone's consenting). Want to tell us about the sex acts we missed (but in a totally non-pervy way)? Email us at [email protected] or slide into our DMs over on Instagram @HelloGoodBis.

TIMESTAMPS

Consent 17:30
Sex Education 25:00
EXPLICIT SEX ACTIONS 38:10
Protection and STI Testing 1:12:15
Bilights (Bisexual News) 1:20:23
Bising Stars 1:24:47
Adbice 1:28:27

Next Episode

New Queer, New You

We’ll miss saying "20-bi-teen," but we're excited to embrace the New Year! Lots of folks like to set resolutions, but do they work? How can you make them more effective? What about making a queer resolution? Rose and Annie dive into the internet and each other’s minds to help you select and set your goals (Uhm, keeping them is on you...).

Did we miss something? Wanna share your resolution? Email us at [email protected] or follow us on Instagram @HelloGoodBis.

REFERENCES

History of New Years Resolutions https://www.history.com/news/the-history-of-new-years-resolutions
Some Stats on Effectiveness of Resolutions https://www.inc.com/peter-economy/10-top-new-years-resolutions-for-success-happiness-in-2019.html
Yup, people vote the most during the presidential election https://www.fairvote.org/voter_turnout#voter_turnout_101
Our coming out episode is #3 called The Good The Bi and the Ugly https://anchor.fm/hellogoodbis/episodes/The-Good--The-Bi--The-Ugly-Coming-Out-e4so7t
Sober Pride Resources https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/7xgevd/how-to-party-at-pride-if-youre-sober https://myslutbox.com/out-proud-sober-how-to-have-fun-at-pride-without-liquor/
Straight Edge https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Straight_edge
Our episode about finding someone to love is #10 called Dating Bi-os https://anchor.fm/hellogoodbis/episodes/Dating-Bi-os-e9ad2k
When Brooklyn Was Queer (the book Annie forgot the name of) https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781250169914
Clementine Morrigan, physical consent https://www.instagram.com/clementinemorrigan
Figure skater Amber Glenn comes out as bisexual/pansexual: ‘I don’t want to hide who I am’ ’https://www.outsports.com/2019/12/17/21024753/amber-glenn-figure-skating-bisexual-pansexual-olympics-texas-team-usa
Former MMA Fighter Jason Ellis: Let Bi Men Like Me Into the Community https://www.advocate.com/commentary/2019/12/10/former-mma-fighter-jason-ellis-let-bi-men-me-community
Saying Bi, Bi, Bi to a Decade of Increased Bi+ Visibility https://www.hrc.org/blog/saying-bi-bi-bi-to-a-decade-of-increased-bi-visibility
Vaping ads often target bisexual women of color, study finds https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/vaping-ads-often-target-bisexual-women-of-color-study-finds-130533558.html
Quit Like a Woman, Holly Whitaker https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781984825056
The UK has elected the ‘gayest parliament in the world’: 8% say they’re gay or bisexual https://www.lifesitenews.com/news/the-uk-ha-elected-the-gayest-parliament-in-the-world-8-say-theyre-gay-or-bisexual
What you need to know about the Olivia Nicole Duffin TikTok biphobia drama https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/sex/a30292626/olivia-nicole-duffin-tik-tok-biphobia-ex-boyfriend-liam-casey/
Julie d’Aubigny https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Julie_d%27Aubigny
Two Bi Guys https://www.twobiguys.com/
Jen Winston http://instagram.com/jenerous

TIME STAMPS

Our Resolutions 00:49
How to Set Resolutions 9:13
History of Resolutions 12:08
Uh, Do Resolutions Work? 14:55
How to Keep On Track 15:49
Queer Resolutions 19:11
Listener Mail 39:56
Bilights (Bisexual News) 41:18
Bi History 46:04
Adbice 50:18