Uncovering the Lies We Believe About Our Wife

06/10/24 • 14 min

Welcome back to the Heart Of A Husband podcast! In this second episode, host Paul dives into a crucial topic that many married couples face: the lies we believe about our spouses. These subtle whispers can erode trust and intimacy in our marriages if left unchecked.

Paul shares personal stories and insights about how these lies can take root in our minds and affect our relationships. Learn practical tips to identify and combat these untruths, including a powerful method to discern which thoughts to listen to and which to discard.

This week’s episode also features two engaging segments:

Husbands Want to Know: Paul answers a listener's question on how to support your wife during tough times, introducing the helpful acronym L.O.V.E.
Love My Wife This Week Moment: Discover practical ways to show love and vulnerability to your wife, strengthening your marriage daily.

Join us for this enlightening discussion and equip yourself with the tools to lead your marriage with love, truth, and faith.

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DC Talk - Nu Thang
Come - freedomhouse

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This week’s episode also features two engaging segments:

Husbands Want to Know: Paul answers a listener's question on how to support your wife during tough times, introducing the helpful acronym L.O.V.E.
Love My Wife This Week Moment: Discover practical ways to show love and vulnerability to your wife, strengthening your marriage daily.

Join us for this enlightening discussion and equip yourself with the tools to lead your marriage with love, truth, and faith.

Don’t miss out—subscribe, share, and reach out with your questions!
Today's music samples:
DC Talk - Nu Thang
Come - freedomhouse

Support the show

Stay connected with at www.heartofahusband.com

A special thanks to Matt Soriano at Index Productions with all of the help in the production if this podcast. Learn more about Index Productions at www.indexvideoproduction.com

Previous Episode

An Introduction

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Welcome to the very first episode of "Heart of a Husband"! I'm thrilled to embark on this journey with you as we explore what it means to love our wives sacrificially, following the example of Jesus. In this introductory episode, I'll share the vision behind the podcast and what you can expect in the weeks to come. Together, we'll dive deep into the heart of a husband, discovering how we can lead our homes with love, integrity, and grace.

As we kick off this series, I encourage you to reflect on how you can demonstrate sacrificial love to your wife this week. Think about small, meaningful ways to serve and cherish her, showing her the depth of your commitment and affection.

Don't forget to subscribe to "Heart of a Husband" so you won't miss any future episodes. Join our growing community of husbands dedicated to loving their families well and becoming the leaders God has called us to be. Let's walk this path together, strengthening our marriages and deepening our faith. You can learn more at www.heartofahusband.com.

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Revitalize Your Marriage with Prayer

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Welcome back to Heart Of A Husband, where we explore the journey of being a husband who loves and leads like Jesus. I’m your host, Paul Harris. Today, we're diving into a topic that can truly transform your marriage – the power of praying for our wives. 🙏💕

In this episode, we'll cover:

Understanding Empathy in Prayer: Jesus prays for us with deep empathy because He understands our struggles. Hebrews 2:18 reminds us that because He Himself suffered when tempted, He is able to help those who are being tempted. This empathy is crucial in how we should pray for our wives. When we pray with empathy, we connect with their struggles and needs on a deeper level.

Feeling disconnected or even upset with your wife? Learn why praying for her, especially out loud during tough times, can change everything. It's easy to pray when things are great, but the true power lies in praying during the hardest moments. Just like Jesus prayed for us on the cross, we can pray for our wives with humility and empathy.

I’ll share a personal story of a husband who was struggling in his marriage but saw a transformation when he started praying for his wife out loud, reflecting 1 John 4:18's teaching that perfect love casts out fear.

Practical Steps to Pray for Our Wives:

Ask How You Can Pray: Directly ask your wife about her prayer needs.
Pray Out Loud: Experience the power of spoken words and physical touch. Proverbs 18:21 and Mark 16:18 guide us to speak life and healing.
Daily Prayer Routine: Make it a habit to pray for your wife each night before bed. Try this for a month and witness the change.
Avoid Condemnation: Instead of focusing on changes you want in your wife, invite the Holy Spirit into your marriage and pray God’s heart over her.

In the final segment, Husband’s Love Challenge, commit to asking your wife how you can pray for her each night this week. Hold her hand, pray out loud, and express your love for her in front of God. This simple act can bring you closer together and invite God's presence into your marriage.

Tune in and transform your marriage through the power of prayer. 🙏❤️
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