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Guards Down - Overcoming Complicated Grief and PTSD through Culturally Sensitive Therapy Hosted by Greg Washington - Living On The Other Side - Jason Holzer

Living On The Other Side - Jason Holzer

08/24/20 • 47 min

Guards Down - Overcoming Complicated Grief and PTSD through Culturally Sensitive Therapy Hosted by Greg Washington

Today I had the pleasure of speaking with storyteller, speaker, teacher, and basketball coach, Jason Holzer.

Let's dive into Jason's story of how learning forgiveness is the first step toward moving forward.

[00:01 – 2:00] Opening Segment

  • Jason gives a little bit of his backstory

[02:01 – 10:33] Dealing with Trauma and Grief

  • Growing up, were you taught how to deal with trauma and grief?
  • Jason weighs in on the cultural differences in coping with trauma

[10:34 – 16:46] The Collateral Damage Caused by Trauma

  • Jason talks about the collateral damages he dealt with after losing his father
  • Jason talks about learning to be resilient from his experiences
  • Quick shoutout to our Facebook Page

[16:47 – 26:15] Living On The Other Side

  • Jason talks about the toughest part of his journey
  • Jason shares his journey to healing and forgiveness

[26:16 – 38:43] Coaching and Writing a Book

  • Jason talks about his coaching career
  • Jason talks about the inspiration behind his book

[38:44 – 47:50] Closing Segment

  • Looking back, do you see the growth in yourself from 17 to now?
  • What advice would you give your kids or younger generations?
    • "The first step to greatness is acknowledging where you're at, but knowing that you don't have to stay there."
  • Connect with Jason online. See the links below.
  • Final words of encouragement from Jason

Tweetable Quotes:

"It's not always about the wins and losses. Sports gives us an atmosphere to teach life lessons." – Jason Holzer

"You can't change anything in the past; it is what it is. But you can change your future, every day we have a choice." - Jason Holzer

Resources Mentioned:

You can connect with Jason on LinkedIn, Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram. Grab a copy of his book at Amazon or listen to it on Audible.

LEAVE A REVIEW + help someone who wants to explode their business growth by sharing this episode or click here to listen to our previous episodes. Support our show, follow us on Facebook

Guards Down Create a safe, culturally aware community for people of diverse backgrounds to find resources and support about living with PTSD and complicated grief. Many of us have dealt with it. Some are doing better than others. Let's share stories. Let's share tips and techniques that have helped. Let's inspire. Let's join together and help each other. Visit our Facebook Page to learn more.

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Today I had the pleasure of speaking with storyteller, speaker, teacher, and basketball coach, Jason Holzer.

Let's dive into Jason's story of how learning forgiveness is the first step toward moving forward.

[00:01 – 2:00] Opening Segment

  • Jason gives a little bit of his backstory

[02:01 – 10:33] Dealing with Trauma and Grief

  • Growing up, were you taught how to deal with trauma and grief?
  • Jason weighs in on the cultural differences in coping with trauma

[10:34 – 16:46] The Collateral Damage Caused by Trauma

  • Jason talks about the collateral damages he dealt with after losing his father
  • Jason talks about learning to be resilient from his experiences
  • Quick shoutout to our Facebook Page

[16:47 – 26:15] Living On The Other Side

  • Jason talks about the toughest part of his journey
  • Jason shares his journey to healing and forgiveness

[26:16 – 38:43] Coaching and Writing a Book

  • Jason talks about his coaching career
  • Jason talks about the inspiration behind his book

[38:44 – 47:50] Closing Segment

  • Looking back, do you see the growth in yourself from 17 to now?
  • What advice would you give your kids or younger generations?
    • "The first step to greatness is acknowledging where you're at, but knowing that you don't have to stay there."
  • Connect with Jason online. See the links below.
  • Final words of encouragement from Jason

Tweetable Quotes:

"It's not always about the wins and losses. Sports gives us an atmosphere to teach life lessons." – Jason Holzer

"You can't change anything in the past; it is what it is. But you can change your future, every day we have a choice." - Jason Holzer

Resources Mentioned:

You can connect with Jason on LinkedIn, Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram. Grab a copy of his book at Amazon or listen to it on Audible.

LEAVE A REVIEW + help someone who wants to explode their business growth by sharing this episode or click here to listen to our previous episodes. Support our show, follow us on Facebook

Guards Down Create a safe, culturally aware community for people of diverse backgrounds to find resources and support about living with PTSD and complicated grief. Many of us have dealt with it. Some are doing better than others. Let's share stories. Let's share tips and techniques that have helped. Let's inspire. Let's join together and help each other. Visit our Facebook Page to learn more.

Support the show

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undefined - Learning About Purpose - Ben Bateman

Learning About Purpose - Ben Bateman

I had the pleasure of speaking to my good friend and West Point classmate, Ben Bateman. Ben was deployed twice overseas, then took off from the military and is currently working at Los Alamos National Laboratory to help with the Nuclear Deterrence mission.

Let’s dive into Ben’s Story and learn how he found his purpose outside of service.

[00:01 – 07:25] Opening Segment

  • Ben talks about his background
  • Ben talks about his inspiration to pursue his path in the military

[07:26 – 22:10] Dealing with Trauma and Grief

  • Ben shares about his first loss in the Military
    • How losing his closest friends made him a great leader
  • Ben talks about his attitude as a leader
    • Developing a good relationship with your platoon
  • Ben shares how he dealt with the strong emotions he felt

[22:11 – 0:0] Coping with Trauma and Grief

  • Ben talks about opening yourself up to other people
  • Ben talks about educating yourself to better cope with Trauma and Grief
  • Ben talks about identifying the signs of PTSD and Grief
  • Quick shoutout to our Facebook page
  • Ben talks about the importance of communication

[34:32 – 41:50] Learning about Purpose

  • Ben talks about the toughest part of his Journey
    • Conflicts of his values to his duty as a soldier
  • Ben talks about how to support a person dealing with Trauma and Grief
    • Reach out and talk to them

[41:51 – 48:33] Hurting Anyone During the process

  • Ben shares how he made amends with people he hurt while dealing with Trauma
  • Ben talks about his motivation to continue to serve and do his part to help his country

[48:34 – 53:39] Closing Segment

  • Any words of encouragement and last thoughts?
    • If they need help, come forward.
    • PTSD affects everyone
  • Ben talks about finding your purpose in the community
  • Final words of encouragement from Ben

Tweetable Quotes:

“We always have to do the best we can, and a big part of that was me doing the best I could to lead by example.” - Ben Bateman

“You can’t let things bother you, you just gotta focus on the task at hand.” - Ben Bateman

“I might not wear an army uniform anymore, but I’m still serving, I still took an oath, I’m still doing my part to help America be better.” - Ben Bateman

Resources Mentioned:

You can connect with Ben on Facebook and Linkedin. Send him an email at [email protected]

LEAVE A REVIEW + help someone who wants to explode their business growth by sharing this episode or click here to listen to our previous episodes. Support our show, follow us on Facebook

Guards Down Create a safe, culturally aware community for people of diverse backgrounds to find resources and support about living with PTSD and complicated grief. Many of us have dealt with it. Some are doing better than others. Let's share stories. Let's share tips and techniques that have helped. Let's inspire. Let's join together and help each other. Visit our Facebook Page to learn more.

Support the show

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undefined - Reaching Your Boiling Point - Eric Owens

Reaching Your Boiling Point - Eric Owens

Today I had the pleasure of speaking with the military, and program manager at Veritiv Corporation, Eric Owens.

Let’s dive into Eric’s story of how important acceptance is in your process of healing.

Things you will learn in this episode:

[00:01 – 04:14] Opening Segment

  • Eric talks about his background
    • Went to West Point Academy
    • Served in the military
    • Now works in corporate America

[04:15 – 27:23] Dealing with Trauma and Grief

  • Growing up, were you taught how to deal with trauma and grief?
    • Eric talks about what it was like growing up in their household
  • Learning coping skills from his parents
  • Eric talks about all the trauma and grief he had to deal with
    • Shares stories from his deployments.
  • Quick shoutout to our Facebook Page
  • Accepting that something is wrong with him psychologically.

[27:24 – 36:15] Taking Some Time Off

  • I reflect on Eric’s story and share some of the relatable experiences I had
  • Eric weighs in on experiencing things on the battlefield that you were not taught how to deal with
    • We just had to keep going

[36:16 – 43:15] Coping with Trauma and Grief

  • What coping skills or techniques did you learn and use, both healthy and unhealthy?
    • Eric shares how he coped with his trauma and grief
  • What caused you to correct your destructive behaviors?
  • Eric shares advice on how you can deal with your trauma and grief or help someone.
  • Seeking professional help, did it matter what their background was?
    • “No. I didn’t really care what they look like.”

[43:16 - 50:06] Closing Segment

  • What advice would you give your younger self or someone going through the same things you did?
    • “You don’t have to try to pick up the whole world and carry it yourself.”
    • “Have somebody you can talk to.”
    • “Do something that is positive.”
  • Eric shares some resources that helped him in his journey
    • Veterans Affairs Centers
  • Final words of encouragement from Eric

Tweetable Quotes:

“As long as you are doing the right thing, you can’t go wrong.” – Greg Washington

“If you allow yourself to be vulnerable and let people help you identify the problems that are going on. That’s the only path to anything getting better and finding a resolution for the long term. You can always solve things in the short term, but if you truly let yourself be vulnerable and be honest to others about the problems that you’re having, things will start to get better.” – Eric Owens

You can connect with Eric online, follow him on LinkedIn.

LEAVE A REVIEW + help someone who wants to explode their business growth by sharing this episode or click here to listen to our previous episodes. Support our show, follow us on Facebook.

Guards Down Create a safe, culturally aware community for people of diverse backgrounds to find resources and support about living with PTSD and complicated grief. Many of us have dealt with it. Some are doing better than others. Let's share stories. Let's share tips and techniques that have helped. Let's inspire. Let's join together and help each other. Visit our Facebook Page to learn more.

Support the show

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