
168. Margin Makes Room for Intimacy
09/04/23 • 28 min
You were made for intimate connection; with God, with your spouse, with your family and friends. Yet, in the culture of busyness, you may find yourself pulled in so many directions, the noise of life and doing all the things begins to drown out the ability to cultivate true connection.
Margin is required for deep intimacy. We’re going to talk about how to create margin on purpose and start taking ground in creating deep connection and intimacy. Whether you are newly wed, in the thick of raising kids or in the empty nest stage, creating margin is season to season. It’s never easy and it doesn’t happen naturally, but you CAN find rhythms of margin in your season of life.
Related Episodes:
Inner Healing, Sri Lankan Honeymoon & Sex for a Year, Ep 1
Keys to Our Most Fruitful Habit- Date Night Every Night, Ep 48
How Taking Hotel Dates Helps My Marriage Connection, Ep 126
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You’re Invited:
Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle
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You were made for intimate connection; with God, with your spouse, with your family and friends. Yet, in the culture of busyness, you may find yourself pulled in so many directions, the noise of life and doing all the things begins to drown out the ability to cultivate true connection.
Margin is required for deep intimacy. We’re going to talk about how to create margin on purpose and start taking ground in creating deep connection and intimacy. Whether you are newly wed, in the thick of raising kids or in the empty nest stage, creating margin is season to season. It’s never easy and it doesn’t happen naturally, but you CAN find rhythms of margin in your season of life.
Related Episodes:
Inner Healing, Sri Lankan Honeymoon & Sex for a Year, Ep 1
Keys to Our Most Fruitful Habit- Date Night Every Night, Ep 48
How Taking Hotel Dates Helps My Marriage Connection, Ep 126
Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry:
Let’s keep the message moving. Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here.
You’re Invited:
Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle
Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music:
Connect with Francie:
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Reframe Conversation: Masturbation (#167)
Is masturbation right or wrong? There’s a healthy pause that comes with answering this question because it’s quite layered and there isn’t scripture that provides a firm answer. Yet, we know that all things are permissible, but not all things are beneficial.
In this conversation we’ll take a bigger picture view at the issues involved. Touching yourself or doing something in private that you want to keep secret is riddled with shame and not helpful to your marriage connection. On the contrary, the idea of believing your body is good as you desire body awareness and self cultivation for the sake of sharing it with your husband can be beneficial and promote healthy connection.
Listen in and bring this conversation to the Lord and your own marriage.
Resources Mentioned:
Unlock Your Orgasm: Through a Christian Lens, Bonny Burns
Related Episodes:
Pleasure & Orgasm with Bonny Burns, Ep 136 Female Sexuality & Growth with Nancy Houston, Ep 157 Pleasure Series Pt. 2: Female Anatomy, Orgasm 101 and Guiding Your Husband to Your Pleasure with with Dr. Jennifer Degler, Ep 93You’re Invited:
Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle
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Connect with Francie:
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169. Overcoming Vaginismus & Painful Sex with Jess Seitz
Painful intercourse, known medically as vaginismus, is more common than you may believe. In today’s episode, you’ll hear a beautiful testimony of hope and recovery from Jess Seitz, founder of Pain Free Intimacy. Jess shares her story with grace and vulnerability in a refreshing and hopeful manner. You will hear about the mind, body, spirit connection and the importance of integration and connecting to your story, which may or may not be informed by trauma.
God made your body wonderfully. You are not broken and you are certainly not alone.
About Jess:
Jess Seitz is an occupational therapist who specializes in pelvic health and vaginismus recovery. In her ministry, Pain Free Intimacy, Jess helps women find freedom and confidence through a comprehensive & holistic approach to break free from the mind-body-pain cycle of vaginismus to heal emotionally & physically so they can finally enjoy beautiful & fun sex the way God designed it to be. Jess’s passion and hope is for women to have pain-free, great sex without compromising their morals or complicating their recovery. Learn more at Pain Free Intimacy.
Related Episodes:
Healing and Growing through Sex Therapy with Tish Hedger, Ep 103
Your Wonderful Female Body - Pelvic Floor Health with Dr. Tanya Rowenhorst, Pt 1, Ep 115
Painful Intercourse and Vaginismus, Ep 147
Finding Breakthrough from Anxiety, Ep 134
Donate to the Heaven in Your Home Ministry:
Let’s keep the message moving. Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here.
You’re Invited:
Keep learning with Francie! Join the Discipleship Circle group mentorship. This is a SWEET community of women, connected with the purpose of seeking God’s heart for their reclaiming a redeemed view of sex and sexuality. Inside the circle, we will explore and discover the good news about God’s heart for sex. Learn more here: Discipleship Circle
Listen to Heaven in Your Home Family Music:
Connect with Francie:
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