
Heart Of A Husband
Paul Harris
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Welcome to "Heart Of A Husband", the podcast dedicated to exploring the journey of becoming a husband who loves his wife with the selflessness and devotion exemplified by Christ's love for the church. Join us as we delve into meaningful discussions about fostering communication, nurturing emotional intimacy, and embracing sacrificial love within marriage.
Our podcast combines biblical wisdom with real-life stories and practical advice. Each episode features insights from experts in relationships, marriage counseling, and theology, as well as heartfelt conversations with couples who have embraced this transformative love in their own lives.
Whether you're newly married or celebrating years of togetherness, Heart Of A Husband offers a safe space to learn, grow, and connect. Tune in bi-weekly as we share strategies, stories, and inspiration to empower husbands to build lasting, Christ-centered marriages.
Subscribe now to embark on this journey of love and partnership. Let's create marriages that reflect the beauty of Christ's love for us.
Follow us on @heartofahusband on all social media platforms to stay connected and join the conversation. Together, we'll strive to be husbands who cherish, honor, and love our wives in profound and enduring ways.
Heart of a Husband Inc. is a 501(c)(3) organization committed to encouraging and empowering men to become the husbands and fathers they were designed to be. You can learn more at www.heartofahusband.com.
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The Disconnect Dilemma: Rebuilding Intimacy in Marriage
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10/21/24 • 35 min
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In this episode of Heart of a Husband, we dive into one of the most challenging yet important areas of marriage: intimacy. When Adam and Eve were first created, they were naked and unashamed, but after sin entered, shame followed. Many husbands and wives today experience a similar disconnect, feeling distant emotionally and physically in their relationship. But there's hope.
Join us as we explore the deep connection between emotional and physical intimacy, the struggles that both husbands and wives face in this area, and how we can begin to rebuild that closeness. We’ll discuss how shame and stress can hinder intimacy, why understanding your wife’s emotional needs is crucial, and how Jesus took on our shame to restore not only our relationship with God but also our relationships with each other.
Plus, in our Husbands Want to Know segment, we answer a listener question about how to make time for intimacy in the midst of life’s busyness. And don’t miss the Husband’s Love Challenge—a practical step you can take this week to rebuild emotional and physical connection in your marriage.
Whether you're feeling the weight of disconnection or want to strengthen your bond with your wife, this episode offers insight and encouragement. Let’s grow together in loving our wives as Christ loves the church.
Thank you for joining us on this episode of the Heart Of A Husband podcast. If you found today's discussion helpful, please subscribe to the podcast and share it with other husbands who could benefit from this message. We love hearing from you, so don't hesitate to reach out with your questions and thoughts.
Stay connected with at www.heartofahusband.com
A special thanks to Matt Soriano at Index Productions with all of the help in the production if this podcast. Learn more about Index Productions at www.indexvideoproduction.com
You can also support the show by leaving a review on your favorite podcast platform and by purchasing a copy Heart Of A Husband: Discover What It Means To Love Your Wife Like Christ Loves The Church.
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Walking in the Spirit in Marriage
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02/03/25 • 21 min
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In this episode of Heart of a Husband, we’re kicking off a multi-episode series on Living Out the Fruit of the Spirit in Your Home. Today, we’re diving into Love, Joy, and Peace—three foundational qualities that can transform your marriage. How do you truly love your wife like Christ loves the church? What does it look like to cultivate joy and contentment in your home, even when life is challenging? And how can you become a peacemaker in your marriage, leading with wisdom and grace?
Over the next few episodes, we’ll be discovering how to live out the Fruit of the Spirit in practical, real-life ways, helping you become the husband and leader God has called you to be.
Make sure to subscribe and share this episode with another husband who needs encouragement. And if you’d like to learn more about how to partner with Heart of a Husband Inc., visit www.heartofahusband.com.
Thank you for joining us on this episode of the Heart Of A Husband podcast. If you found today's discussion helpful, please subscribe to the podcast and share it with other husbands who could benefit from this message. We love hearing from you, so don't hesitate to reach out with your questions and thoughts.
Stay connected with at www.heartofahusband.com
A special thanks to Matt Soriano at Index Productions with all of the help in the production if this podcast. Learn more about Index Productions at www.indexvideoproduction.com
You can also support the show by leaving a review on your favorite podcast platform and by purchasing a copy Heart Of A Husband: Discover What It Means To Love Your Wife Like Christ Loves The Church.
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Pursue God, Pursue Your Wife: Prioritizing What Truly Matters
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07/22/24 • 22 min
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In this week's episode of Heart Of A Husband, we explore the powerful connection between pursuing God and prioritizing your wife. Many husbands believe that working hard, paying bills, and keeping the house in order are the ultimate acts of love. However, our wives often need more—affirming words, gentle touch, and undivided time.
Join host Paul as he dives deep into what it means to truly prioritize your wife by asking her a simple yet impactful question each day: "Do you need helped, hugged, or heard?" Discover how this practice can transform your marriage, making your wife feel seen, heard, and valued.
We'll discuss the biblical foundation for this approach, drawing from passages like Ephesians 5:25-28 and Luke 9:23, and provide practical steps to implement it in your daily life. In our "Husband's Want to Know" segment, we'll address a listener's struggle with feelings of resentment when his efforts seem unappreciated. Plus, we'll introduce this week's "Husband's Love Challenge," encouraging you to start each morning by asking your wife what she needs and responding accordingly.
Tune in for insightful discussion, real-life stories, and actionable advice that will help you grow as a husband and follower of Christ. Let's embark on this journey together to love our wives as Christ loves the church.
Thank you for joining us on this episode of the Heart Of A Husband podcast. If you found today's discussion helpful, please subscribe to the podcast and share it with other husbands who could benefit from this message. We love hearing from you, so don't hesitate to reach out with your questions and thoughts.
Stay connected with at www.heartofahusband.com
A special thanks to Matt Soriano at Index Productions with all of the help in the production if this podcast. Learn more about Index Productions at www.indexvideoproduction.com
You can also support the show by leaving a review on your favorite podcast platform and by purchasing a copy Heart Of A Husband: Discover What It Means To Love Your Wife Like Christ Loves The Church.
Join our Support Group for Christian Husbands on Facebook

Marriage Through the Generations: The Newlywed Years
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03/24/25 • 41 min
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In the first episode of our brand-new series Marriage Through the Generations, we sit down with Josh Hinzman, a local pastor from Nixa, Missouri, who has been married for nearly three years.
Josh opens up about the expectations he brought into marriage, the growth he’s experienced, and the lessons he’s learning as a young husband learning to lead with love. From communication struggles to spiritual unity, Josh shares what it’s really like in the early years of marriage—and how his faith has shaped the way he shows up for his wife.
Whether you're newly married, preparing for marriage, or reflecting on your own journey, this honest conversation will challenge, inspire, and encourage you to keep growing.
💬 Topics Covered:
- The reality of the first few years of marriage
- Common struggles and how to grow through them
- Learning to lead your wife with humility and love
- The role of faith in building a strong foundation
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👉 Stay tuned next week as we talk to a husband married 15 years about how marriage evolves over time and how he and his wife navigated marriage throughout this journey.
Thank you for joining us on this episode of the Heart Of A Husband podcast. If you found today's discussion helpful, please subscribe to the podcast and share it with other husbands who could benefit from this message. We love hearing from you, so don't hesitate to reach out with your questions and thoughts.
Stay connected with at www.heartofahusband.com
A special thanks to Matt Soriano at Index Productions with all of the help in the production if this podcast. Learn more about Index Productions at www.indexvideoproduction.com
You can also support the show by leaving a review on your favorite podcast platform and by purchasing a copy Heart Of A Husband: Discover What It Means To Love Your Wife Like Christ Loves The Church.
Join our Support Group for Christian Husbands on Facebook

Keeping the Covenant: Living Out Your Marriage Vows Daily
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10/28/24 • 22 min
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n this episode of Heart of a Husband, we dive deep into what it means to keep the marriage vows we made at the altar. Marriage isn’t just a contract—it’s a covenant before God and our spouse. Join us as we reflect on the promises we made to love, honor, and cherish, and explore how to live these commitments out every day. Are you keeping the heart of your vows, or have you drifted from those words over time? Discover practical ways to renew your commitment, strengthen your marriage, and lead with love as Christ loves the Church. This episode includes actionable steps, scriptural insights from the ESV, and our weekly Husband's Love Challenge to help you become the husband you are called to be.
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Thank you for joining us on this episode of the Heart Of A Husband podcast. If you found today's discussion helpful, please subscribe to the podcast and share it with other husbands who could benefit from this message. We love hearing from you, so don't hesitate to reach out with your questions and thoughts.
Stay connected with at www.heartofahusband.com
A special thanks to Matt Soriano at Index Productions with all of the help in the production if this podcast. Learn more about Index Productions at www.indexvideoproduction.com
You can also support the show by leaving a review on your favorite podcast platform and by purchasing a copy Heart Of A Husband: Discover What It Means To Love Your Wife Like Christ Loves The Church.
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Walking in the Spirit in Marriage: Part 2
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02/24/25 • 33 min
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In this episode of Heart of a Husband, we’re continuing our multi-episode series on Living Out the Fruit of the Spirit in Marriage. This week, we’re diving into Patience, Kindness, and Goodness—three powerful qualities that can transform how you lead, love, and serve your wife.
✅ Patience – How to stay calm and present, even in frustrating moments.
✅ Kindness – The small, everyday actions that build intimacy and trust.
✅ Goodness – Living with integrity and leading your marriage with character.
As husbands, we are called to reflect Christ’s love in the way we treat our wives—especially when life gets tough. In this episode, we’ll unpack practical ways to grow in these traits and build a home filled with grace and strength.
💬 Don’t just listen—take action! This week’s challenge will help you put patience, kindness, and goodness into practice in your marriage.
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Thank you for joining us on this episode of the Heart Of A Husband podcast. If you found today's discussion helpful, please subscribe to the podcast and share it with other husbands who could benefit from this message. We love hearing from you, so don't hesitate to reach out with your questions and thoughts.
Stay connected with at www.heartofahusband.com
A special thanks to Matt Soriano at Index Productions with all of the help in the production if this podcast. Learn more about Index Productions at www.indexvideoproduction.com
You can also support the show by leaving a review on your favorite podcast platform and by purchasing a copy Heart Of A Husband: Discover What It Means To Love Your Wife Like Christ Loves The Church.
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Lead Like Jesus: The Power of Serving Your Family as a Husband
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10/14/24 • 30 min
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In this episode of Heart Of A Husband, we explore one of the most powerful truths about leadership in marriage: true leadership begins with service. Inspired by the ultimate example of Christ, who came not to be served but to serve, we’ll dive into what it means for Christian husbands to lead their families by putting their needs first.
Discover practical ways to serve your wife and children while still leading with authority and love. We’ll break down how biblical leadership is rooted in humility, and how husbands can create a thriving home by reflecting the heart of Jesus in their everyday actions. Whether you’re struggling to balance work, faith, and family life or looking to deepen your connection with your spouse, this episode offers encouragement and actionable steps to help you live out your calling as a husband.
Key Topics:
- The biblical foundation for servant leadership in marriage
- How to practically serve your family without losing sight of your leadership role
- The impact of small, consistent acts of service on your marriage
- Real-life examples of leading like Jesus in the home
Join us as we learn to lead like Jesus and transform our homes through the power of servant leadership.
Thank you for joining us on this episode of the Heart Of A Husband podcast. If you found today's discussion helpful, please subscribe to the podcast and share it with other husbands who could benefit from this message. We love hearing from you, so don't hesitate to reach out with your questions and thoughts.
Stay connected with at www.heartofahusband.com
A special thanks to Matt Soriano at Index Productions with all of the help in the production if this podcast. Learn more about Index Productions at www.indexvideoproduction.com
You can also support the show by leaving a review on your favorite podcast platform and by purchasing a copy Heart Of A Husband: Discover What It Means To Love Your Wife Like Christ Loves The Church.
Join our Support Group for Christian Husbands on Facebook

Walking in the Spirit in Marriage: Part 3
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03/10/25 • 29 min
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In the final episode of our Walking in the Spirit in Your Marriage series, we focus on three essential fruits that can transform your relationship: faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. These qualities are not just ideals but daily choices that strengthen your commitment, deepen your connection, and bring peace to your home.
In this episode, we’ll explore:
- Faithfulness – Staying steadfast in your love and commitment, even when marriage feels hard.
- Gentleness – Responding with kindness and patience, even in moments of frustration.
- Self-Control – Choosing love over anger, discipline over impulse, and wisdom over emotion.
Marriage is a daily journey of surrendering to the Spirit and allowing Him to shape us into husbands who lead with integrity and love.
💡 Husband’s Love Challenge: This week, practice self-control in how you respond to your wife, choose gentleness in your words and actions, and remind her through your faithfulness that she is deeply loved and valued.
🎧 Tune in now and take the next step toward becoming the husband God has called you to be!
Thank you for joining us on this episode of the Heart Of A Husband podcast. If you found today's discussion helpful, please subscribe to the podcast and share it with other husbands who could benefit from this message. We love hearing from you, so don't hesitate to reach out with your questions and thoughts.
Stay connected with at www.heartofahusband.com
A special thanks to Matt Soriano at Index Productions with all of the help in the production if this podcast. Learn more about Index Productions at www.indexvideoproduction.com
You can also support the show by leaving a review on your favorite podcast platform and by purchasing a copy Heart Of A Husband: Discover What It Means To Love Your Wife Like Christ Loves The Church.
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Uncovering the Lies We Believe About Our Wife
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06/10/24 • 14 min
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Welcome back to the Heart Of A Husband podcast! In this second episode, host Paul dives into a crucial topic that many married couples face: the lies we believe about our spouses. These subtle whispers can erode trust and intimacy in our marriages if left unchecked.
Paul shares personal stories and insights about how these lies can take root in our minds and affect our relationships. Learn practical tips to identify and combat these untruths, including a powerful method to discern which thoughts to listen to and which to discard.
This week’s episode also features two engaging segments:
- Husbands Want to Know: Paul answers a listener's question on how to support your wife during tough times, introducing the helpful acronym L.O.V.E.
- Love My Wife This Week Moment: Discover practical ways to show love and vulnerability to your wife, strengthening your marriage daily.
Join us for this enlightening discussion and equip yourself with the tools to lead your marriage with love, truth, and faith.
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Thank you for joining us on this episode of the Heart Of A Husband podcast. If you found today's discussion helpful, please subscribe to the podcast and share it with other husbands who could benefit from this message. We love hearing from you, so don't hesitate to reach out with your questions and thoughts.
Stay connected with at www.heartofahusband.com
A special thanks to Matt Soriano at Index Productions with all of the help in the production if this podcast. Learn more about Index Productions at www.indexvideoproduction.com
You can also support the show by leaving a review on your favorite podcast platform and by purchasing a copy Heart Of A Husband: Discover What It Means To Love Your Wife Like Christ Loves The Church.
Join our Support Group for Christian Husbands on Facebook

How Do I Get My "Proverbs 31 wife"?
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09/23/24 • 22 min
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In this episode of Heart of a Husband, we explore one of the most frequently asked questions by Christian husbands: "How do I help my wife become a Proverbs 31 woman?" The answer lies not in trying to shape her but in following the example of Christ's sacrificial love. Drawing from Ephesians 5:25-27, we discuss how a husband’s Christlike love creates the environment where his wife can flourish spiritually, emotionally, and mentally—transforming her into the noble, capable woman described in Proverbs 31. We’ll break down practical ways you can lead and love your wife, from daily acts of sacrifice to speaking life over her, so she can grow into the woman God designed her to be. Join us for powerful insights and a "Husband's Love Challenge" that will inspire you to become the leader God has called you to be in your marriage.
Thank you for joining us on this episode of the Heart Of A Husband podcast. If you found today's discussion helpful, please subscribe to the podcast and share it with other husbands who could benefit from this message. We love hearing from you, so don't hesitate to reach out with your questions and thoughts.
Stay connected with at www.heartofahusband.com
A special thanks to Matt Soriano at Index Productions with all of the help in the production if this podcast. Learn more about Index Productions at www.indexvideoproduction.com
You can also support the show by leaving a review on your favorite podcast platform and by purchasing a copy Heart Of A Husband: Discover What It Means To Love Your Wife Like Christ Loves The Church.
Join our Support Group for Christian Husbands on Facebook
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FAQ
How many episodes does Heart Of A Husband have?
Heart Of A Husband currently has 33 episodes available.
What topics does Heart Of A Husband cover?
The podcast is about Christianity, Society & Culture, Christian Men, Religion & Spirituality, Christian Leadership, Podcasts and Relationships.
What is the most popular episode on Heart Of A Husband?
The episode title 'An Introduction' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on Heart Of A Husband?
The average episode length on Heart Of A Husband is 25 minutes.
How often are episodes of Heart Of A Husband released?
Episodes of Heart Of A Husband are typically released every 7 days, 4 hours.
When was the first episode of Heart Of A Husband?
The first episode of Heart Of A Husband was released on Apr 12, 2024.
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